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writes:My son's ex lies to their 3 yr. old daughter that my son is not her father that her boyfriend is and her boyfriend reinforces this 100 percent. They will not allow Amy, the little girl, to call anyone daddy but bill the boyfriend. Me and my son have to straighten her out, but it feels as if we are a part of a game that's wrong. The ex and her boyfriend are wrong in doing Amy this way. We know she will learn eventually, but my son doesn't his child raised in a home of lies and she needs to know who her real dad is. There is no discussing it with the mother she doesn't listen. What can my son do to end this ASAP. Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn +, writes (15 October 2010):
 I agree, you need to involve the courts and get a DNA test completed. He can file and compel her to submitting to this test. The benefit will also be that he receives regular visitation with his child as well. I also agree that her behavior, in knowing her boyfriend is not the father, is considered child abuse. The only way I believe she will change, if is a judge tells her directly that she has to.
Now I wouldn't wait on this either. The older the child gets, the less likely the judge will order this change. This is because they weigh out the best interest of the child, and the older the child, the more confusion she'd receive, so the best interest begins to change in the eyes of the law.
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reader, sadandconfused1117 +, writes (15 October 2010):
I amrecently divorced and I know that a judge would fire her tail up if he heard this was going on that is if your son is trying to be a part of her life and doing his part as her father. Because it does say in my divorce papers in bold letters that that is unacceptable to do what is being done. my advice is to get a lawyer and to persue this to the fullest extent because the mother is apparently not thinking of the little ones best interest but thinking of what will make the new boyfriend happy and what will hurt your son.Then what happens to the poor thing when the boyfriend leaves? Who will be daddy then. Im sorry Im being so harsh but I cant stand to see children being put into situations like this because on of the parents has there head up there a#@ so deep they cant see daylight. If you get a lawyer you will see that your son has alot more rights than you think and that the mother will quickly be straitened out.I wish you all the best in this situation and I will pray for you and especially for your grandaughter that she will not feel the negative effects from her mother having her head stuck up her butt.
P.S. Pray hard over this because I promise that God is listening to your prayers and prayer really works.
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reader, elite123 +, writes (15 October 2010):
yes i would get a DNA test asap. does your son pay child support?
the tape recorder idea is great.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 October 2010):
Get a DNA test done, get it printed.
Also, get this recorded on tape. I'm pretty sure this is abuse and will not go down well with the Judge if heard in a courtroom.
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