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writes:I always lie in a UNnormal way , And I'm losing my best friend because my boyfriend , and because my lies and my boyfriend my mom started to not trust me anymore , and my dad will hate me =(( ... My life Is Complicated , I don't know what to do !! , should i break up with my boyfriend ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011): Truth will also hurt you as well as opposite person but stop telling lie and start telling truth, no matter how it hurts you or others keeping telling the truth it will be very helpful to you for your future and it will also teach you to be more good-Good luck
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reader, MamaBear  +, writes (26 March 2011):
Sometimes we have to learn lesson(s) the hard way. Your lying seems to have alienated family members, a boyfriend, and who knows who else. I suggest you seek some professional guidance to get to the root of this problem. Maybe a school counselor can help you and then there would/should not be a cost involved. Or, maybe they can recommend someone who can assist you with this. Somewhere along the way n your short life there must have been some severe consequences for you and this is how you started lying. It must feel awful to you to know you lie. Please get some help or your life may be more complicated than just breaking up with a young guy you like..
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (24 March 2011):
 hi try to now draw a line under your past lying behaviour, now that you can see how wrong and damaging it is. do yo have issues that make you lie? you should get this problem dealt with and then move on, but in a better more honest way. i suppose the fairest thing you can do is admit your lies to your boyfriend, apologise, say it won't happen again (as long as you mean it!) and then leave the decision up to him as to whether he still wants to be with you or notxx
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