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Dating: Help and advice

Should I be with my boyfriend or the man I think I still love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Hi All, Okay, well this guy Matt is amazing, he's kind and honest and passionate. I really feel alot for him, but there are alot of things holding me back. He is 5 years older than me (23 and i'm 18), lives in London and I have just moved to Un...

How can I stop being jealous and how can I stop thinking of his past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months and when it got to about 6 months, i became really jealous and annoyed over his past. we've both slept with the same amount of people and ive dated more than him, but his past really annoys m...

What should I do about Lewis?

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3 January 2010 (F) - theres this dude we'll call him lewis and we'll call the other shaun. lewis and i had a fling halloween nite,we didnt do enything just kissed and groped. then a few weeks later i seen him up my local well its OUR local. he always insists buyi...

I dumped him on his Birthday, he wants me back, but can I trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - I liked my boyfriend alot but I felt like we grew apart so I dumped him on his B-day. I know that seems heartless but I liked another guy and if I didnt dump my bf on his B-day then I would be cheating. Well I did it as nice as I could but he said ...

When will he say I love you!?

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3 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I went to High School together but werent really friends. We have mutual friends though so we have hung out sporadically over the years. Well last year (april 2009) we ran into each other and the next day I got an email on my ...

Why can I not get that chemistry with someone any more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - You know the feeling you get when you just meet someone and your stomach drops because of that amazing chemical reaction? I haven't had it in almost a year. Seriously, i'm going insane, no matter what situation, who i'm with or even if it was just...

How do I explain that I do want to be with her, but I've got a bit of emotional baggage that I'm stuck with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - this girl and i are hitting the stage of a serious relationship, but i'm worried that we won't make it that far. This girl, let's call her megan, is a lot more carefree and loose than i ever was, but the real problem is that im afraid to tell her ...

She says she loves me to the end of the earth but doesn't want to lose our friendship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - So i have known this girl for most of my life, i met her freshmen year of high school and i am now 21. My problem is that i am confused. I really care about this girl, and she told me recently that she loved me to the ends of the earth after saying ...

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3 January 2010 (M) - I have liked this girl for quite a while now and never had the confidence to ask her out for the fear being rejected, my mate says that she likes me but I think he's just saying that to make me feel better. On New Year's Eve she was out and I ...

Should I approach him first? Or should I let him do the chasing?

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3 January 2010 (F) - Hello again, I have written a few times and have gotten good advice. I'm the one who dated the man who was very heavy for almost six months and broke up because of his ED. He played lots of games after we broke up like making me jealous ...

I get nasty when drunk but ONLY with my boyfriend! Why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a perfect relationship, he's loving and caring, attentive and passionate, basically everything a girl could want, obviously it has its little problems however in general its good. The problem is when we drink i always end up ...

He has feelings but doesn't want to get back together. How can I harness those feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and I broke up a while ago. We've been separated for the past 6 months due to job relocation. He's back. We've seen each other. I haven't gotten over him. I can't tell if he's gotten over me but I do know he doesn't want to get ...

My lover wants to be watched!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - hi i have been in a relationship for the past 18 months and we have both fallen in love with each other very much so. our sex live is wounderful and we are exploring each other. a few weeks ago whilst having sex i asked about what her fantasy was,...

How can I stop being so controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - I've realised I've turned into being controlling as a girlfriend. I'm very sensitive about issues such as porn and fantasies and have imposed rules on my boyfriend around this in the past. He cheated on me once a few months ago and quit drinking. ...

My boyfriend just left for army training and its killing me... any one been in my shoes or could just give me some advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over 3 months now, i know it doesnt seem long but you know when you have that connection that is soo strong and makes you feel like their the one, well hes that guy. Any way he just left for ar...

Is she having an orgasm?

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3 January 2010 (M) - I just want to know how do I tell when my girlfriend is about to have an orgasm or is busy having one, because most of the time when i give her oral sex, her body shakes and she tenses up for a moment then releases and she moans alot, is she ...

How can I make things better between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Help me please, i really cant stop thinking about this guy, i met him in may last yr and swapped numbers, then stoped talking then in october, we started talking again, and hit it off really well, i met him 3 times and slept with him twice, the ...

