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writes:I have a huge problem, and I honestly don't know what to do. Aunties and Uncles, you have helped in the past. Now, I need you more then ever.Let's get right down too it. I am in a relationship with a beautiful girl, But I feel no love towards her. It has been 8 months, and I couldn't care less if she left me tomorrow for someone else. I used to love her, but now I don't. We have sex 2 times a day, and I honestly don't like it, but cannot say no...Instead, I have feelings for two other girls. One, my ex. Whom I see everywhere, and whom I gave my self too. She made my world, and I loved her with every inch of my bleeding heart. She crushed it by cheating and lieing to me, as well as trying to get me killedThe other, is a girl I almost had a fling with. I've liked her for 2 years now. We almost dated, but I had acted like a jerk with her bestfriend (the girl above) and I will always regret that. I am in a bind. I feel like some part of me is pushing my girlfriend away, and attempting to replace her with my ex. I have constantly have feelings of anxiety due to this, and its bothering me.Please. Help me
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (9 February 2011):
 I think you should leave your girlfriend and spend more time coming to terms and getting over these past relationships. It's not fair to keep around a girl who you aren't really into - she should have the opportunity to go find someone who will love her, and you should have the opportunity to heal your heart and find someone who really gets your motor running. You may be great people, but that doesn't mean that you're meant to be together.
I'd break off the relationship. Your heart is elsewhere. Good luck, sweet!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2011): You need to be honest with your girlfriend, I think. As hard as it might be to tell her you don't love her, she has to know. It's not fair to her if she thinks she's your whole world when in reality you couldn't give a damn. The heart wants what it wants, you can't help if you don't love her, but be honest about it. I wouldnt go rushing back to your ex though, after what happened between you. Maybe being single for a while will help you to think things through.
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