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Archived questions from: 4 January, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Big trouble with him ..and his Mother! Should I go stay or go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - dear cupid i need help!!! i've been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs and i dont know what to do should i stay or should i go thats the question i need answered. first of all we been together for 2 yrs and he has'nt had a job that he last for more than a ...

Should I fly out there and surprise her? What do you all think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - My girlfriend had to move back home (thousands of miles away from me) we were OK for a few months then she said it was to hard and we couldn't be together and broke up with me. We still talk every couple weeks and in emails she still says she ...

Thinking too much of this other girl..help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

4 January 2010 (?) - dear cupid, i have been with my partner for nearly two years now. i met her just before and fell in love with her straight away but recently a girl that has been missing from my life for 7 years now, because i moved home, has started to contact ...

My girlfriend went traveling and came back single!! I don't know what to do! Advice, please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - i was going out with a girl for 6 years up until last may when she traveled to Australia for 7 months. everything was fine before she left in that we promised to stay together etc, loved each other etc. while she was traveling she met another guy ...

Older boy, what are the rules?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - hey, This isn't that exciting, but I'm just fishing around for ideas really.. I'm 19, and I'm seeing this guy, who is 25. (this bit isn't a big deal. he's quite a young 25, i'm quite an old 19.. ) WE've both had long term relationship thi...

Sex on a first date, today he is quiet, will he show for our date tomorrow?!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I slept with a guy on our first date! Now he seems distant.. We have only really known each other a month but the instant we met online he lived near, attractive it was like we was made for each other.. he instantly give me his number and got on...

Our song is his and his ex's song too...what does this mean!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Please help even if this is a silly question! I don't know what to think. I've just found out the mine and my boyfriend's song was his and his ex's song! What does that say about him? Should i worry that everyone time we listen to it he is thinking...

Should I stay and be patient, or is over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been off and on for 1 year and 8 months. He has never cheated or lied to me. I have lied to him, but he forgave me. We are totally opposite. We really love each other and can get jealous over little things. I was going to ...

We both like the same guy, would it be wrong for me to date him, if he asked?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - My friend has liked this guy for quite a while now, and I also like him. I've told her that I like him too and we've promised not to get in a huge fight about it. This guy that I like likes me back, but he hasn't asked me out yet. So I don't know ...

He doesn't want to date anymore..so what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend a little over a month, and we were doing great. But last night he told me he had lost interest in a relationship, that he didn't feel the same anymore... He said he just didn't want a relationship at this time. He sa...

Should I Meet With Him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - About 4 months ago I started speaking to this guy who lives in the same city as me and is only a year older than me. Everytime we speak he asks when we are meeting up and i have told him before i would. the problem is i cant bring myself to go and ...

Love his personality but not attracted to his looks! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - All right, so I'm a sophomore in high school. Recently I friended a guy I used to go to school with four years ago on Facebook. I didn't expect anything to come of it, but we started talking and we really got along. We talked almost 24/7 over winter ...

Would you forgive a woman with an extremely promiscuous past?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I am a 28 year old woman with an extremely promiscuous past. I slept with 70 guys. I had committed relationships too. I came clean with my boyfriend and told him the extent of what I had done. He continues to ask me for every detail and I respond. ...

Girlfriend wants to date me, not physically cheat, but also date others

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - I have been dating a girl exclusively since the end of October 2009, she's 25, and was previously married to her first ever boyfriend, whom she has a daughter with. They divorced nearly a year ago, and I am her second relationship since. When we ...

What did his actions and his words mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Ok.... i'm a little confused. Last night I went on a date with this guy and we went back to his place and made a bonfire in the backyard. We ended up sitting around it for a good 3 hours just talking but nothing physical happened. At the end of the ...

Is he just using me to have someone with no comittments?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - iam seeing a guy now for the past few months,he had been chasing me since nearly the beginning of the year. im busy with college, chemotherapy and he is in a band thats tours and travels. we try to see each other at least 1-2 times a week when we ...

