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writes:I just want some honest opinions from women on this issue. If experience, how much is preferred and if virginity, how much of a gift is that to her? Is taking your partner's virginity as pleasurable for a women as it is for a man? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2011): Hi
I personally don't class physical virginity as a gift...in my opinion true gifts come from the spirit and they last for eternity bcause they are pure...virginity goes in a moment...so i see no eternal gift of purity or love within a physical act, and i think wanting to recieve this virginal gift is quite ego related and not as PURE as the world has us believe.
I personally like a man to get hot and passionate and to leave the purity bit outside the sheets even if he is a virgin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011): Im 22, i am a virgin and I've been with my bf for a couple of months. We havnt gone all the way yet, but we've 'played'. He knows I havnt slept with anyone and I know he's slept with two other girls. I always thought my bf having had other sexual partners would put me off. But it doesnt, he's very caring and because he knows what he's doing it makes me feel kind of 'safe' and comfortable. I think, if im honest, if he'd been with much more than two girls that wud have put me off.
After all that though, we're all differnt and what one girl prefers is probably very different to the next :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2011): I'd rather a man with experience. I was 25 when I lost my virginity and my bf had a lot of experience (he was in his 30s) and was fantastic in bed. Also being nervous with it being my first time it was good to be with someone who knew what they were doing. I think it can be fumbled and awkward with two virgins although it is a romantic idea to be with just one person. I think men tend to wait for a virgin to loose their virginity with as they are concerned about how a more experienced woman would expect from them. Having a connection and loving each other is the most important thing though.
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reader, keepinclassy +, writes (21 February 2011):
I was a virgin when I met my boyfriend, and he was a virgin when he met me. It's a good feeling knowing that the person you are with is just like you and has the same experience as you. If I lose my virginity to him down the road, I know that I'm not sharing him with anyone else, and that I can never be compared to another woman. Personally, I'd pick a virgin (as long as I am one) over a non-virgin anyday.
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (20 February 2011):
 I am a virgin myself, and to be honest, I don't really care. As long as he is loving, caring and respectful, that's all that really matters to me.
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (20 February 2011):
 As a virgin, I wanted a virgin man as well. Knowing he's been "through" another girl makes me sick. My ex-boyfriend had a relationship with an older divorced woman who introduced him into sex and when I found out I felt jealous. He never pushed me into doing things I didn't want to, but the simple fact that I'm sharing the same d**k with some random unknown woman made me reconsider our relationship. He was very kind and loving, but my insecurity was too deep to carry on the relationship.
Fortunately, me and my current boyfriend were both virgins and it was great because we've learned things together and we're also getting married.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): i would perfer a man with no experience but youu should try 2 find a woman that's a virqin also so both of youu quys can experience that((: it's nothinq 2 be ashamed of beinq with a experienced or not experienced man but i would of liked my boyfriend 2 be a virqin since i was cause i don't like the thouqht of him with anthor qirl but it's the past but wish youu look buddy((: -pennyy3((;
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