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writes:hello everyone. i litterally need everybody's advices, coz im litterally going crazy , here is the situation, im in LDR relationship since 2 yrs now with my gf and for some reasons we couldnt meet, anyway lately she really changed so much i mean it was crazy like , one day she was so crazy abt me and cant stop tellin me how much she loves me and then the very next day she changed, its like you took one girl and you put another one, i dont even get howcome this could happen to us, we re so inlove with eashother we even used to talk like every day for HOURS !! anyways a week ago she disapeard for like 4 days. she didnt come onlyn or even answer my calls or reply to my txts, after she came back she was like :: i dont need a boyfriend now ;; i need to focus on my career ( shes a model by the way ) i was so shocked coz she never spoke to me the way she did that time, and to make it easy for me she was like when she disapeard 4 days, its coz she was with someone else in his hotelroom for 4 days but believe me guys she is lying :S i know infact IM SURE she would never cheat on me, i know her too much to even doubt that ,but i dont know shes being so bitchy now and i think she really doesnt want a bf :S the problem is that im CRAZY about her i dont see my self with any other girl and beliiiiieve i mean that , i dont see my self kissing or doing anything with some1 else , i just cant be without her .i just need some advice like how to get over that and how to really move on incase we really break up !! i really need any kind of advice in order to stop thinkin abt her and take her out of my mindeven though i love her more than anything in this world thnx in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): dude i know the feeling, all that hard work and patience for nothing, what you have to do is remind her bout everyhting how you used to be and everything you talked about, and then leave the ball in her caught and go NC. that is all you can do for now my freind. goodluck
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reader, Ms Me  +, writes (16 October 2010):
You were fine before you met her and you will be fine again. You sound very needy of her and if she see's this it's a very unattractive quality..play it cool and if she is supposed to be yours she will be.
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reader, monkey friend  +, writes (15 October 2010):
Most break-ups aren't easy, but you need to let her go. You love her and miss her now, but believe me there will come a day when you start thinking about her less and less, and one day you will find you don't miss her much and do not have the feelings of love for her anymore.
My experience with a LDR that lasted for 3 yrs.
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reader, alisha7866 +, writes (15 October 2010):
I totally understand it must have been really hard but the fact that you couldnt do all those things with she might have felt that she needs that someone to be secure with feel safe around but the fact your so far makes it that bit difficult for her to stay with you. for a women its important to feel safe and have someone to protect you. right now it might feel like its the end of the world but it isnt you got your whole life ahead of you and i hope you find someone that you will love, touch, hold and protect. with her it wasn't meant to be and im sorry to say it but you will have to learn to move on
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reader, alisha7866 +, writes (15 October 2010):
LDR always is complicated so all i can advise you to do is bounce back and try and forget about her if you keeping texting her she will get put of by it unfortunatly. your only pushing her away if she's telling you she dont need a boyfriend well i guess you need to realise she isn't the girl who you thought she was, find someone who will respect you and be better for you because everyone deserves to be treated with love and respect and your clearly not getting it from her. in time you will learn to move on but for now concentrate on yourself and you will get over it!! please remember do not text or call her for your own sake
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe thing is we knew eashother for over 5 years and we just got together after i went abroad for studies, so i never even had the chance to kiss her or get that close with her!! and the idea that i wont be able to and that some1 else will jst come after me and do that in really freakin me out ::( its so hard and im so inlove with her
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