Do I send him pictures or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Well, my boyfriend has moved away to uni and we dont see much of each other as we would like.But he wants me to send him a pik of me, and i was like of wat and he said surprise me, i know theres two areas to choose from, but i dont no wat to ...

Should I listen to my Mum or break up with the boy I love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - i need help i am in a long distance relationship with a boy called sean but my mum isn`t happy with the relationship. i love sean more than anything and we want to meet up etc but mum told me that she isn`t happy with me dating him and she is t...

My bf has cheated twice, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I havn't been on here for a while, but I could really do with some opinions on what to do here. So here's the thing, I've been with my boyfriend for 1year 10months now, he's sixteen and i'm sixteen in February, we've been completley fine ...

She has married someone else - but I miss her so much..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - Hi, I am 23 years old male.We were in a relationship since past 4.5 years(College time). After college, her parents forced her to get married with someone else. she tried to convince them for me, But finally she was also saying the same thing(I want ...

Dating complications who do I date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - Ok so Im a 14 year old male freshman in high school, and every day at lunch I sit with a group of people. There is this girl that really likes me, but I have no feelings for her. However I have a crush on her best friend (also female) and Im prett...

Has my player of a boyfriend actually changed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm 15 and I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now. I am in my last year at school and I have been with this boy before a few times. He used to be the ultimate player, liar and cheat all in one and I was really hurt. I have bee...

Is he taking me for a ride?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - hey i recently met a guy who was on a reality tv show in the uk, and had his '15 minutes of fame'. I didnt watch the show and so just saw him as a normal guy. He took me for a meal and we had a lovely first date, then i saw him everyday for a b...

How important is saying 'I love you'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Hi I'm looking for some advice. My story is a little long winded! My boyfriend and I had been together for a few months shy of a year when suddenly he ended things. His reason being he felt panicked as he is turning 30 (I'm 25) and that he is not r...

There are too many things getting in the way of us being together, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - im 15, i like a guy older than me, in general being around him makes me happy. but things keep getting in the way like his age, which is 19, family and other people. these people are constantly around him and his family, aka his brother hates me ...

Am I falling out of love after 10 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - I've Been with my girlfriend for almost 10 years. We've had our ups and downs are best friends... recently a lot of the little things she does bothers me. And they're begining to urk me more and more to the point where it turns me off. Why is ...

Does he need other girls to satisfy him? I was hoping he wanted to be exclusive...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

4 January 2010 (?) - I'm 18 years old and about a month or two ago I started seeing this 21 year old guy whom I met through friends. Before we started liking each other, I knew of his habits of being a real bad girl chaser, always hitting on and adding hot girls...

Best male friend with feelings? My boyfriend is not happy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I hope this doesn't sound too silly and immature. But sometimes, people just don't know what to make of a situation or how to put a question into intelligible and/or coherent words and thoughts... My best friend (whom is a man) and I have been ...

Going so well, and then he wants to cool things. What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I met this guy and we have had three dates, on the third date he cooked me dinner and did everything to try to impress me, after dinner we sat on the couch and talked, getting to know each other more, things were going great, I was really enjoying ...

Is it too soon for a new relationship...and a baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I'm a 22 year old mommie of 2 baby boys 2yrs and 1yr, I was with their dad for 3 years which was really traumatic this is why: he's the type of man that wants everything to be the way he wants to (controlling, possessive, and jelaous guy) 2 years ...

I have trust issues so how can I let him know I just want his friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Alright, I have a serious problem. Well, it's very serious to me - I'm sixteen and I'm kind of into a younger guy. He's fourteen and seems to think that after I hold his hand I want to kiss him. That's not the case at all, and I don't want to seem ...

My parents forbid me to date him but shouldn't I give love a real chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I'm going to make the question brief, followed by some background information which you may choose or choose not to read - I think it would be useful to read all of it though lol. Is there a problem with an 18 year-old girl dating a 24 year...

Should I wait until they break up to tell her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - