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writes:i was talking to this girl and we had a thing going on. We met up one day and shared a day and we kissed. After a couple days things started to change and did not feel the same. I was going to ask her out the day after that, but then she couldn't go out. That's what went wrong. I tried meeting up on other days, but she still couldn't go out. I dont know why she changed her mind. I'd like to ask her friend why she did this, but it looks like she doesn't want to talk about her and whenever sees me.I tried ask this girl who is a friend of the girl I like, but the last time we talked was a couple days ago and it wasn't much of a conversation.She said her phone was broken but she could talk to me in other ways.The girl I like still has my jacket, so i was wondering maybe i could ask her friend to come with me to her house and then i can talk to the girl I like, about things and maybe ask her to be my girl or just talk to her, if things don't' work out into a relationship. I guess i'll keep the friendship but thats a slight possibilityTwo of my good friends said that you can either ask her out or get over herand i don't know which one should I do?because I still really like this girl a lot but my friends tell me to get over her, and just tell me that she is over me. which one should i do? and what should i do? should i see her or just leave it be? Reply to this Question
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (25 May 2011):
 go round on your own for your jacket, talk to her, just casually and see how she reacts to you. if you find you are getting on ok, mention that you had a really nice day with her, again see how she reacts, if she says she liked it too, tell her you would like to do it again sometime. be prepared though that she may not want to be your girl. to be honest it does not sound promising. when we meet someone and we are really into them we will pretty much do ANYTHING to be able to see them again. no harm in having the conversation though, so at least you will know one way or another
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