He's kept everything from his relationship with his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Basically, I have the decition of dating a man. He is everything i like. Funny, smart, attractive, sweet, ect. The whole pacage. My mother loves him, but has no idea what is going on with me and him. We spend just about everyday togeather, and each...

Does he want a second date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - I am so nervous about this that I can't sleep. I went out with a really sweet guy who I really like a lot, but I'm afraid that he doesn't like me as much as I like him. We had a great conversation and lots of flirting, but nothing more tha...

My boyfriend told me he doesn't want a relationship in college. what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - So, heres the deal. I'm a junior in high school. My boyfriend is a senior. We have been dating for 6 months. Our age never made a difference at all, until now. He's starting to get serious about college, and it has brought up questions about our ...

B/friend's parents HATE me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating my bf for a year now, and his parents are an issue. His mother more so, in the beginning she wouldnt let us hold hands in her house. She says she likes me and when I go over, shes always glad to see me. Untill my bf and I fought...

Should we wait a few years before dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - There is this girl that I like, and she likes me too. (we have already kissed a few times) I just turned 17 and she turns 15 in May. We have known each other since October, when we met at a football game. I am a junior and she is supposed to be a ...

How does the zodiac sign picese attract another picese with bipolar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Theres this boy... he is really hot. He's 14 and his zodiac sign is a picese. i just would like to know how i could make him fall in love with me. we happen to both be the zodiac sign. i just need somebody to help me figure out how i could make him ...

Prison not Broken Heart

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3 January 2010 (F) - The way i met my current fiance was while being pen pals to inmates from a site i found online. I wanted just to make new friends and give people who are in jail hope that there are people out there who will listen, not judge and can be friends ...

Pushing things in the right direction

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3 January 2010 (F) - ok so.. i am talking to the same guy i have been posting about and we are talking again just recently and i guess we are kind of in between friends and gf and bf.. we went through so much together and he wants to give us a chance to see if we should ...

Help! Her past is freaking me out!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - Hello dear cupid, here I am again. Yesterday I had the strangest day of my life. With my Gf we are together for 7 months, and we really love and live together in same appartement.May be in future she will be my wife who knows. So yesterday she was ...

He won't have sex with me because I'm pregnant yet pleasures himself with porn!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - I'm 27 weeks pregnant with my partner. There is a 20 year age gap between us. He told me he is not sexually attracted to me any more and then tried to tell me that he didn't say that a few days later and that he meant it its because of the baby he ...

Terrified of going ahead with this in case it leaves me in an emotional shambles again... Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - My bf and i had decided to get married in 2 years but later he put it on hold saying his parents wouldn't agree to the match. He suggested that we should just remain friends. I had stopped picking up his calls to try to get over it. But after a ...

Are we too young to want to be together for the rest of our lives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Hello (: I'm new to this site, but every time I type something into google to look for advice, I always get sent here. Right now, I am dating a boy who is a year younger than I am. I am 15 years old (almost 16) and he is 14. He's (as I call him) ...

What do I do? Directly ask for sex, make the first move or just accept being horny all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - my new b/f and i have only had sex a few times..at first it was hard 4 me 2 get wet with him bcuz i was so nervous being that we had been friends 4 a few years. Now it seems like i always want to do him but he's not around.. What do I do? Directly ...

Should I let him continue to text me first or should I take the initiative sometimes?

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3 January 2010 (F) - Hey i was wondering if anyone could give me some advice please. My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago we were togather for 10 months. we said we would still be friends and he's texed me a couple times. We talk just fine but i was wondering ...

Can I trust him again... I love him so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Here's the thing I was with my boyfriend for 8months when I found some texts from another girl being really flirty when I confronted him about it I asked him staight if he was flirting and he said yes! I agreed to stay with him if he didn't text her ...

Does anyone else feel like a stranger the morning after sex?

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3 January 2010 (F) - the other night i was round my blokes house for the night and we had amazing sex he kept going for ages which really pleasured us both. the next morning when we got up it was like the previous night never happened. Does anyone else feel like a...