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writes:With the bad breakup I had last year, I was completely blindsided. My ex left things completely unresolved between us. Everyone says that you have to get better at seeing the signs when your bf/gf is losing interest. It seems like you can only gain this by getting more experience.In hindsight I did try and talk to my ex. But all I got was excuses not to see me etc. He never once told me, what was annoying him. So if the person you're dating is losing interest in you, what are you supposed to do? Especially if they don't talk.
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reader, meccamega +, writes (29 March 2011):
meccamega is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou your replys have been very helpful
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reader, meccamega +, writes (29 March 2011):
meccamega is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanyou your replys have been very helpful
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (28 March 2011):
 hi this situation never gets any easier for people i think coz every experience will be different coz its a relationship with a different person. if you are sure that your partner is losing interest but they won't talk, there is nothing you can do to make them. just make them aware that you are very open to discussion and then if they still do not want to then i suppose you will have to decide if YOU want to stay with someone who is hurting you by acting disinterested and is so poor at communicating that they are not giving YOU what you need.after your bad break up and the hurt that caused you, you may be more sensitive to feelings of someone losing interest in you, try not to let this cloud your judgement with subsequent relationships though, remember that in the early days some people can seem very full on and attentive because they are excited by the new relationship but as time goes on they become more relaxed about things, showing you less attention does not mean they are no longer interested, just that they are more settled (maybe even taking things for granted a bit!)xx
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 March 2011):
 I guess there is nothing really that yo can do if they are not going to talk to you about it. Communication is a huge part of any relationship and if he is not going to be open and honest with you well then it is not going to work. Its unfair of him not to talk to you and explain to you what went wrong for him.
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