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writes:Is it stupid to fall for someone?In the past two years I have fallen for two different girls at different time. I spent 17 months on the first girl and obviously end up with nothing. The second girl is my best friend who I just knew about two years ago and I spent 4 months on her and obviously end up with nothing again.Every time when I get rejected, I always managed to encourage myself to keep searching for another one. But after 20 months of searching, I feel exhausted and tired of going through these emotional pains especially when I was watching them laughing with their boyfriends when I am still alone.Also, Valentine day is coming soon. I feel really down because I am still alone on myself, while the girl,whom I love is with someone else now and they are planning how to celebrate their Valentine days. Its good to see her smile but it is also bittersweet to hear her laugh. These few days has been the most painful days I've ever been so far.Moreover, I started to think about commit suiciding. I know it is a really stupid thing to do but I just can't stand it anymore.
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reader, 83puremage1 +, writes (13 February 2011):
83puremage1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advise
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 February 2011):
 Ok you are going through a tough time at the moment, i understand that, you have been rejected twice by two girls that you have fallen for. I know this is hard to deal with at the moment and you feel that the only way out is to end it all. But you are very wrong. Things will get better in time and someday you will find the girl that is right for you, you are only young you have plenty of time to date girls right now concentrate on yourself and how to make your life better. There are plenty of hobbies and activities out there to make you feel good about yourself and also there is a chance that you may meet new girls.
Suicide is commonly scary this day in age, and so many people attempt it then regret it but sometimes it is two late then as there heart stops beating. Dont waste your precious life and let it go down the drain, i understand at the moment you are extremely hurt, angry, depressed and most of all you feel alone. But i bet if you think really hard you have friends and family around you. I bet you are better of than some people in this world, those who are homeless living on the street, cant afford food or even being used as sex slaves. I want you to take a look at this article http://www.teenforumz.com/articles/17352-feeling-suicidal-please-read-first.html
I think you should talk to someone before you end up doing something that would cause a lot of people a lot of heartache and upset. Maybe talk to a parent or a close friend. If not then call a helpline that is private and confidential. At least try before you try to end your life. There is always a way out and theres always a better way of making your life better. You just need to concentrate on making your own life better. Goodluck Sweetie and remember there is always someone out there who cares.
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