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Archived questions from: 25 January, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My girlfriend thinks making out is horrible. Can people have a relationship without kissing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - my girl friend said she thinks making out is horrible and i asked her if she really thought this because i was going to before she said it. is it normal for people to have relationships without any kissing?...

How can I just be more happy in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - hey there alright well my bf and i almost broke up last night because him and i just havent been getting along lately...like we always fight i dont have much trust for him he says i dont make him happy and he dont treat me like a gf should be treat...

Would it be against the law to date my student-teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I turned 18 on the 3rd of this month. There's a teacher (actually, not even teacher... uh, student-teacher) at my school who I've become very close with. He's 20. He, for lack of a better term, 'expressed interest' in me first. So, before I do ...

How should I proceed, following our blind date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - I went on a blind date this weekend. Prior to the date we spoke, emailed, and texted quite often for a week. When we met, I liked her immediately. We spent 5 hours together and had a great time... I think, hahaha. We got cozy with each other... a ...

Is she testing the waters, or are we really just going to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - I am man of 44 years of age and have been out of the dating game for a long time now and find it hard to tell what is going on.There is a lady i work with that i really like,we get on we get on well joke around have some fun,seem to bounce of each ...

Why am I falling for a guy whose cheated in the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - what is wrong with me? why am i in love with a player? hes cheated on his past two gfs and im sure if i get with him he would cheat. i never liked him before only recently i have never done anything with him. i just think about him alot. he doesnt ...

Could I be falling out of love ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together for 3years now, and things have been great. clearly there have been ups and downs, but it's generally good. Recently tiny things have been getting to me, and make me so annoyed at him. I always tell him when i'm...

We're 9 years apart and we're living together, but he's changed since I moved in!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Hi...I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now...I met him through his brother and started a long distance relation ship. He lived in NY and me in FL..I decided to meet him after talking to him for 7 months..It was like love at first ...

It's been over a year since we've spoken, but now we've started talking again. Could we possibly rekindle what we had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - About a year ago, I broke up with this guy I had been dating for about 6 months. I had a lot of reasons, but the main reason I did it was because we were at different parts of our lives. I was in college, and he had not yet finished high school, ...

He's been lying to me this whole time. Should I leave him or try to forgive him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend lied to me for THREE YEARS about his porn use. Don't get me wrong, I know he wanks. He's told me so, and he had even shown me the website he used (a very well known free amateur site). Now here's the thing: he told me he didn't like ...

How do I approach this guy I have a crush on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - hi there is this guy that lives by me and i kind of have a little crush on him. i want to talk to him but i dont know how to aproch him. what can i do ?...

10 Situations that Scream, "He's a Player!"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - Happy New Year! I hope all of you enjoyed a very Happy New year and that you have stuck to the resolutions that you made during this period. I simply hope that your resolution for the New Year wasn't to give up on men because by condemning all men ...

She avoids me now that she has a new bf! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - My gf avoids me what to do...? I love her more then myself but she hates me. Now she is in love with a new bf....

Do I have a committment problem with guys who like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5332 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Well everytime a dude likes me i just think of him as a friend (or even a best friend), then he gets over me, and that's when i start to like him and not beeing able to get him out of my head .. it happened to me 4 times, i dnt wanna go to the next ...

Have a rocky relationship with my girlfriend who does heroin and I don't want to lose her, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - My question is most likely a little to big for this forum... My girlfriend and I love eachother very much. We have been dating for a little over a 3 years. We took a break about a year and a half ago for the summer because we were just getting ...

Lust over emotion... should I wait? or Should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I'm fifteen and am going out with a sixteen year old. I'm a virgin and I know that he isn't. He just recently asked me out, and I asked him to maybe wait a little. He really didn't want to but he said he would wait, for me. He also said people don't ...

Can a long distance relationship really survive six years, only seeing each other twice a year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend coming up on four years, he is in an apprenticeship and I am studying at university. We see each other twice each year, typically spending a month or so together each visit, and then fly ...

No orgasm... threw up??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (?) - This might seem like a really stupid question but is it possible to throw up from not having an orgasm??? My boyfriend and I had really intense sexual exploits this weekend from Friday till Sunday trying to get me to orgasm for the first time. ...

Is it fair that I should down my ex to my new boyfriend in orde to make him feel good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I'm female - when a relationship ends and a new one begins is it okay to say bad stuff about the man you have just came out of the relationship with to the new man in your life? Not vindictive stuff, just stuff that makes the new person in you life ...

I hope he hasn't gone off me, what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - ok i hope this doesn't sound like a stupid problem but i have been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks and I really really like him. i haven't felt like this about anyone in ages, despite going on many dates. Well friday we went out and had a re...

What should I do? Giving up is not an option!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - hey guys/girls,, i will make it simple and not that big but i really need your help i know a girl that im close to (going out, filtering, feeling jealous, calls, texts) but i had a problem and i hurt her because i couldnt talk with her for 3 w...

