I am pregnant and my boyfriend doesn't want me to have the baby.
Q. I'm 4 months pregnant my boyfriend wants me to have an abortion and I don't want to. Me and him have been fighting over it every night. When I first told him I was pregnant he was happy but now he doesn't want it. He said when his child is born he...
A. 12 February 2011: "He said when his child is born he's gonna kill it ! I don't wanna leave him he's so cute but I'm really scared."
Sorry but seriously?! I don't mean to sound harsh but come on! He's threatening the life of your unborn child...even if it's a joke t... (read in full...)
Erection problems since my injury
Q. I got shot in a car jacking about 4 months ago and had to have back surgery they put 2 rods in my back to hold my spine together. The dr released me back to work but I've been having major issues getting and keeping an erection. If I do get one it ...
A. 27 January 2011: I know that a trauamatic experience can cause a man to suffer from ED and that incident sounds extremely traumatic. I suggest seeking psychological help. ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid he'll leave me if he sees my stretch marks
Q. Can guys answer this please espically the younger ones thank you so I'm 17 ,my boyfriend and I have been sexualy active and we have been together for three months about to make four. So we have been doing the same positions for some time now an...
A. 27 January 2011: I'm sorry to say this but if he loves you enough he can look past it. I'm betting your stretchmarks are a lot more noticable to you than they are to others but if he will leave you over a few marks on your skin that you can't really help, do you ... (read in full...)
I don't want my boyfriend to see me with all of this acne!
Q. Hi all! Hope y'all are doing good! :) In a way this isn't a relationship type of question. But I really have bad acne, I have tried every thing to get rid of it and I don't know what to do to get rid of it. I have an online boyfriend, we ar...
A. 27 January 2011: I don't know where you're from, but where I stay you can go to a family planning clinic and get the pill. it helped me with my acne because it was caused by a hormone imbalance. at the family planning clinic, I do not have to pay a consultation fee, ... (read in full...)
My 19 year old boyfriend wet the bed! Why?
Q. PLEASE TELL ME WHATS WRONG! Me and my boyfriend are sort of living together for like 2 months. And he has an early shift so he gets up 06:00AM. (we sleep together). He woke me up and told me that he peed the bed! AND HE IS 19! HE seemed really f...
A. 27 January 2011: I don't think it's a problem if he's only done it once. All sorts of things can lead to an "accident" regardless of age. he could have even dramt he was on the toilet and needed to go in real life.
If it was a one time thing, then just let it g... (read in full...)
I want to be heterosexual but I don't know if I am, advice please!
Q. So, I'm 15 and sexually confused. I've only kind of liked one girl I've known, and that was this one brilliant/beautiful/charismatic girl that I knew in kindergarten, and I didn't even know her very well. Now I'm in highschool, and I don't think ...
A. 19 January 2011: OK... well I dated a gay guy, as messed up as that sounds. I think I was his beard and after I dumped him because he cheated on me.. WITH A GUY... I realised I shouldn't have been surprised.
You want people to think you're heterose... (read in full...)
Recently engaged,but fighting more then ever. Is this all a mistake?!
Q. My bf and I have been together for 3 years. He just got a house for us and then recently proposed to me. Of course I said yes, because I love him so much and can't imagine life without him...the only thing is we fight a lot. After the proposal I ...
A. 19 January 2011: I disagree... I rate, if things get really bad call off the engagement and then see where things go from there so you can make an accurate assessment of this relationhsip.
Getting engaged (like really engaged not teenage engaged) is taking t... (read in full...)
I'm 13 years old and pregnant. How do I tell my mum?
Q. last night i was talking to my boyfriend, and we were discussing about what will happen when i tell my parents im pregnant. im really scared because my mother and i are still not talking, its constant fighting and yelling, now even in front of my ...
A. 12 December 2010: It is completely natural not to get along with your parents at this time of your life, ie. your pubescent years but it sounds like your situation is a lot more complicated, even without the fact that you are pregnant.
Have you and your boyfrien... (read in full...)
My mum called me a whore for having sex aged 17, but she is the one with 12 kids all to different fathers!
Q. So today me and my bf had sex, anyway my mom found out because my sister is a snitch and she only looks for ways of getting me into trouble, anyway so my mom was bitching me out about having sex with my bf. She started calling me like a whore an...
A. 9 December 2010: yes, she's being hyporitical but maybe she doesn't want you to have her life... maybe she's scared of you turning into her.
Your not the first teenager to label his/her parent a hypocrite and most o the time they really are but they're still yo... (read in full...)
I feel like this relationship is a waste of time when all he does is play Warcraft!
Q. hey. ive been with my boyfriend a while now. and just recently he has been playin Warcraft a lot.. it doesnt bother me that he plays it.. but i only see him on weekends and just recently, he been just been playing this game for like 6 hours at a ...
