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Archived questions from: 13 January, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I know I'm making her miserable somehow but can't talk with her about it, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - Right this is a rather strange one I think, but here goes.. I have been with my partner for ages, i honestly adore her and i really want to be with her forever. All the time together has been great until now. She seems in a constant bad mood an...

Conflicted... and want to air out some things on my mind

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - I've been seriously dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years now, when we started having sex we were just getting to know our bodies and that was fine. Sex was exciting and frequent enough I guess. Fast forward and now for the past few months sex has ...

What do you make of her behavior?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - She teases me (makes fun of me). Whenever I talk to her she gets really loud like if I make fun of her she pretends to get mad (she almost hit me!). She's not a loud/flirty person at all and kinda shy. We usually don't talk (usually shes th...

How long does it take for the "honeymoon phase" of a new relationship to wear off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - Just wondering...how long (on average) does it take for the honeymoon phase of a relationship to be over (or) start to wear off? Im not looking for people who say they've had the honeymoon stage for 2 years or that it all depends on the person, i...

How do you get a shy guy to admit his feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - How do you get a guy whos really shy and kinda nervous around you to admit how he feels about you when your just as bad yourself? Thing is we havent had the greatest past history, and i could of and should of easily walked away from it all but ...

Do you think I should expect to hear from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - I am a senior in college. At the end of last semester, I asked my teaching assistant out for a drink over email. He responded that he was soon to be going out of town for the holidays but "perhaps" we could arrange to do something once he got back ...

I hate my bf's weed habit! Help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - ok, i have a boyfriend and we been together for three years now, and about a year ago i told him that he had to choose me or the weed...and he said that he would stop. and about a week ago we got into a fight and it came out that he never stopped ...

What do I do about this guy, who doesn't give anything back in this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - In a nutshell. This guy and I dated about 8 years ago. We broke up, and reconnected a few months ago thanks to a mutual friend we both keep in contact with. We started out as friends, then moved on to friends with benefits. After a few week...

How can you tell a guys intentions, when you date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - how do you now when a boy wants you for you and doesnt just want to have sex with you?? what would he be like if he just liked me for me? and what type of things would he do if he just wanted a leg over?? guys id appreaciate your help esp...

My gf's snoring is so bad, I can't stand it! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - hi. My girlfriend snores so bad that I just cant stick it!! I had to tell her one night because I just couldnt take it anymore I woke up and fell asleep about twenty times an hour. Anyway i bought ear plugs but they started to hurt my ears and ...

He's not over his deceased gf...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend of two years is a great guy. But before me his girlfriend then, had died. We also live together and have no children. He says he loves me and i believe him but i really dont think he is over his ex. I have been very supportive and ...

How can I help her get over the loss of her baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - I am currently engaged to the love of my love who is 19 years old, she her self has been through some very difficult times included losing her father, a drug addiction and she also suffers from bipolar, we have been together for all most 2 years and ...

Advice on doing a good striptease???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - My and my boyfriend have planned to have a sexy night soon. One thing that I would really like to do is a strip tease for him as I've never done one properly before for him. I was just wondering what actually makes a good strip tease? Do I start wi...

I recently had an abortion and now I feel I'm spiraling out of control...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - I recently had a surgical abortion at 9 1/2 weeks. That is, i was put under general anesthetic and the pregnancy was sucked out :( My boyfriend has been really suppotive and so have all my friends so I've been trying to put on a brave face but it's ...

Is having sex this soon sending bad messages to a man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - I have been seeing someone for 2 weeks, and already had sex. It just feels very comfortable with him and I am in mid 40's he is 5 years older. Does that send a bad message to a man ? or is it ok if you both are really feeling were the relationship ...

She says her head is in the wrong place and doesn't want to be with anyone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - I love this girl, we are very close an she says she likes me alot, more than friends, when were together we hug an kiss, and we spend the best times together, i know its ment to be, but her head is all over the place at the moment and she doesnt ...

