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How can I ask out a guy who already has a gf?

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Question - (20 February 2011) 7 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I really like this guy, but he has a girlfriend. And he doesn't even know that I feel this way about him. I want to ask him out but I'm terrified to do it because I don't want it to be awkward if he turns me down. Also, I don't want him to be creeped out. What should i do?

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A female reader, etoile03 France +, writes (21 February 2011):

Don't.... quite simply. He already has a girlfriend. Be grown up and find a boyfriend who is single.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2011):

If he already has a girlfriend, then you WILL be turned down and it will be awkward. Don't ask him.

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A female reader, adamantine Australia +, writes (20 February 2011):

adamantine agony auntI agree with Blod. Don't ask him out if he's dating someone. Would you really want to share?

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A male reader, Jackalus United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2011):

You need to see if he really loves his girlfriend, if he does you just needto be a friend to him. If their relationship isn't great you need to tell him how you feel but don't ask him out.

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A female reader, Blod United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2011):

Blod agony auntDon't ask him out. He has a girlfriend. It's very likely he'd turn you down and you'd end up humiliated. Sorry if this wasn't what you wanted to hear.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011):

I know u will not like my answer but this action is not appropriate in my opinion. If he seems commited to his gf you shouldn't do that. Remember what goes around comes around. You can wait if he initiates anything with you. But think about it otherwise. Just pray and take him out of your head.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011):

Sorry but too me it always seemed like an unspoken rule; NEVER EVER ASK A GUY OUT. Sorry but you will seem so desperate, and he has a gf it is very likely you will get rejected. How would you feel if you were him or his gf?

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