A. 6 December 2010: Wow, I feel like i could have written this 3 years ago. You need to lay down the law and tell him, you wont come around if he's going to spend the whole time playing warcraft!
Slowly my bf and i came to a compromise and now he plays on weekends... (read in full...)
I'm falling in love with everyone!
Q. I was wondering if it is weird that i fall in love with like everybody? Just lately I have begun having strong feelings for guys that are like twice my age and totally ugly. Its kind of had to explain but once i meet a guy; no matter how ugly ...
A. 12 November 2010: Hey!
I can't say from self experience whether the crying at night is normal or not. Maybe you should think about seeing a therapist....?
but I do know that from around the onset of puberty, girls feel like every single infatuation is l... (read in full...)
Am I jealous of his ex or the fact that he has a child with her and not me?
Q. Do you think its normal to be jealous of your boyfriends ex girlfriend who he has a child for? I'm not sure if its her i'm jealous of or just the fact that he has a child with her and not with me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. ...
A. 8 November 2010: Yes, It is definately normal. When a normal relaitonhsip ends, people lose contact. your boyfriends ex is always going to be apart of his and their childs life which makes it difficult and a little awkward for you, especially being so young.
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Second date, still no intimacy, what am I doing wrong?
Q. So, went on a second date tonight with a girl. It started off well, went to "trivia night" at a bar, she was responsive, pretty indicative that we both are still into each other from the first date... However, as the night went on, it felt li...
A. 28 October 2010: I agree with xanthic... Give it time and take a chance. Maybe shes feeling exactly what you are. ... (read in full...)
How often should a boyfriend compliment his girlfriend?
Q. I'm in college and I'm curious to know how many times you compliment your girlfriend, or receive a compliment from your boyfriend. This is an on-going issues with my girlfriend because she says I don't compliment her enough. What's the norm? Once ...
A. 28 October 2010: Compliment her whenever you feel like she's done something worth complimenting. She probably has a loss self esteem or is insecure and wants reassurance.
If you don't feel like there's anything to compliment I rate don't lie but i know that it real... (read in full...)
Should I have gay sex with my best friend he is asking help me!!!!!!!
Q. i'm 15 and i know i'm bi but i've told a few people at my school and they told everyone now i'm getting teased but now that everyone knows a lot more gay and bi people ane coming out but now i keep getting asked by a mate of mine who is gay foe gay ...
A. 25 October 2010: I can guarantee that most people are thinking you are to young to be having gay or straight sex and it sounds as though your making your decision based on irrelevnat reasons.
If you're going to do it, you're going to do it. No one can stop you... (read in full...)
Do I really smell ok down there, or is he just saying that?
Q. My bf gives me oral quite a lot. And I always apologise if it's not fresh down there. But he always always "It's fine, don't worry" and continues about his business. Does he really think that or does he just do it not to offend me?...
A. 13 October 2010: If he didn't enjoy it, he probably wouldn't do it. Dirtball is right, maybe it turns him on.
I also get self conscious sometimes, but I know for a fact that my guy doesn't do what he doesn't enjoy doing, even if I enjoy it.... (read in full...)
Am I destined to die alone?
Q. I am a 25 year old architect who has reached utter despair in the quest of finding that special lady to grow old together... This sentence sums up my life quite well however; the reason I am writing is due to the fact that I have not been with ...
A. 13 October 2010: You are definately not destined to be alone forever. I know plenty of people who've only found "the one" around their 30's. People who when in school, concentrated on school, then in college, concentrated on that and then tried to build a bit of a ... (read in full...)
We had sex, he came in me, and I tried to wash it out. Will that work?
Q. hey i need help well my boyfriend cum in me and i dnt know what to do, im really scard . it happen today and i when in bath and whased it out, well i tryed, so wat i do. xx...
A. 13 October 2010: No, it will not prevent you from becoming pregnant. Maybe you should try and get the morning after pill incase you are now?
I suggest getting some form of contraception for the future. If possible, an IUCD device (a copper T that goes inside y... (read in full...)
How can I spice things up after having a baby?
Q. I have been with my guy for 5 years now and we are kind of happy.... We have a baby- heath. in the last 3 years he hasnt really been very afectionate towards me...when it comes down to having sex... he will only say "are we gonna have sex ...
A. 6 October 2010: I'm 21, have 2 kids with my fiance, so i know what you're going through, and I hope i can help.
do you have anyone who can babysit for you? If not maybe find a babysitter. If someone you trust can take care of your baby, then that will make you... (read in full...)
How do you tighten the vagina?
Q. Hi, Is there any means to get vagina tight after having sex 6-8 times in a month? it seems lill bit loose in vagina shape?...
