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Guys: pretty face? or fit body?

Q.   This question is directed to guys on the site really...but I was just wondering whether guys are more attracted by a pretty face or a fit body? ...Not that it matters eventually when you find love but which is initially more attractive?...

A.   23 August 2009: Pretty face in my opinion..... (read in full...)

Guys: How do you forget your girls so easily?

Q.   It's getting really hard to forget him, here i am, at 7 in the morning crying over him, yet again. not the first time i'll admit. it's been 4 months since i spoke to him, and i came on myspace just now (what i'm about to say is really stupid) and i ...

A.   18 August 2009: Sadly, im a guy and i cant get over my ex :( Sometimes i am fine.. when im with my friends or i pretend to be fine. Usually, guys just hide their feelings and pretend not to feel anything, but when they are kissing that girl a week after the brea... (read in full...)

He doesn't trust me after I repeatedly cheated on him

Q.   I've been with this guy for almost 3 years and he's the love of my life. When we were together for about 6 months I cheated on him with two different people. We worked it out between us, but I didn't have much of a life for a while. When I did start ...

A.   13 August 2009: If u loved him how could you cheat on him? I can understand the trust problems.. which can be sorted out over time if you show him that you love him and that you would never do it again. However, the problem comes in that hes never going to have ... (read in full...)

How can a guy get over someone so easily? I broke up with him seven months ago and I'm still not over him!

Q.   Why is it so f**king easy for guys to get over their ex-girlfriends!? My ex and I broke up seven months ago after a two year relationship and I'm still not over him! He tells me he has only about a 5% emotional connection to me now and that ...

A.   13 July 2009: Just by the way.. It took me ages to get over my ex.. and that was only a shortish relationship. So its not all guys out there i promise. Go find yourself a keeper :) let him go... (read in full...)

I want my boyfriend to be with me 24/7..is that ok?

Q.   I've been dating this guy for about 6 months now, he lives with his older brother while I live at home with my parents. He is really good when it comes to calling me everyday to tell me what he's doing. He tells me that he loves me but that he also ...

A.   11 July 2009: Hey.. i know EXACTLY how u feel. I mean i love havin a good time with my friends and family but all i wanna do is be with and phone my girlfriend and i wish she could be like that towards me as well cos she can go days without talkin to me but a can ... (read in full...)

He's insecure and tries too hard all the time!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend 6 months. I love him and we get on well, apart from the fact that his insecurity and need to overcompensate is killing the relationship. I need someone to help me understand it all. My boyfriend is someone who tries too...

A.   11 July 2009: Ok i can understand exactly what you are going through, as i am a guy and i kind of know how he feels.. i was like him in the beginning of my relationship and then my gf spoke to me and it all got sorted :) The only way to get the point accross is t... (read in full...)

Confused! I want to end it before he hurts me more than the first time!

Q.   i was with him before, he broke up with me. now, after 7 months we're back together. even though that's what i wanted, i have not been happy. i feel as if i'm the one trying to keep the relationship alive. i've displayed some angry attitudes toward ...

A.   10 July 2009: End it. i promise that its the right thing to do! there are sooo many guys out there that would love to have girls like you.. so end it and find one of those guys :)... (read in full...)

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