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Archived questions from: 15 January, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Does he just need time... or is it really over??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - I've been with a guy whom i fell in love with we have been going together for about a year. everything was perfect never argued till one day during the summer of 09 i told him i had gotten a call from my ex husband's friend whom i had stupidly slept ...

She has told me what she did with her ex and I think it makes her look easy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for 8 months now and i love her but she dated my friend a little before me and her but that's ok I know about that all along that's not a big deal. What I just found out is that thay started dating the last week of ...

Will experimenting with rough sex...change our relationship in a negative way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have a very loving relationship. We care for each other greatly, and I respect her so much. We have done some minor BDSM and slave things but she recently told me that she wants more. She wants me to be really rough on her, ...

Trying to understand why my gf started to hang out with a bad group of friends. Any insight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Hi, i recently broke up with my ex-girlfriend 3 months ago. And i REALLY need help with this situation. During our relationship we had our ups and downs but it was mainly because of this groups of "lesbian girls" That would start stuff and try to...

Can guys fall in love with girls who have scars on their bodies?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Can you guys fall in love with a girl with scars on her body? burns, insect bites, injuries and other types of scars. Can you guys stay, love and be with a girl with those? Does it matter?...

He isn't himself lately. What's up with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Hey :) for the past few days my boyfriend has been acting strangely. We go to different schools in the same town so we only get to see each other a few times a week, but when we do he's always happy and funny like usual. He is also happy and funn...

I don't understand why our relationship is this way! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5429 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - in the begining we met and became friends and both were showing attention in each other, physically, teasing etc ... then we became closer n closer.. anyway later on i kissed her after two months of knowing each other then she sent me a message ...

My crush found out I like her - not from me. What do I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - recently i told my friend the girl i liked in confidence, then he's told someone, and they told someone etc. and sure as it gets, she found out. i don't know how she reacted because i just found out on the bus back from school, but i don't know what ...

He says he loves me but he's scared! Is he stringing me along?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 7 months. We got together april 2009, and broke up officially in october. He had gone on vacation for 3 weeks, and came back, telling me that he does love me, and that he does want to be with me and he knows that he ...

I told my ex boyfriend I still love him, what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend have just started talking again after he broke up with me a month ago because he was too busy for a girlfriend. Since we've been chatting, he's told me he loves me, he's asked about my family and college and seems genuinely ...

He stopped getting jealous.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - I am wondering, my bf used to be very jealous, and all of a sudden he isnt. Is this normal? initially, even going to see male friends was a problem. today i told him i was going to the club and would spend the night with my friends ata guys house an...

I think I am emotionally unattached...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend live about four hours away from each other. Our relationship was physical before we became official bf gf... and everything was great. we only first had sex like 3 weeks before we actually got together. I really enjoy talking to ...

Could someone interpret his actions and tell me what I should do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - This incident happened 1 month ago when I went on a trip to the Philippines. Its a community service project that I was involved in and the group has been preparing for the trip for 3 months. As we'll be staying with the villages, the leader h...

What should my next move be about my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for two years. we have had rows in the past but always made up. last week end we had a huge row cos of comments that i had and regretted and apologised since for making them. I saw him sunday and he said that he ...

He has trouble ejaculating and it's made me feel inadequate! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together a year. He was single when I met him but his ex has been particually nasty as she was annoyed he had moved on. She told me he had premature ejaculation when he was with her, but doesn't have it with me because ...

Should I tell my cousin that the guy she loves, is into BDSM? She has no clue.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - My friend, who is elder than me, is in love with my cousin. Lets call him 'B' and her 'G'. After some incidents, i found out that B likes BDSM and self bondage. B says he likes it very little. I'm sure G does not like BDSM. So B requested me not to ...

We broke up with no further contact from her! It seems heartless..what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - I was with w woman for the last ten months in a pretty solid relationship. We started to argue about some differences here and there and big things turned into bigger things. We seemed to not be able to come to an agreement on some things so I ...

I just want to win him back but he's gone cool. What is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - I was seeing this guy several months ago i think he seemed really keen on me. however things didnt work out as i was still coming to terms of the loss of a previous partner.however i have come to realise that i would really like to have a ...

He's into Tranny porn, and talking to him doesn't work as he has a bad temper! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Last week i found my live-in boyfriends stash of Transexual porn. These "girls" are not of the pretty or feminine variety. He begs for Anal sex which I tried and hated because its soooo sore and he doesn't slow down when i ask him to (pain). A...

Six things we women wish you men knew

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Lila here~ Last week on the radio show we were talking about the top 25 things women wish men knew, according to Men's Health magazine. I came up with my own top six: 1. We're suckers for romance. You probably know that, right? Never ask, do yo...