A. 14 September 2010: That's weird... I have sex on average 6 times a week and have given natural birth twice and there's no difference in feeling for me or my fiance...
I've heard that learning to control those muscles by clenching them and when you are on the toil... (read in full...)
Never had sex, hymen broken am I still a virgin?
Q. I am a girl of 20 i have not had sex since i was given birth to but the last time i visited a gynacologist he told me that my hymen has been broken and each time am trying to go into a sex free relatioship with a guy they always aske if i am stil a ...
A. 27 August 2010: Your hymen can break from many diffferent things as lilpixie stated but losing your virginity is more an emotional expereicne than the actual physics of it all. You are indeed a virgin if you have never had sex. ... (read in full...)
I go through the motions and wait till its over, sex is not enjoyable
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and a half. To get straight to the point, our sex life has gone way down hill on my part. In the start of the relationship(yes, I know the "newness" may be gone...)we had sex nearly every ...
A. 27 August 2010: I don't know if I'm much help here but I'll give you my 2 cents. You have admitted that your unhappy with a lot of aspects of your life and of course this can affect you sex drive to the point that it becomes a problem. Stress might also cause... (read in full...)
How can I stop my husband playing pc games
Q. i just want to know how can i stop my gusband from playing pc games ...
A. 27 August 2010: my fiance was addicted to pc games when we met... We never went out. He's play an online game, have sex with me and climb out of bed to play until 2 in the monring some nights. (really unhealthy but this happened every nigth we were together) When... (read in full...)
Is it normal for my mom to be jealous of my mother in law?
Q. Hi all I'm wondering if anyone else experiences extreme jealousy from their mother's when it comes to the mother-in-law? Is it completely normal for your mother to get really upset at any inclination of you forming any type of bond with her? ...
A. 29 July 2010: My fiance and I bend over backwards to make her feel needed. He works a full day job that's extremely demanding, the only realy quality time he gets with his child is the weekend and we spend the entire sunday, every sunday, at my parents. ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for my mom to be jealous of my mother in law?
Q. Hi all I'm wondering if anyone else experiences extreme jealousy from their mother's when it comes to the mother-in-law? Is it completely normal for your mother to get really upset at any inclination of you forming any type of bond with her? ...
A. 29 July 2010: I have a brother who's been allowed to be independent since he was 10, whereas I was very "protected" by both my mother and father. In my mind, the rules I had to follow were ridiculous compared to the sense of freedom my brother has been allowed to ... (read in full...)
I'm in a difficult situation with my wife...and I'm thinking about leaving her..
Q. For the last 12 weeks I have been considering leaving my wife of 2, emotionally up and down years. I'm an immigrant and don't have many 'close' friends to discuss my/our problems. I'm seeking advice. Situation: I immigrated to the US over two year...
A. 23 June 2010: It looks like you already have the answers to whatever questions you're asking....
You're not happy with ANYTHING about the relationship. If you take a break you might miss the company ( having been in a relaitonhship for so long) and then go ... (read in full...)
My overbearing mother is ruining our new parenthood experience
Q. Hi all. This is very long. i am 21 and expecting my second child in 5 weeks time. My daughter is 2 and I live with my fiance, and childrens' father. I live 5 minutes from my parents in flat attached to my fiance's uncles house, it's the only rent we ...
A. 17 June 2010: Just to change the wording incase someone gets the wrong impression, I live with my fiance who is also both kid's dad. ... (read in full...)
Will she think my penis is too small?
Q. My best friend and I decided that we should have sex, just to see if we should be together. I'm worried that she might think my penis is to small. I measured my penis and it is 4 and a half inches. I just wanted to know from a females opinion is ...
A. 17 June 2010: if you really are that young, I wouldn't feel right not saying maybe you should wait, especially for someone you know that you love. Having said that, if your minds made up no one's going to convince you not to do it.
You do not say if you meas... (read in full...)
Is it normal to want a baby at my age?
Q. Im 17 and I love children. I think that sometimes they are the cutest ever. I have been having weird thoughts lately though. My parent would kill me if it ever happened at my age though, I would have no support what so ever. So here is my question: ...
A. 17 June 2010: I know a lot of girls who feel the same way as you do, especially friends of mine as I'm 21 and expecting my second child. When they look at my 2 year old, they go "baby-crazy" and say she's so cute, they want one too.
Ask oldersister is right, b... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend and I got back together but she's pregnant with another man's child
Q. Iv been with the same girl on and off for about four years, and things arent getting much better. During one of our longer break ups, I was starting to really move on, it took a really long time for this, for me to even stop crying at her name. No...
A. 17 June 2010: In my opinion, you are already cheating on your girlfriend, as is this girl on her boyfriend. Cheating isn't only physical, it's also emotional and as it seems you're both getting your emotional needs fulfilled by someone else.
