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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is there such thing as a much too sweet guy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Is there such thing as a much too sweet guy? I'm dating a great guy he sends me good morning texts. Buys me stuff for no reason and makes me art pieces and makes sure I'm okay but I'm kinda aggravated by him. I'm so used to being neglected and stuff ...

Advice needed. How can I get him to last longer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and I are sexually active and he'll only "hold up" for less than 5 mins.. I get "wetter" than normal and we're not using any protection.. he'll pull out when he starts to cum though.. how do we prevent this and make him last longer.?...

I just feel like a loser...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I started going out with this guy around halloween time last year, not that long ago. We met on a uni night out he seemed really interested as did his friend in me, but I told him straight away I had a boyfriend. I really started to like him and ...

Any first date tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - ok people i need helppp!! i am going on a first date with a guy i've liked for sooooo long, and i am sooooooooooo nervous!! i'm just out a 5 year relationship, we never really done the whole dating thing, anyway what do i say, what do i wear? what ...

First time jitters...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I've been speaking to a guy from my hometown over msn for a few months. We are arranging to meet up for the first time soon. We are both virgins and feel ready now to lose my virginity. Although I'll point out that it wont be the first time we meet ...

My boyfriend is so lovely... so why do I feel so insecure???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 months. He is 23, out of school, smart, successful, and wonderful to me. I'm 18, and a college student. This is both of our first relationships. Sometimes though, I feel really insecure. I know he ...

Should I still play hard to get?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Hi I would like to have answers from guys! We saw each other 3 times as we are both very busy but also because I went for Xmas break for 2 weeks. He seems to be a nice guy and interested. he texts me every other day. We met on online dating. T...

Question for the male aunts!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - A question for guys... do you prefer to make the first move or do you like the girl to do it?...

What happens next???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - Ok im not quite sure what to do, my gf is a 18 im 21, and we basically had it worked out so that i would put things on hold until she finished college so we could live together and she got her education, then she would take a year out so i could ...

Is he a cheat?

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5 January 2010 (F) - Is he a cheat... A few months ago mY partner went out in town and he got drunk and I didn't know where he was! I was ringing him and he wasn't answering and then his phone went off about an hour after I was constant ringing him. He came home the ...

I keep having these weird feelings... am I pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I'm 16 and recently lost my virginty to my boyfriend of 7 months now, I'm not sure if I'm pregnant or not but I keep having these weird feelings, could you guys help me out? I know the best way would be going to the doctors or taking a home ...

I want some ideas on how to give my boyfriend the best 26th birthday ever!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Hey i just want some ideas on how to give my boyfriend the best 26th birthday ever! Last year i suprised him and organised a fishing trip for him to go on. But i want to top this one. I've got a semi tight budget, but unlike last year i actually ...

Did that pain in my heart mean that much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I actually need your help. Im confused so much and Im seriously getting upset about it. There is this boy and don't stop reading this.. this isnt just some teenage matter. I fancied him for so long, like 2 years and i tried everything to get him to ...

How do I break it to him I'm a virgin and he's going to have to take things slow the next time I see him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I recently flew home for the holidays and got speaking on msn to a friend of a friend who'd asked me out for a drink a few months ago (but I'd never met up with him, as I had never seen him in person and asked my friends who had met him what he was ...

I don't want to misinterpret his niceness, but does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I need some help! I've been talking to this guy and i'm not sure if he likes me or not. I just want to be careful and not make an idiot out myself and misinterpret his actions. So far he's IMed me and talked to me and asked me about what im ...

I think I'm in the "why buy the milk?" situation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I'm 26 years old and my bf of 3 yrs (25) is really dragging his feet on the engagement issue. Since we started dating there has been so much discussion about our future, our children, where we'll live, etc. We've been living together for over 2 ...

I can never be bothered to make the first move

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - i've completely lost my sex drive and i dont know why. i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, lived together for 1 year and for the past 4 months i have no sex drive whatsoever. Dont get me wrong, once we start having sex i really enjoy it ...

