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writes:I'm extremely scared, probably freaking out a little too much.But I need help. My boyfriend and I were in his car fooling around this past weekend. Clothes were on. By accident I put my hands on the inside of just the top of his jeans and it felt warm and wet. Immediately I wiped my hand dry because I didn't know if it was sweat or cum. He never ejaculated because he was really hard for a super long time afterwards and he was still horny as hell. But I guess about 20 minutes later, he touched my bare butt through my jeans and to tease me kinda touched my labia super lightly and pulled his hand away immediately. That was the only skin to skin contact we had. He didn't touch any liquids.Later on when I got home I super briefly touched my labia but not even my inner lips or anything. This was hours after the "incident" and my hands were dry.Is there any chance some kind of sperm travelled from my skin into my labia through my cervix and up to my vagina? I'm a virgin, so I still have a hymen.Im TERRIFIED. Please help.
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 NO!
Bajeezus, questions like these make me worried what schools are teaching!
If you're engaging in stuff like this, you need to BOTH be informed of keeping safe.
Preferably, both get checked for STDs before having sex, and buy a pack of condoms.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (5 April 2011):
 HARDLY LIKELY but get a pregnancy test from your local pharmacy if you are still concernedxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): You will be fine. But, use birth control and keep it handy because you are getting to that point and sometimes the worry of pregnancy is just not enough to stop it from happening.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): hi there.i myself am a virgin, so what im going to say isnt a 100% sure.though, i dont think you can get pregnant is you are a virgin, and you cant loose virginity without SEX.but i think you should check anyways...
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reader, person12345  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 No. Sperm cannot survive once they are dry. And since he didn't ejaculate, it was definitely precum, which can only contain sperm is he has ejaculated since last urinating, and the amount it would contain would be minuscule.
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reader, kaiti30 +, writes (5 April 2011):
 You will be fine, stop freaking out, theres a 0 to no chance you could be pregnant, worry more when u dont have ur period for 2 months, this is what i always tell my friends" dont worry until you have a reason to"
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (5 April 2011):
In the first place you shouldn't be doing this if you are not ready. And from what you wrote here you are not ready for sex.Anyway, if you can get pregnant by doing that, yours would be a case for studying over in the human fertilization treatments.Let's think of this: if you touch semen and then touch your vagina you could get pregnant, technically. But the chances are remote. You didn't even do this.
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reader, RamAndJam +, writes (4 April 2011):
No you're fine, most of the time when semen come into contact with air or an eviroment that is not sustainable it will die within seconds. i would say 99.99% chance your golden. plus just think how much semen is released into the vagina during sex and some times that doesnt even get woman preggers. good luck and dont worry.
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reader, honestman  +, writes (4 April 2011):
NO!Sperm are not that magical entities. If he didn't introduced you any liquids, or touch your vagina's inner walls, then there will be no pregnancy. You are just scared right now, and you need to calm down. If you are still afraid, get an over the counter pregnancy test. I am 99% sure that you are not pregnant. I tell you so because I fooled around with my girlfriend dozens of times, and yeah, we did got scared from time to time. Now we use condoms whenever we start fooling around. I would suggest you both use them, it is safer, and it is more fun feeling safe!
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reader, based51  +, writes (4 April 2011):
 NO!! There's NO WAY you can be pregnant from this. You have to have sperm (either ejaculate or pre-cum) deep in your vagina for pregnancy to be possible and even then it will only happen if you actually ovulate. Conceiving is quite a complex business you know. Now that doesn't mean you shouldn't worry about ever getting pregnant but there's no point in worrying at all unless he has penetrated you without you using any means of contraception. It's true that there's a slim chance you can get pregnant even using contraceptives, but again, no point wasting your breath worrying until the period doesn't come.There are some things you should obviously not do but getting stuff on you is not the same as getting it in you. In your situation there was nothing even touching you so please don't worry about this!
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