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writes:I formerly formulated a question concerning how I and my girlfriend had some bad experiences with oral sex. I got answered quite well but one thing still rests in my mind. It's as though, when I look at her mouth, I can't help but thinking ''My cock was in there''. We are not going to do it again, and I know there is probably no -physical- traces left, but how do I get the ''mental'' part to dissappear? It is truly haunting me.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (8 April 2011):
 You have gone beyond what your maturity can stand. In other words, you went too far too fast. That's not her fault. That you can't handle it is *your* problem. You liked it, it felt good, but you weren't ready for it because you're now having this problem. Don't beat her up because she did something nice for you and you're not mature enough to handle it. Instead learn from this experience -- don't do something that you can't handle.
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reader, sebaslookingforward  +, writes (8 April 2011):
I kind of have the same way of thinking. However, you should know the penis is cleaner than the mouth. It has fewer germs, fewer bacteria, and I can go as far as saying, it smells better than your mouth after waking up.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 like all 'mental' images, time will help to erase them. in the mean time try not to look at her mouth, when you find yourself doing this, look at something else, looking at her eyes is a good habit to get into xx
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reader, honestman  +, writes (5 April 2011):
Kiss her even more. The more you kiss her, the more you'll be able to erase the mental image from your head.
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reader, RamAndJam  +, writes (5 April 2011):
lol hey man just relize hopefully you're clean and she brushes her teeth and you'll be fine. do it as much as you want and relize your penis is just like any other part of your body. do you obsess when you put your tongue in her mouth...exactly so think of your penis the same way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011): Are you mad? honestly whats wrong with thatDo you think she thinks that about you after you giving her head.......no As long as shes brushed her teeth etc then a dont see what the problem isI dont think anyone can help you with this.....something youv got to get over yourself I think
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