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writes: I'm 13 and I have a girlfriend but I can be around her but not get an erection but I do feel emotions for her. If I watch something gay or to do with a penis, I get an erection quickly but i dont feel any emotions for any male. I hope I am straight but I think I am gay. So confused.
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reader, lovedoctorlauren  +, writes (20 February 2011):
Dont worry everyone goes through confusion in there life it is just a part of growing up. Give it time and you will see how you feel
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (20 February 2011):
 You're 13-15. You're just starting to awaken to adult feelings about sexuality. The proverbial sap is starting to rise, and before you get all worried about what label to use for yourself, just explore what you feel physically and emotionally. 5 years from now, you may feel something totally different. There are changes happening to your body, and sometimes you may feel like they're driving you out of control.
Many people know how you feel. If you have someone you can talk to, a mentor of sorts you know you can trust, that would help you greatly. Sometimes, the talking is the best thing now.
As for your girlfriend, you feel emotions for her. Don't worry about your erection or anything. You feel for her, so get to know her for her. Just take things slowly. You may feel sexual feelings for you, and you may not. At your age, a close friend in each other will do both of you a lot of good. Just make her feel special. :)
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