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writes:I am 22 years old, i left my country to another country for work, when i wish to return back to my country i called my friend ex-girl and plead her for a serious and decent girl like her.She gave me her friend number, i and her friend open communication and i fall in love with her even before i travel to my country, so we see on the first day we have sex. we really spend some good time together.But later i decided that we should get married and it is not up to 3 months we knew each other face to face, because it was the first day we sex that was when she were pregnant. Now my parent does not like her culture and they disagree to let me marry the girl.So i have to travel back to the country i work, but ever since i came back the girl have been giving me too much problem, insulting me, shouting, taking advice from her family to deal with me, to the extend her mum bounce phone on me twice.And now i am about going to another country to school again and she will not be there with me, and if i should marry her only she will be alone in my own country which i do not want, so now i am so confused if i should continue with the marriage or just forget it but the pregnancy is now 6 months . Please i really need an advice as i have think so much about this. Please advice me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2010): Forget about the marriage just help the girl raise the baby. If she is abusing you it will only continue during the marriage and this will make you...her and the baby very unhappy.Just because she is pregnant it doesn't mean that you have to marry her. If the relationship is not good don't do it. You will fight all the time.
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