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writes:hello guys, im back again for more advice.im the girl with the 35 year old that seems as if he has a curfew, but anyway i would like to know since i realized im being played and used how do i go about the situation? i know the smart thing to do is let him go, but i really do love him and i get attached 2 people very easy and he really fell in love with my 10 month old daughter, but i refuse to be taken for granted. but to be honest i dont want him completely out of my life because i believe he is a good guy, but he also have issues in his life and it is not fair for him to hurt people who care for him, and the funny thing is i thought libras and geminis were compatible. but what is a easy way to get through this without any hard feelings, how can i explain to him so he can get a clear understanding of how he is hurting me emotionally? and is it possible that things will change or are we better off as friends even though i felt that way anyway even when he labeled me as his g/f and he my b/f. Any advice is appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): Hey i'm a male and i'm Bisexual! I have a man friend who is pretty much doing me the same way! I have decided to kinda play him back. I know it may sounds childish or dumb! But i feel as though you treat people how you want to be treated. He has hurt me and i want him to know how it feels to be hurt back! So all i can say is the most "Guys" Not all of them but MOST are Sex addicts! I don't want anyone using me for my body! So basically he just want be able to have sex with me at all Until i feel as though he cares for me and love me! If i never get that feeling Then i guess he just will never have sex with me! But i really hope i helped you out! Wish you the best!
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reader, _Katy_Did_ +, writes (2 March 2010):
 Maybe you shouldn't explain to him anything. I know it's going to be difficult, but you really should leave this guy behind and cut off contact with him. He obviously isn't a good guy if he's playing you and taking advantage of you. Hope that helps. I'm not really sure what the rest of the story is.
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