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writes:With my ex for quite a while I was his longest relationship. We had a fight and we decided to break up and than talk 2 days later. He begged for me back but when he came to the day to talk he said he needed time. Little did I know that his best mate told me. That he has another girlfriend and they have already had sex. I begged for him back and he didn't know who to chose. 5 days later he tells me " he's happier with her, she's a better kisser, better body and more beautiful an that he's inlove with her and has no feelings for me". I researched on the net that it could be a rebound and cause he's in the honeymoon stage but his feelings might come back after honeymoon period. They have now been together almost 2 months and I've been going no contact hopin he will miss me. Has something like this ever happened to you and he came back. I'm not saying I would back to him after this I just want him to want me. What should do about my broken heart? I can't stop being depressed and we have been broken up over 2 months? Guys have you ever gone back to an ex after rebound
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reader, ashley187  +, writes (9 February 2011):
 You can't make someone love or want you.. and if she "has a better body and is more beautiful" then he's an extremely shallow person who isn't in it for love, but lust. Why do you want to be with someone who only cares about the exterior? All women deserve more than that. Good luck to you! I say ditch the ex for good.
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reader, meccamega +, writes (9 February 2011):
I understand how you feel as my ex also dumped me very cruelly aswell. My ex is 24. Do guys ever grow up? If he cheated on you, I'm sure he'll do the same to her. If he comes running back, completely ignore him. Or he'll do it again.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (9 February 2011):
 And why would you take back such a shallow , insensitive, uncaring idiot ? Do you really give yourself so little value ? Ok, you don't say you'd take him back, you just want him to want you . WHY ? Wounded ego ? It hurts but it will pass, if you don't focus all your attention on it. And if you use your brain and self esteem : it's not such a great prize to be " wanted " by someone who acts and talks like that. You should aim much higher.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2011): Why would you want him back after he insulted you like that? He sounds like a jerk.
He's moved on and you should just forget him because he's not worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2011): Don't stress hun, you can do better by the sounds of things, and you're only a baby anyway, wait til you get to 30 before you worry about relationships!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 February 2011):
I'm sorry, but at his age and given what he said, I don't think he will come back. And even if he did, I think you'd be mad to take him back after what he said. There are some people that do go on rebounds and try to come back, but it never really works out, and there aren't that many of them. Certainly after two months, I'd be very surprised. The other problem is that he is still young teenage boy, and I'm afraid he probably doesn't have the emotional capacity to understand what he's done, or to even consider coming back. He's not not mature enough.
You've got to now try harder to let him go. The only person who's in pain here is you (understandably), and you need to start really pushing your life forwards in other areas to get away from your ex. It's simply a total waste of your time to want a guy like this to come back. He was cruel to you, and he'd only be cruel again. So, you need to focus on school, you need to focus on friends, you need to focus on your own life. Also, if you are depressed, then you should talk to someone about it, because depression has a nasty habit of not going away.
Please stop wishing this guy back, and instead wish your own life forward. Take it from a man that there are better guys out there waiting.
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