I might be the rebound? Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been only dating for 2 months All of November and December but him and his girlfriend still talked during middle of Oct. He says im not the rebound but i think i am, he started dating me only a month after they broke up, but ...

Help! What does he want???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - About 8 months ago, I met a boy called Gareth. We instantly got on, and were going out within a month. We were together for about a month, I lost my virginity to him. He had pretty bad anger issues and that's why we split. He'd recently come out ...

My boyfriend says my vagina is too loose!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I've been sexually active with my boyfriend (I also lost my virginity to him) for about a year and a half now. A few days ago I played with my PC muscles when he was inside me and he said it feels wonderful, and then proceeded to tell me that it was ...

My boyfriend is on online dating sites and I'm NOT happy about it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Hi there, My boyfriend is 5 years younger than me, I'm 28 and we love one another and we're living together but there are a few things I'm not happy about our relationship. He loves going out and barely asks me to go out together. Also I...

Should I be upset about the mens magazines?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I recently talked to my boyfriend, last chrsitmas he brought home some "men's magazines" from home and had them in our bathroom. Technically I guess they weren't considered porn, but i think they were as they had naked girls EVERYWHERE. Anyway, s...

I want no strings sex - but only with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Ok so here's the situation. I am recently seperated from my husband, and started talking to this guy at work. He told me he had a girlfriend. So i chalked it up to harmless flirting. After a while the flirting became more serious. I know that him ...

Life is passing me by. I'm a virgin, I'm alone and I hate my job.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - I'm a straight male aged 21 years old. I live in a small town in the south of the Netherlands. I still live with my parents and i've got a job as an IT networking specialist. I really hate my job, but i see no other options. I've got a lot of ...

Whenever it comes to arranging to meet me he always has an excuse, is he playing games with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - im really confused i have been texting this bloke for 2 months now and have seen him twice but when ever it comes to meeting again he changes the subject and tells me he has crazy stuff going on but is still texting me. im new back to dating as only ...

What does a break really mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend been together for 5 months,well My boyfriend said he wanted a break;; but he still wants to see me,he said "he is just stress" but not from me... i dnt understand why we are taking a break,if he still wants me to come over ...

All my boyfriends think I am too unpredictable! Can I ever change and get my boyfriend to like me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one] Question 1. ok here goes...iv always been quite insecure..mainly because my dad had quite a few affairs.. Iv had 2 serious boyfriends-both who finished the relationshi...

My girlfriend wont tell me she loves me or show any affection towards me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - My girl and i have been going out for over 8 months. We really get along but the only snag in our relationship is that she doesnt tell me she loves me and she doesnt allow me to hold her or stay close to her. I know that she loves me but not hearing ...

Could my ex be starting to develop feelings for me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were together for 10 months and in that time we broke up once or twice and he would all ways come back to me. He would say he made a mistake and loves me and wants me back. We broke up again 3 weeks ago he dated another girl but ...

My man has done a disappearing act, will he come back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about a month, he's expressed a lot of interest in me and it's been going great and we get on really really well. But I haven't seen him for almost a week, or heard from him for a couple of days and I'm starting to ...

Should I stick with my long distance relationship or choose the other guy who lives in the same city as me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I have this problem I'm eighteen years old and I am already making mistakes when it comes to my relationship stats. I am a girl who has internet relationships and keeps them. My recent boyfriend Ryan who I have been talking and having a connection ...

Is this strange behavior for a guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Im so confused! This guy is so different from every other man ive ever met,and I have no idea how to take him.Ive known him for a year.We agreed to be just friends,because he claims he doesnt want a commitment.This was after we were already doing ...

Why won't he commit to anything when he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I meant this guy over 5 years ago,he became a close friend and I ended up falling in love with him and he fell in love with me. During the time I meant him I was in a horrible relationship that I was having a hard time getting out of. To say the ...