How do I tell him that I am not slim to save any embarrassment on the night?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - i want to tell a man i am meeting soon that i am not slim. what should i say. we are only contacting by phone at the moment. have sent him sum pics and look gud in them but in reality i see myself as much bigger and think he has a rite to know. i am ...

How do I make her see that I can be more that just her best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - well im at my wits end.. I just don't know what to do I feel so blind and like I'm on a dark road that I cant see whats in front of me. I shall startfrom the start you see I moved into a house and a girl moved in with me (shes japanese) and well...

Do I always have to keep him chasing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Help from the gentlemen out there please (although ladies' opinions will be helpful too! Ta!!!). I have been in a relationship for 18 months now, and I feel that my partner has lost a bit of his interest in me. I feel that the excitement has g...

Now we have been dating for 5 months, things don't seem to be moving forward at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I am currently in a relationship that has me so confused. I feel quite strongly about him, and although i would hate to admit it, i am falling for him. I met him through friends and he seemed to like me a lot. He called me constantly asking m...

The context of an "ask out"...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - This one is for guys... Let's say that you are asked out by an attractive woman whom formally worked under you. You are both single to your knowledge. She sends you a casual email asking you out to a drink. How would you feel, would you think ...

Why not me? Whats wrong with me? Am I really that unattractive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Its either my face, my weight, or my color... I am 23 and I turn 24 this year and I have never had a boyfriend. I tried to join dating sites and I get rejected by every guy that I try to contact. They dont even try to tell me that they arent ...

When you're with a man you're in lust with, how would you describe the real you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - Girls.... When you're with a man you're in lust with, how would you describe the real you, i.e. your real personality, as opposed to the one you show in public?...

Boyfriend bailed on me and is now on dating site...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost two months. (we are both in our late 30s) A couple of weeks ago he began acting a bit distant when we were apart which made me concerned so I ended up doing some poking around and found out that he did ...

What should I get my boyfriend for valentines day? I want it to be special.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - i'm 15 years old, 9th grade and this will be the first valentines day with my boyfriend. we're really serious and he means the world to me, but i'm not sure what to get him or do for him for valentines day. we haven't had sex, but we've done ...

We had sex the other day...now I seem to be regretting and doubting a lot of things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy for only 2 weeks and he's been saying he loves me since before we even started dating. He's always been a really good friend of mine and well we had sex the other day...now I seem to be regretting and doubting a lot of ...

.....i know what I should do- but why cant I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I really don't know where to start...i met a guy a year back- he has just broken up with his girlfriend at the time..he made me feel good (i am a very pretty girl- he is also good looking- but we connected at a different level), the first guy who i ...

I like someone else, but am jealous that my bf does too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a couple months and its been progressing slowly. He is my first boyfriend but im having a feeling that i want it to go by faster, he hasn't kissed me yet and i want him to. but lately there's t...

I'm too shy to approach him. What should I do/

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - There is a senior i like so much. I use to say hey to him at the begining at the year but i stoped after like 2 weeks cuz he didnt say anything back. Well for the last couple of weeks everytime i walk past him i see him looking at me. I never talk ...

Should I worry that I'm gonna get dropped soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - hi, my gf's ex bf emailed me today, something thats kinda irratated me, i dont approve of my gf's actions regarding her ex on this one, well not alot of her actions with him i really like... i havent talked to her about it because shes accused me ...

I told him I loved him and now I feel foolish

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - He and I have been dating for 4 months, but known each other for 5 years. We actually dated for a year, but remained friends all this time. On wednesday while we were out to dinner, I told him that I love him. He didnt say it back, but he said ...

I'm really falling for him but I'm terrified he'll get over me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I (both 22) have been dating about 5 months. Things are going pretty well, he said he loved me three wks ago, but we don't talk as much as I would like. We can only really see each other twice a week (because of hour distance btwn ...

He meant the world to me. He kissed, ignored, then left. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - So this guy and i have been friends for about one and half years now. Our friendship was amazing for the first year but for the past six months it's been confusing and hurtful but we always fix the problems. However, when we were friends i would ...

Is it true that love can grow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - Met this girl at school in October. She came off a bad break up with her "first love" in July and took it really hard as lots of promises were given and what not. He broke up with her. They fought alot, etc. All in all he was insecure so I think ...

Will my sexual attraction to my friend pass?

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25 January 2010 (F) - HI ,, guys i had a post about me being in love with my best friend , since the post i have told him how i feel and i was rather shocked by his answer , and since then we had been getting even closer , thing is now , i am extremely sexually attracted ...

I disclosed details about our sex life and now she dos not trust me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - my girlfriend I were dating for 6 months. I lied to my girlfriend. I lost her trust. How can I get her to trust me again. We are broking up for about an month now. I want her to trust me again. She has stuff in her past that she doesn't want people ...

Do or I or don't I have sex with my 31y/o virgin girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - Hi all, I never thought I would come a cross this at this stage of my life and age, I meet this girl that I have been dating for about 2-3 months now, she is 31 and I am 40, she is great we like each other and I am not a starter in dating and se...