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I cant see a future with him, should I dump him?

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Question - (15 October 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 October 2010)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello everyone

I am in a relationship with my bf from almost 2 yrs. He used to be my best friend. But now i am not able to undestand him and his behaviour. We both are shy and till date, we've only hugged and kissed each other. I am 19 yrs old girl. He sometimes says he wants me to get wild and when i try to do something he just turns me off and says he can't strip off my clothes. I dont know what he wants from me. I know he is shy and respects me a lot but i want to make love to him. Even he wants the same. Then, why does he react so shy and reserve? I have recently asked him for break up but he says he loves me. Cant live without me. What should i do?

Should i dump him? Is dumping him help me? I am afraid to lose him that i am going to miss him but at the same time, i can't see my future with him as we belong to different religions.

I've told him before and we've discussed it several times but the only answer i get is I LOVE YOU..

I am fed up now and confused. What should i do? Help me.!

Thanks in advance..:)

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A male reader, mulattoman United States +, writes (15 October 2010):

mulattoman agony auntYou're only 19. You won't know what real love is until you're mid to late 20s. Whether or not you like that, it's the truth and when you realize it you'll remember this reply.

Don't be a slut, but at the same time don't take every relationship so damn seriously. Date a lot, get to figure out what and who you like, and at the same time you'll learn more about yourself too.

And just to reiterate, I said date a lot of people, I didn't say get naked with them. For once I'd like to meet a girl who can count their sexual partners on one hand.

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