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writes:Okay, Im a bit confused, Theres this guy " Joshua" that Ive been talking too and things seem really great. The first time I've met him, he was really quiet around people but i always noticed that he ALWAYS stared at me. For a whole year, he constaly stares at me, even when i looked back he still keeps on staring. So after a year, he came up to me and told me that he thought i was an amazing people, he loved my smile, my personality, and etc. So i gave him a chance to get to know him. Well, we end up messing around sexually for a couple of months and our relationship grew to the point where we were going to be in a relationship. 4 weeks ago, I walking with my guy friend and "Joshua" saw me and my guy friend so he just looked and walked away. Ever since that day, ive been trying to contact him, message him and nothing seems to work. he even changed his phone number for some odd reason. Whats going on with him ? Did i do something wrong ? What should I do ? Please help me, I really like this guy alot. Reply to this Question
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (22 May 2011):
 he may have felt really hurt that he saw you with the other guy but if he cared about keeping your relationship he should have at least given you the chance to explain. sounds like he is very jealous and insecure and is enjoying making you suffer for the fact that you DARED to walk down the street with another man, i also don't like the fact that he is so quiet with other people too. a life with him would probably mean ONLY him, and no other friends involved with you so he doesn't get jealous. if he cannot even get back in touch with you after your numerous messages he is really not worth wasting your time with
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (22 May 2011):
 if he's not mature enough to tell you what's wrong, he's not mature enough to be in a relationship with you. furthermore, anybody who gets that butthurt over you walking with a friend has too many insecurity issues. you dodged a bullet.
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