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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Everyone knows that when a couple gets together at first they can't be separated right? Like as people call it " The HoneyMoon stage " Well My used to be best friend is going through that stage and is losing all her friends. She started seeing this guy nearly two months and They're the worst matched Couple ever! They basically have only one thing in common and Thats them both being Jealous. He doesnt Like it when she Hangs out with us and she doesn't like him talking to other girls. And the problem for him is that he,s a bartender so he makes that as an excuse.They can't be without each other and its driving everyone mad.Even when I stay in her house she says " Is it ok If we go to my boyfriends? ". We used to be so close , stay in each others house every friday and get a pizza or something Now we dont talk anymore. Last friday I went out for my birthday and I invited the girlfriend out along with my other friends. She didnt turn up for the meal , she didn't come to any of the pubs and then when I just about gave up on her she came around the corner. But she wasn't alone. The boyfriend was with her and I was Hurt and Upset. She said "Hi Happy birthday" Walked past me Didnt even hug me or give me a card or anything. I didnt see her for the rest of the night. All her friends in collage want nothing to do with her because she's become more angry and mean to her friends. All of her collage friends are going Ice skating in thursday and staying in a friends house that night and shes not been invited because they no she'll be on the phone to The boyfriend all night. I love this girl to pieces but shes losing her friends over a Guy And she wont go anywhere without him I dont know what to do. I want to be there for her but If this is the way she's acting I cant do anything Please help Greatful for all answers
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 February 2010):
This is the time to just step back. It sounds like they're still past the honeymoon stage and are just desperate to make this work now. It won't work out, and when it doesn't she'll need someone to cry to. Just step back, let her do her own thing for now and see what happens. You've tried to be a good friend, but just at the moment she's blinded. In time she will see it. Let her make her own mistakes, and be there for when she comes back.
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