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writes:Ok Picked up an old friendship with "Mr.X" hung out a lot,stay overs etc i helped him with his break-up. He acted like he was my boyfriend in public. I admitted to him twice that I had strong feelings for him,assured him that I would never hurt him.I got rejected and we decided to stop talking. 2 months later he sends a mesage sayin he misses me. He comes to see me and went quiet for days. Last night he spoke to my sister and admitted that he does have feelings for me but he's confused! Please help me understand
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reader, Broken-hearted87 +, writes (20 February 2011):
Broken-hearted87 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAt the time he rejected me he did say before hand that he was deeply hurt by his ex and didnt want to be put in that position again. I understand that as ive been through it 'once bitten twice shy' its been 2 months since that happened and we didnt have any contact. I think he's an amazing guy even as a friend. Im not actively single so waiting to see what happens i suppose isnt a problem i just dont want to force things if there is a chance.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (20 February 2011):
 If he doesn't understand his own feelings yet, then how can you? Furthermore... how can we?
He spoke to your sister so he clearly wanted you to know that he likes you but is confused. So I guess either decide whether his version of "like" is worth waiting around for... The fact that he's rejected you before is not a good sign though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): Last night my family was incredibly blessed to attend an All Saints and Martyrs party courtesy of this friend and her husband and many other wonderful volunteers. When my children were in Catholic school they didn’t even have an All Saints party! This party was nothing short of amazing. It began with a parade of Saints and Martyrs. It can’t tell you how my heart leapt and my eyes welled with tears to see all those little boys dressed as priests.Imagine the possibilities of so many good, holy young men entering the priesthood! We then moved on to a Corporal Works of Mercy relay. After that were many carnival style games themed after various saints. Not only was it immense fun but it was such a great opportunity for the children to learn about saints like St. Lucy, St. Therese, St. John Bosco and St. Cecilia.
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