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writes:Here is my story, my bf went to his country outside the Us for his granddad like 2 weeks.The reason why he went there with his family because of his granddad. He is so sick and about to die.. In His country he try to call me everyday for the 1st week but second week he didint call me because he is so stressed. and he came to US last saturday. Since last saturday I dont know how to talk how to behave because he texted me that he is going in depression but still love me and happy that I am his gf. Ok i really understand him because his granddad was the one who raised him in his country then they moved to Us with his parents except his granddad.. He is having hard times... and I havent seen him like 1 month and missed him a lot.. I am so sensitive person. He barely text me since he is coming to America and I can easily affect these problems here I am living by myself nobody is taking care of me and support me I really tired of crying when he doesnt call me or text me.. I need him and I know he may need me..I dont even know how to behave him. every time he text me smt stressful, it also makes me stressful and couldnt even concentrate on my studying and feel like we will break up cuz he never offered me to hang out. I really dont know what to do.really need your opinion guysEven though my bf came to Ny, He doesnt call me anymore or text me so much.. I feel like we are not relationship no calls no texting or barely saying I love u even though we havent see each other for 1 month because he went to his country for his granddad..I dont know what to do it has been a long time not to see him.. and of course I should be patient but I wanna see him cuz I miss him a lot and he never offered me to hang out..It really makes me sad...
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reader, ann84 +, writes (1 March 2010):
ann84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIam devastated and so upset right now... U know my situation I told u that he went to gym inseat of spending time with me. I didint answer his calls since yesterday because I was so upset. then he text me and called me 2day.. I didnt pick up..
I text him I didint wan to talk to u because instead of spending time in the gym, u could invite me over there and hang out cuz I havens seen u for 1 month and I am not ur prior choice just a decision... suddenly he came up with his parents. ofcourse I will chose my parents.. I was so pissed off cuz I didint tell mean baout his parents just gym. then I text him have a nice life... Omg I cant even tell what happened after that he started to insulting me bwecayse Ive a friend who is bf and he is always helping me... my bf start to tell me fuck it burn everything that i give and go to that friend and warm each other sleep with him these words are insulting me and I was shocked and later I text him that How can u expect me these kind of things cuz he knows that Ive never had sex with anyone before eventhough with him so it hurts me a lot... then X, I didint even tell u that we break up but u just keep saying these bad words. I know ur good boy thats why I didint tell u.. then he text me that whats have a nice life mean?
I explained him that I was sad cuz u came up with ur parents..then he tolf me Iam sorry I lost my control I need u I love u
and I text him that I love u but its better to break up for both of us after hearing such an insulting words..
He keeps telling me He loves me
I really dont know the reason why he doesnt meet me and went to gym He doesnt want me to see his crying ... idk
I realy dont know because I dont deserve these wordss... I love him but hurts me alot
what will I do?
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (23 February 2010):
It sounds like your BF is grieving and deeply depressed, so he doesn't want anyone to see him this way. He does need you. You need to call him and tell him you are worried about him and you need to see him just to make sure he is okay. That you know he is going through a lot and doesn't want to see anyone, but he should not be going through this alone, and to please let you be there for him.
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