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writes:Hello well Me and my girlfriend been dating for 2 months and we're having a really great relationship right now, then one day I ask her will she ever cheat on me? She said no, but she said "what would you do if I do? never know right?" well then i told her just dont and her answer to me was okay.The next day It was still bothering me then I ask her again. She was in a really good mood but after I ask her that she just turn out all silent and feels like I don't have any trust in her. To me I really do it just bother me, and I feel like I did get a bit off trust, but now I realize that I do and I never wanted this to happen. So she said she won't cheat on me unless I get her piss off, then I kept telling her to give me an example but she won't so then I we got in a bit of an argument. She is really quiet and something's is wrong with her. I know that it was my fault to bring this up.I really need help to cheer her up and make her realize that everything will be okay and that I will always trust her no matter what.Please help me out I really need help right now. Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 February 2010):
You've got a lot to learn about woman and relationships. The number 1 thing on the list is never ask a question that's this silly. You asked her once, and she answered. Then you asked again the next day and she got annoyed. Then you actually tried to make her give an example. These are things you shouldn't have done. No wonder she feels bad. She is with you, so the question of cheating doesn't come into it. Get grovelling. Tell her you were feeling a little insecure about everything in general and you are sorry that you asked her the question. And ask her how she feels about it. Listen to what she says. Then don't do this again. These kind of questions and this kind of behaviour are what drive people to cheat. Trust her and get grovelling.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (23 February 2010):
Your pissing her off right now just so you know. For the future don't ever ask a person if they would ever cheat as a simple curious question. I mean if she seems flirtatious with other guys then maybe but not just as a general question
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