I have no life, feeling like a useless girlfriend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my fiance for 4 years and we have just got back from traveling together for a year and i have never felt such a come down as i have right now, i was used to being with him everyday, feeling like a proper couple, enjoying cooking ...

I don't know if I like him, it's on and off. So what do I tell my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - my best fiend thinks that i like him but he's not sure. my other friends think so too but i deny it. i don't know if i like him, it's on and off. so what do i say to the people who ask without them assuming that i like him? ...

Which man should I Choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - I am a 34 year old woman recently separated from my husband aged 37. We have 3 children together and we have been married for 14 years. We love each other but he has cheated on me several times so I kicked him out. Everytime I have caught him he ...

My Boyfriend Wont Say "I Will Love You Forever." Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5431 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Me and my Boyfriend have been together for more than 4 years and he always is constantly saying that he loves me, but the other night I told him that I will love him forever and I asked if he felt the same way and he said that he doesn't know ...

I confessed my love! She asked me for time.. Do I have any chances of getting a + response from her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - I recently confessed my 10 year love to a girl. I was a little shy so I left her a present along with a note saying that I am deeply interested in her. Initially she did not see the note and thanked me for the present saying that it was a pleasant ...

HAVEN'T HEARD FROM THIS GUY IN A WEEK... WHAT SHOULD I DO ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Me and this guy met online and we have been talking/texting to each other for over two months. Everything was amazing we have so much in common like our birthdays are on the same day,we listen to a lot of the same music and think very alike and ...

Does she respect me and my love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - my girlfriend won a bet and asked me to smooch her hard thrice .....we have done this before many times ....is she just using me to satisfy her needs ? i didnt speak a word and she soon realised that she was desperate, then she said was joking and ...

Do you think I will hear from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - I am a senior in college. At the end of last semester, I asked my teaching assistant out for a drink over email. He responded that he was soon to be going out of town for the holidays but "perhaps" we could arrange to do something once he got back ...

Why are some guys so mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - y do sum guys do this. make fun of u behind your back but act all lovely in your face.always wantin to hug you.constantly wantin to b around you. does the most. obvious things just to get your attention. im talkin about a 21 year old not a little ...

I want to follow my dreams but don't want to do it alone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - I want to follow my dreams, but i don't want to go it alone. I really enjoyed studying my course, but now that i'm finished and qualified, i want to do another one to get better at what i do and hopefully get a better job. But the course i want to ...

Is there any way to know if I was sexually abused or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - i was physically and emotionally abused as a child by my biological father until the age of seven although it was more emotional than physical. up until this past year i had no recollection at all about my childhood until age 8. i have always been ...

I'm constantly thinking he's lying to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5431 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy for almost two years now. We are the best of friends and he's always there for me and I just feel really close to him. He says I am the first to make him feel this way or to change him in a good way (such as his temper ...

Love? Lust? Infatuation? or Friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - caring about him more than yourself sacrificing yourself for his happiness feeling his pain more than himself being attached to him so badly that you cant be without him[messaging every second, not letting him go out of station] sharing all yo...

I am acting like a jerk because I want her to break up with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - I think I need serious help. I haven't been happy one day in the past 3-4 months after I left my ex. I'm starting to get worried, i'm constantly thinking about her, and I'm always missing her. I'm with a girl I dont even like, I have lately stopped ...

My cousin's ex is telling my fiance lies and he is believing them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid: My cousin's ex boyfriend, Joe (name changed)works with my fiance and he is constantly telling my boyfriend lies about me. I dont know what to do. I am getting extremely frustrated. Help!!! To make a long story straight, my cousin i...

I have a live in boyfriend but am finding myself attracted elsewhere

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, So this is a little bit long, but I think some back ground info is neccessary for the question: I've been dating my current boyfriend for over a year, and we live together. We get along great... never fight or anything, and I l...

I am in love with two men, and I need to decide who to stay with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - I am in love with two men. have been in love with the guy I thought was the one for six years, he lives in another country and wants me to move there and that is the main issue or was. He got fed up and cheated two years ago, and I loved him so ...

My girlfriend is my best friend, how will I know when it's time to ask her to marry me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - I just want to know what marriage means. I dont want to rush it but i also know this women is someone i can trust. Maybe how long do i wait or when i know its right to propose? Even if we don't get married we mutually benefit each other. Not ...

I am dating a girl two years older and it bothers her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - Well I need help with a situation that me and my girlfriend is having. We been dating not too long ago, I am 15 and she is 17, but she is worry about the age and she said it bothers her alot, I've try many ways to convince her that age doesn't ...

He dumped me and wont speak to me, and his mother says he needs space to move on

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together for 5 years and there were a number of things he did to hurt me through those years, but I always forgave him and I was always very good to him - always honest and never did anything wrong. So a few months ago I wa...