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Archived questions from: 23 January, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Could you please help me to either move on or give me a chance with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - hi, I'm a 15 year old boy, I have this friend who's a beautiful girl with the most amazing personality. I think I love her but I'm too embarrassed to say anything to her because I have asked her out before and she said no. I now get very shy ...

My mind is consumed with what she claims was drunken sex romp!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - So I met this girl at a party a while back and we hit it off super well. And we started hanging out.. a lot. We spent a lot of time together and were messing around, we hadn't had sex for the first 2 weeks that we hung out (On my call, she wanted it ...

He is taking his friends advise not to get back with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - He goes with me at school. We hang out together and my friend told me he talked with her and told her that he STILL loves me after i broke up with him twice and the truth is i still love him to. She told him to talk to me but he still has'nt ...

All seemed to be going great and then voila! he disappeared

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - I have known this guy for several months, we are on the cycling team together he is 22 and I'm 20. Last week we danced together and made out at a party. He came over to my place the next day and we kissed, cuddled and made plans to spend time ...

I feel I cant match his last girlfriend for looks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Okay, so I'm dating this guy and everything is great. Execpt I feel like theres alot of pressure on me. The last girl he went out with was gorgeous, she's really pretty and one of them most desired girls in school. I feel like I cant possibly li...

Should I ask out my best friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - i have this huge crush on my best friend and i really want to ask her out, the only problem is she knows i fancy her, what should i do?...

Scared to get an HIV test because if I test positive, my new guy will dump me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - I am scared of getting an hiv test. Me and my boyfriend broke up for eight months and then I got a new boyfriend and slept with with out protection. I broke up with him because he was annoying. We only dated for two months. He has never been checked ...

How come everybody likes the same guy I like

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - ever since i liked this guy everyone else wants to date him, why though?...

How do I quit being so overly jealous here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - here goes my prob. m very jealous, everytime i see my bf talking to some other chick i go green. i always embarass myself infront of people because when that happens i dont care where we r i shout at the top of my voice its so embarrasing. the other ...

We were trying to reconcile and I find out he 's dating another woman!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend who claimed to love me broke up with me just less than a year ago due to arguing too much. I didn't really think things were that bad (we were trying long-distance for a period of time he had to be away) but we went our own ways and I ...

Do you think he wants me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - I am wondering if this means anything. I had an fling with this guy-- I say fling because it was sex 3 times then people began suspecting and we couldn't be together anymore ( I am separated- he is single, but some politic are involved here). It ...

Has my guy lost interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - ive have been with this guy for over a year now . i live with him we see each other every day . were very involved in each others lives but here lately its like he doesn't want to tuch me. what does that mean, has he lost interest. i love this man ...

What are the main signs that he is only looking for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Hello! I've recently got back together with my boyfriend after i dumped him. I dumped him because of family related problems which made me push him away. My boyfriend felt that in our relationship he/ we had become selfish( not seeing friends etc). ...

If a straight man in a relationship with a straight woman receives "a massage + a happy ending" from a male masseuse--no emotional intimacy involved--is that cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Brief facts: I'm female. Been with my boyfriend for nearly a year. I'm very, very open minded. Compared to other relationships I've been in, our sex life isn't so great (for various reasons), but there's a lot of love between us. I KNOW he's int...

How to maintain a level of Respect from a Guy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - I am getting to know a guy that requested my friendship online and I am trying to maintain my respect in the process.. what I mean by that is when I gave him my number he replied to my email through text and the reply was kind of on the "fresh" side ...

My bf's friend is jealous. How can I not come between them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Right im in a relationship, and have known the guy for over a year so i know all his friends, in particular his closest friend. But this friend at first wasnt too sure about me and has gradually warmed up, but i found out that he gets jealous of me ...

There are no more butterflies..bored but scared to let him go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - hey, so i dont really know what im asking. But i know i have a problem. I have been seeing this guy for almost a month. We have been on a few dates and text constantly. When we started seeing each other, he was friends with my friend so she didnt ...

How can I sort this all out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Sorry my question is so long but i couldnt shorten it anymore.If you need to know anything about it please ask. Me and this guy met up and liked each other.after a week he asked me to have a relationship with him which i said no because i find it ...