Is this considered a failed proposal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - Is moving out of your bf/gf's house the same as a failed proposal? I've been with my ex for 3 years (on/off), we move in together for 5 months and we split. I have a feeling he wants to get back together with me, but not live together. I feel...

He doesn't care! So why do I want to be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - I have been with this gentlemen for 3 years. It has been an on again off again relationship. He says he loves me but he never calls, he never says thank you, he never goes out of his way to do anything for me. When I do help him whenever he asks. Ex ...

My bf is acting overly cheesy. How can I let him know it's a turn off without hurting him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - Okay, so, my boyfriend is overly cheesy. At least, he says cheesy things all the time. And when I say all the time, I mean, at least 5 times a day. I'm a sucker for romantic things and everything, but this has grown to be too much. I mean, I'...

Wait for her text?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - Hey, Quick question, I got a date with a girl on Sunday, for the past couple of days we have texted quite alot, generally with me starting conversation one day, her the next. She said she'd text me this morning before work, however, she has...

In love with 2 guys at once...what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - Six months ago I decided to go into a relationship with guy A. I can honestly say I love him and am inlove with him,he makes me happy. A month ago, I started working as a kitchen manager at a friends pub.. Guy B is a friend as well as my boss, he is ...

Should I date a guy I think my best friend likes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - I've liked a guy for a couple of months now and he's a great friend and fun to be around. There is 2 problems. One he's liked the same girl for 61/2 years. I don'tknow how to deal with this. Second, I think my best friend likes him. She is the one ...

My best friend and g/f are also friends, and I think I like my b/f more than my g/f

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - I currently have a girlfriend, and I love her and care a lot about her. My best friend is a girl, and she really really likes me. I care about her a lot also, and the truth is sometimes I feel like I am closer with her than my girlfriend. The ...

Should I tell him he could have aspergers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and we live together. He's always seemed adorably quirky and awkward to me, but recently a friend who works with aspergers a lot pointed out to me that he is a textbook example of someone with ...

My boyfriend of six years has female friends I don't like

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - hey everyone i am new to this so i hope someone can help me... i been in a 6yr relationship and i have some insecurities...so recently my bf found out i messaged this girl on his friends list on myspeace...it was a simple thing and i wasvery polite ...

Could these be signs he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - Hello I have known this guy for about seven months now. Things have started to change over the last couple of months. I work at a gas station he comes in everynight sunday through thursday. Let me know what you think. Does he like me? 1. First he...

Can a guy be so sure about someone in the first 6 months?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5433 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - I don't know what my question is exactly but here goes After years of bad dating experiences and not one long term relationship, I've now been with my boyfriend for about 6 months. I've never met anyone like him, he's just amazing. I've me...

How can I be myself around him when I'm so shy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5433 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - First off I'm really shy around him, I think he is a bit shy to and neither of us have had a serious relationship before, I over think everything to the point that its stressful to actually say so I won't, and I'll respond with some stupid one or ...

Do you think he used me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - ive been getting to know this guy..he'd call and text me everyday..he even rang me and texted me everyday other day when he was on holiday. he made me fall for him and i actually believe that he liked me too.. i went to see him.. and ...

Am I really that unlikeable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - Hello aunts. I'm a 15 year old freshman boy. And about 2 years i used to be happy. I'm not saying everything was alright, because they weren't. my life was still horrible then. I actually liked going to school, to be honest it was my home from ...

Dating the ex's best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5433 days ago

13 January 2010 (?) - So I dated a girl starting last july and was in a long distance relationship with her till about Nov. I didn't really seeing it going anywhere so I ended it. She would take me over to her friends a lot and we became good friends. About a month after ...

Should I Choose Between My Boyfriend And Family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - I am almost 20 years old, and female. When I was 16, I began dating a boy who was 18 and lived in California. I'm from Texas. We spent a lot of time with each other despite the fact we lived so far away from each other. I flew to see him and he flew ...