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writes:ok i have a girlfriend who also has a boyfriend. me and her have been going out for just about 2 years now and now want her all to myself.i have tried to tell her that i dont want to share her with anyone anymore but she said that she wants kids of her own so that there will always be a man in her life. she says that she loves me and wants to be with me forever but i dont know if what we are doing is right anymore.if anyone can give me any advice that would be great.thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni just want to thank everyone for there help.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 February 2010):
 Your partner has changing needs and she feels strongly for a baby . You should discuss it together and come to a consensus.
If it is intolerable to you and you cannot stand sharing her with another man , there is only one solution ,go your own ways.
Some same sex couples have babies without the involvement of a man. They obtain the sperms from the sperm bank or from friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010): Terribly sorry you're going through this. If she loves you, then she knows that the best thing for you both is for her to leave him for you. That goes without saying, you both can still have children. If she wants to be the one that conceives the child, she doesn't need a man by her side to do that. She can always visit a fertility clinic, and wah-lah!
Maybe the both of you could resolve this over a vacation. Just take some time off (both you + her - the guy) and go to some place, any place, and get a taste of what life would be together. Let her see what life with you and vice versa could be like...then analyze the results. If you're both happy maybe that will make her realize she only needs you. Hopefully this helps.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (23 February 2010):
 Have you spoke about having children together, through IVF if she does not want this or is unwilling to change her mind then i must agree with caring guy, run and fast. =]x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 February 2010):
My advice is to get away from her. She wants kids? Why not from you? And if she always wants a man in her life and thinks that kids are the answer, that's a really big Red Flag. Run a mile.
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