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writes: My ex and I dated for about 3 years. In those 3 years we've had our ups and downs. Those downs and break ups largely in fact all to his part. He has cheated, broken up with me, treated me bad and all, then come back, beg do the same thing again. He came back again, begging, he was sorry, all of a sudden, he started again from distancing, then our misunderstanding, as usual he stopped communicating with me. I did not do anything wrong or deserve this. Some people are saying just move on like I always did. I know I would not get back with him again but there is an urge to confront him at least ask him why after everything, he would be this way to me, even if he doesn't want the relationship, couldn't he have done it in a better, nicer way? Is it really best to confront him or just simply be silent and move on? As they say sometimes, wicked people don't even know their acts are wicked except when being told.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 February 2010):
Don't waste time confronting him. You'll just be opening yourself up. Don't contact him at all. Accept he is a liar and a cheat and never bother with him again. He won't change, even if you do tell him. He won't care and will just laugh at you.
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reader, clonee  +, writes (23 February 2010):
For starters if there is cheating he has no respect for you. I suggest you move on with your life, forget him as he has done with you. If you confront him he will think that you still care and will use you again which will only cause more hurt. Just get someone that will treat you well and respect you. Be happy, enjoy life, you only have one!
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