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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. We started off really close. He could even get up to go to the bathroom without kissing me first. He used to always cuddle with me, hug me, kiss me goodnight. and since he only works 4 days a week we'd spend the 3 days he has off together watching movies or just hanging out together. He also used to look at me like he was so in love with me and he would tell me he loved me constantly. Just last night I told him I loved him for the first time and he didn't say anything. When I cry he doesn't comfort me anymore. He doesn't even buy me flowers anymore. I don't know what's going on when I talk to him about it he just says it's in my head. Please help me. I don't want to lose him. Lily
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (6 March 2010):
 I think a woman knows in her gut when she's not getting the loving attention that she is used to. However it's hard to get someone to be honest and tell you what's going on in their head. All you can do is talk to him, tell him exactly what you told us. Say that you are in love with him, and ask if he loves you the same way. Ask him what happened to the cuddles, the flowers. He can't tell you that your imaging things if there are no flowers to show. I can't tell you why he acting this way, just be honest, and show your upset or hurt by anything he has to say. Be brave and adult, and be very clear, that you know he's changed, and a man who can't comfort his crying woman can't care that much at all. Tell him exactly what you told us here.
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