What can I do to prove to her it's the real deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - I'm in love with my best friend. We've know each other for years (13 to be exact). She knows. She says that she is afraid of losing me when I've made it abundantly clear that nothing, and I mean nothing, could make that happen. I love her too ...

What's the best way to "hook up" with him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - ok so theres this guy i kinda like, he's my friends brother and everyone thinks he's a total freak. I madeout w/ him a few times befor, but now that i dont hangout w/ his sister anymore i never get a chance 2 makeout w/ him. we go 2 the same skool ...

Will I find a girl I like inside and out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - Well Ive never had a girlfriend, but i have liked girls a lot, the last one that i liked a lot, was because she looked beautiful inside and out, she was smart(she beat me in chess xD), funny and and i liked her a lot, well she was one of those girls ...

Can't stop thinking about this other guy...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I am 26 years old and have been dating my current boyfriend for over 2 years. We had a long distance relationship for most of our time together and started living together a year ago. Since moving in together, the relationship has gotten too ...

How can I make sex more pleasurable for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been having sex for a little over two months. at first it was really painful for her now it just is when we start or if we go too long. she loves doing it but its not pleasurable for her at all shes turned on and we're ...

Our whole relationship has been one big lie! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - i recently found out through a friend that my girl friend of 3 years has a AdultfriendFinder sliver membership, according to her profile shes been with 10 guys off there in the past year and also had a 3some, she has videos up using a toy that i ...

Advice please! I don't know what to do about my boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I don’t know what to do with my boyfriend! He has everything I could ever want in a guy- nice, very much like me, adorable, caring, loving, funny, hot, fun, and I feel like he is practically my best friend. I can share anything with him and we can ...

Help! I want to tell him I love him but am scared I push him away...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - ok so i been seeing this guy for 5 months now. we have known each other for 2 years as friends. he was divorced bout a year and half ago. he was hurt horribly. so he is leary now. which is understandable. the thing is, i love him, and i want to tell ...

Help!!! AM I jealous???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend says I'm jealous. Here's why he may think so: he's still good friends with his ex (and her entire family) and goes to visit her at work and her home. She takes him to concerts and invites him out, but doesn't include me. At the same ...

In love with two amazing women...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - I'm 22 and in a long term relationship with my 1st girlfriend (just over a year) about 6 months ago I starting having feelings for a woman I work with and we starting flirting. At 1st I just selfishly enjoyed the attention and then my feelings ...

Help!!! Misunderstood...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Hi, Me and my boyfriend been going together for 5 months, and on our 5th month anniversary, he wanted to tell me something, because he thought it was best for me to know, and he told me a year ago, he was attracted to men, but he never went with a ...

Getting slapped by my boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a boyfriend for the past 10 months. usually i would tell him whatever i do. since he did not have his mobile for a few days we are not able to contact one another properly. yesterday i had gone to see a movie with ...

I'm doing him a big favour... why won't he do this for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 years, i've sacrificed almost everything for him, and i still have to do huge favours like me asking for a loan so he make a promising business venture and i'm willing to use my salary to help him because he ...

He's not financially stable enough to marry me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend n me have been together for 4 years n we really wanted to get married. however we are of different religions so we knew we would face problems convincing our families. he tried his luck really hard at business so that he could stand on ...

Should I bother having this relationship or just stay friends because of the distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I'm 16/f. My boyfriend is 17. God, I love him a whole lot. We just started dating, but we've been friends for so long that it's just like what was supposed to happen. Except... He lives an hour away from me. I'm trying to be realistic here, ...

Do men get bored of their girlfriend's bodies once they've slept with them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - hi im 19, me an my boyfriend have been together for a year now and we've been sleeping together for about 3 months. im a bit worried though because of rumours ive heard that men get bored of their girlfriends bodies really quickly once they've sle...

Any advice on breaking it off cleanly with my bf..who has anger issues, in his past

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Hello! I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I was truly in love with him but we had several problems during the relationship. He'd get incredibly angry for any reason, specially when he drank too much, and for 2 years he was addicted to cocai...