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How do I stop from pushing him into the arms of someone else?

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Question - (20 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *lackbird332 writes:

My ex boyfriend and i broke up 3 months ago. i left him because my ex was begging for me back and i didn't really think about it. the guy i left him for was a jerk and i broke up with him and now my ex has a new girlfriend. he says he still has feelings for me and nothing has changed but he wants to give this girl a chance. He also says i still have a chance, just not right now.

how can i be sure to keep him around and interested without pushing him away from me and further into the arms of his rebound from me?

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A female reader, blackbird332 United States +, writes (21 February 2011):

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he already said he wasnt going to do that.(prolly cause i did it to him)

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A male reader, Thisdizzle United States +, writes (21 February 2011):

He's really playing a cruel game by dangling his relationship with her over your head like that; however, you did leave him for an ex. You both need to move beyond the past, and the best way to do that is to walk away and see if he follows, doing the same thing to his current girl that you did to him. Harsh, but that's reality.

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