You don't want to ... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting to my friends sms message?
Q. Am I over reacting by being annoyed and upset that my "friend" sent me this sms? "i think of you and your daughter every single day. More than once a day. I guess I can't wait for a baby of my own. I would be honored to be something more i...
A. 21 May 2010: Just to add more detail to the situation... I have been trying to distance myself from her for quite some time because her eagerness to see me and my daughter, without the father, makes me uncomfortable and her constant intereference with me raising ... (read in full...)
Why do a lot of older people think that teenagers don't know what true love is?
Q. Hey i was wondering why do not all, but alot of older people think that teenagers dont know what true love is? and that it wont work out in the end? Because my boyfriend asked me to marry him, I said yes. I am 17 and my boyfriend is about 7 months ...
A. 20 May 2010: Agreeing 100% with TimmD. Also, do you not see some of the teenage relationships of nowadays? Now yours may be different but all the ones I've been seeing don't seem based on love but more of an obsession with the idea of love and an obsession... (read in full...)
Is there a future for me and my fiance?
Q. To give you the background, my fiance and I have been together for nearly three years (engaged for one of those). We were close friends for about a year before we started dating. We moved in together just before getting engaged but have not mad...
A. 21 April 2010: From what I gather from your post, you know what you want to do, you're just looking for reassurance that it is the right decision.
You do both deserve better. If this is what life is like engaged, it can only go down as a married couple. ... (read in full...)
Please help me before I do something I regret! I'm sure he has cheated and it is driving me crazy!
Q. I have been married for about 2 years now,everything has been going very well.We loved each other like crazy,beginning of this year 2010.I started noticing my husband started to act very strange e.g when we are going to bed he will switch of his ...
A. 24 February 2010: You don't need anymore proof that he's cheating on you, just leave. Get out before you do something you regret or before you get anymore hurt and used.
You don't deserve this but killing him is not the answer. ... (read in full...)
I want more opportunities to have sex without family around!
Q. Hi, I know this sounds silly but I could use some advice on it. I'm 16 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half now. I lost my virginity to him, he wasn't a virgin, this past October. Now the problem is that we never ge...
A. 19 February 2010: Agreeing with previous 2 answers... I know your parents are probably always telling you this but trust me, when you have kids of your own you will understand. You won't want your 16year old daughter having sex.
No one can prevent you from doi... (read in full...)
I broke up with him because he was ugly, now he has somebody else and I want him back
Q. I have dated this guy about four years ago and we broke up mainly because he was to attached and never gave me space. He is a very good man and all but the one thing that turned me off was his looks he was not attractive at all. But everything else ...
A. 19 February 2010: Leave him alone to be happy with his new girlfriend! Maybe she can look past his looks and love him for his good character traits. Did you ever think to yourself that maybe he was so clingy because he felt insecure because of the fact that you never ... (read in full...)
We have unprotected sex a lot, but I don't fall pregnant
Q. I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend and I have sex a lot and he doesn't pull out. He never does. But I still don't get pregnant. and I don't take birth control or anything. Is this something I should worry about?...
A. 28 January 2010: Firstly... do you actually want to fall pregnant?
Some people try for months and even years to fall pregnant. He might just have a low sperm count or maybe he is sterile. You might be sterile to. There's also a possibility you haven't done it ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my future father in law?
Q. Hey. This is a short question but in order for me to get good answers, I think you need to hear all aspects of the problem. I live with my fiance and our daughter, who is a year and a half. We've been engaged for a year but next month is my 21st...
A. 10 December 2009: Thank you for the first 2 responses but I have big issues with the third, mister soon567! I didn't know my fiance was going to propose at the beginning of this year and we would already be married if we were more finacially stable! We want ... (read in full...)
He doesn't like using condoms and says if I get pregnant, so be it!
Q. Hi All, Im 19 and have a 23 year old BF, I love him very much and he loves me too. The problem is he doesnt like using condoms, Im not on any form of birth control and I dont want use any, except condoms as I feel more safe. I really DONT want a ...
A. 13 November 2009: If you seriously don't want to use ANY form of birth control; the loop, pill or injection and you DON'T want a baby now and he refuses to use a condom then you need refuse to have sex with him. It's not a question of whether you love him or not. You ... (read in full...)
Please help, how do I tell my parents and my bf I'm pregnant?
Q. Well....i am 16 and my boy friend is 19 and i was ready to have sex so we did it some how condom broke and i am now pregnant...i was very thin and its now my 3rd month and you cant really tell i have never consitered abortion but i am just scared 2 ...
A. 5 November 2009: I was in your situation but luckily a bit older. My suggestion is that you first sit your boyfriend down and tell him. Face to face. Find out if he's going to stand behind you or leave. I think it depends entirely on the family. In my ca... (read in full...)
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