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writes:Well, I met this guy through a mutual friend. Well I wouldn't say met because we've never seen each other. In any case, we started talking and things became serious..we fell in love. The problem is that we've never seen each other, and every attempt to see each other fails. He won't come see me, I live in Mississippi and he lives in Texas...he says he can't find time, and I've broken up with him because I felt used several times, but he always comes back no matter what I say to him. It makes me feel like he really does love me but at the same him not coming to see me makes me think he's completely content with only hearing my voice. I'm going crazy. We talk all the time and we even go to sleep on the phone together. Maybe it's not as simple as I want it to be. What do you guys think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou're right. But we've seen each other...through pictures and videosand we both were pleased with what we saw. I've talked to his sister and met a close cousin but no him. I have offered to come out there once but he insisted that i fly because it would be quicker but I wanted to drive so I asked him to send me money for gas, he agreed. But he sent it to the wrong address and ended up getting the money back but never tried to send it to the correct address. I'll admit that He has tried to come see me. I'm in college and he wanted me to stay with him for the summer last year. I didn't have a car that school year so my parents had to come get my and all my stuff. So he drove to his hometown, New Orleans, from Texas and said he would drive the rest of the way when I got home, well our vehicle ended up breaking down and we ended up making it home really late, so he didn't come. In another instance I offered to meet him in new orleans, well he decided to surprise me and drive there but that didn't go well because we ended up fighting and the meeting didn't happen. Recently I have offered to fly, I really didn't want to because I've never flown before so I'm skeptical about it, so we'll see how it goes. He wants me to move in with him and he tells me he wants to marry me. My mother knows about the whole situation and she is very skeptical about him just because I've never seen him in person, but I honestly sense no danger, but I still want to be careful because you never know. I think it would be safer for him to come to me alone then for me to come to him alone but maybe I'm wrong
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