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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for going on a year now and everything is fine... my problem is that i havent talked to him in 2 or 3 days now so i dont know if i should just wait until he calls me or should i just try and contact him... i really want to know whats up. I texed him one day to ask what was going on and he says that everything is fine. I dont think so, something is going on and I want to know. Something isn't right... Reply to this Question
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (21 February 2011):
 Yes, something's going on alright and you should be worried out of your mind! By all means, call him, go round to his house, keep sending texts and emails until you get an answer! Insist on knowing what's up!
NOT! Do this and something really WILL be up - he'll end it with you for sure and certain. Its an excellent way to make any man run for the hills....
Not hearing from someone for two or three days is nothing. Don't you think he has a life of his own - as I hope you do too? Anyway, what makes you think (apart from not hearing from him for a day or two) that something's not right?
He told you everything is fine. Why do you not believe him?
Please, try to relax and quit worrying. You're giving yourself all kinds of grief, you know. You don't need it; he doesn't need it either.
I don't mean to be harsh, but consider what I've written a wake-up call. Most likely, you will hear from him, and you'll wonder what on earth you were so worried about......
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reader, Thisdizzle +, writes (21 February 2011):
So he hasn't had a conversation with you for a couple of days. Give him his space. If your relationship can't withstand a brief lapse in communication, it won't work out in the long run.
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reader, lovedoctorlauren  +, writes (20 February 2011):
maybe you should just go and talk to him and maybe reassure that you are always there to listen to him and help him through whatever happens and maybe then he will tell you what is going on. Hope that helps
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reader, Betherly +, writes (20 February 2011):
Hi, it definatly seems like something is going on, I suggest you ring him or maybe even text him to see what's up. Maybe even go round to his house and visit some time, have a chat about it x
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