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writes:I am 21 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for almost seven years now. We have been living in r own apartment for almost two years. Sometimes I feel like his attraction for me has gone down BC sometimes well have sex three times a week and sometimes only once. But in the beginning of r relationship it was a lot. It makes me feel not wanted and it puts me in a bad mood. I feel like sometimes I'm throwing my self at him and he still doesn't try. I always bring it up to him and he says he is still attracted to me and that he is tired cuz he works long hours. We r still lovey dovey all the time but I just can't help the way I feel. Should I be worried?! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2011): I don't think you should be worried. You two are inlove, as you said, and are still sexually active. The way your sex life changes might depend on how his days been, things with work etc.
I would deffinately talk to him about it. Be completely honest and show him how he makes you feel - perhaps he doesnt completely understand?
Why not try different things to seduce him? you could buy some lingerie, photograph it (not wearing it) and text it to him saying this is waiting for him when he's home?
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