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writes:So i have a problem. I kissed my bf for the first time ever last night and we even made out for a bit and now im wondering what the next step is. i know im not ready for sex but i dont wanna kiss him then leave him hanging... please help. im going to see him tonight
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reader, KrissyA +, writes (11 February 2011):
KrissyA is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks you guys :) this means alot
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2011): There's no reason to feel that way. You're so young, this coming from a 19-year-old, and you should hold on to your innocence as much as possible. If he respects you, then he'll be okay with you not wanting to go any further. My second boyfriend, when I was 14-15, tried to get me to have sex a few times, but when I'd tell him that I wasn't ready, he'd calm himself down and we'd just hang out. And on the days he wasn't all riled up, we would just kiss and make out. There's nothing bad about that at all. Do what feels right.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 February 2011):
 Well if you think you might be leading him on then tell him straight out that you are not ready for sex, if he cares about you he will respect that. Good for you that you are not rushing in to anything to soon, as you are still young and you do not want to risk regretting something for the rest of your life. You want your first time to be special and it should realistically be with someone you have been dating for a while and with someone you love and also when you are over the legal age and feel completely ready. Therefore i know that it is scary to say it but you just need to tell him straight out. Its the only way. Goodluck pet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2011): Just keep kissing!
As I've gotten older I've realized how much fun kissing is and how much I miss it.
Kiss him and tell him nice things and look into his eyes and hold his hand. It sounds really cheesy, but if he's the right guy you'll enjoy it immensely.
I'm glad that you know you're too young to be having sex. Enjoy the time you have and TAKE IT SLOW. :)
Good luck.
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reader, Trinaa  +, writes (10 February 2011):
 If he really loves you, he won't get mad if you do leave him hanging. Good luck!
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