Am I bisexual or do I just fancy a tumble with a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - hi there. i am a very girly girl i love to take care of my appearance and love make up and doing my hair. however i catch myself looking at GIRLS and fantasize of how they would be in bed. i am really attracted to the "tomboy" kind of lesbian ...

How do you knock back a friends advances without losing the friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - There's this boy in my year at school. We're good friends, but he's always hugging me and saying "Wuv you," and telling me how gorgeous I am and flirting with me... He hasn't actually asked me out yet, but, all my other friends think he will so...

I think he could still love me to but I'm not sure because he said nothing more than friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Well.. I firstly want to thank anyone who replys to this it means a lot to me. I am in love with a boy (lets call him T) I have been since August last year. Me and T dated a lot like not as boyfriend and girlfriend but it was dates as w...

My b/f says he doesn't know what he feels for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend says he doesn't know what he feels for me and needs to see me to help him decide. I went overseas and he had to move back to his hometown cos he lost his job. We had discussed we could manage a long distance relationship cos...

I am about to meet my online b/f and worries I might not be slim enough for him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - would like some answers from male readers. i have been txting a man now for the last 5 mths. we get on great and he is a great person. he lives few hours away and we are meant to be meeting next week. he has seen pics of me but had to take them ...

My girlfriend is suspicious and always frowning at me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - hi there. my gf and i are having serious problems since she saw me holding her sisters waist. she thinks we have someting doing but we dont! she frowns at everything i do,call me names,even in sex she frowns. please u guys should tell me what to do. ...

Just thinking about him turns me on. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - there this guy that am getting to know.. and i swear when i think about him.. i get soo horny:(.. is like i just wanna be with him..like have him sexually:(..am always fantasising about him..am soo embarrassed:(.. am not a sl.utt or anything.. and ...

BF pushing me away, but does not know I only have months to live. Should I tell him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - ah, I can't stop the way I feel and stay away.. I love someone he loves me too but we can't be together coz plenty of reasons anyway, I have a health issue for years and it got worse in the last year. Recently, the medicine stop working I tried al...

2 friends on dating site both contacting me. Are they playing games with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - I met a guy like 2 weeks ago on a dating site, we have been exchanging really long mails and we started chatting as well, it seems we have a lot of "chemistry", so I am starting to like him a little to much and it "feels" like he likes me a lot as ...

Should I give an ultimatum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - I started hooking up with a friend of mine about 4 months ago. We love each others company and have a great time together. She knows how I feel and she bounces back and forth between feeling the same way, and just wanting to be friends. I want to ...

Am I crazy to wait for a guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Hey there. Ok so when I told my best friend how strong my feelings were for him, he had told me that he liked me too but he doesnt want a girlfriend right now. Then i asked how long do i have to wait because i dont wanna wait forever and then he ...

I think its time I raised the subject of sex with my girl, but unsure how to do it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - What would be a good way to bring up having sex to mu gf? We have been together for well over a year now. We have gone as far as dry humping with only our underwear on. So what would be a good way to bring up the topic of sex to her?...

We've been dating for about two months but now I don't even find her attractive anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - Some background info to start out: -We're both in high school -This relationship is both our 1st relationship with anyone -We've been dating for about 2 months, and we've known each other for about 5 or so. -We see each other everyday at schoo...

He just wants to be friends and free to flirt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

"All the Rules" has any1 read it and found success?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - ok just bought the book "All the Rules" and its about dating and how to hook line and sink a husband, has anyone read it and found it to be successful? It was a pretty popular book around 1995/96... anyone who has read it please reply!...

How do I French Kiss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - how does french kissing work?...

Read his letter and tell me..should I work this out with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Here is a letter my "fiance" sent me.. we have a 21 month old daughter have been together for 3 years. Please read it and let me know if I should bother trying to work this out. thank you. ----(from him) So let's cut the crap. I don't ...

He wants the baby but not me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - good morning everybody, i'm 23, i have my boyfriend and we have been together for 2 years. First, he loved me so much but my parents were really disappointed about our relationship. Now i'm 2 months pregnant, i told him so and he's being like a ...