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writes:Hi,so there is this woman,she is stunning,charming,with a great laugh,very smart.Problem is she has never had a long term relationship,just a strong of affairs,she has no loyalty,has a past involving porn and prostitution, etc.She is manipulative and is very self-centered.But she is so cute and lovely!! I find myself falling for her whenever I see her.She wants to see me.Has anyone ever had a situation liek this? Where they were overwhelmed with a person who they knew would break their heart but was attracted to them anyway? What did you do?
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reader, ashley187  +, writes (10 February 2011):
 Sounds to me like you know it's a test of your strength and you have the strength to do ANYTHING. Stay strong.Do the what right for you. You know what it is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for the feedback.It is a test of my strength right now.I have been avoiding her,and just hope I can continue.I know she has no loyalty from the stories she told me,she has only had open relationships,does not understand or respect monogamy.Your posts give me the encouragement I need.
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reader, Leperic  +, writes (10 February 2011):
I tried to move on, but they pulled me back, until they left my life for good. I'd either follow Dirtball's advice and try a loose relationship, or avoid her. It's not going to end with "And they were together for the rest of their days!", no matter what you wish.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (9 February 2011):
 Yeah, those types are pretty irresistable sometimes until they break your heart, or others like them do. I went against my better judgement with a girl like that once. I ended up hurt, sad, and alone. I learned my lesson though.
Enjoy the ride if you choose to take it, but do your best to stay somewhat detached. It probably won't end well. From what you describe, she doesn't want to change her ways, so you shouldn't try to change her either.
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reader, ashley187 +, writes (9 February 2011):
RUN!! lol get away while you can. You said it yourself.. she's bad for you. So don't allow her to break your heart. We sometimes want what we can't have. Save yourself the trouble and find someone worth your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2011): That sounds just like my girlfriend!And if she is anything like my girlfriend,you dont stand a chance buddy!If she wants you,she's going to have you.She knows how to get and keep what she wants with her good looks and her charm.But just maybe,she will fall in love with you and that will even things up-a little anyway.
Good luck Bro.
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reader, sam44 +, writes (9 February 2011):
Leave that girl my friend, dont let your emotions blind your decision making ability okay? Think logically. Ignore how you feel and stay away from her no matter what! Dont wait for disaster to happen before you start acting. The bottom line is that she will never change. Be there done that.
Leave her for your health,
for your future
for your family. She will ruin your life...
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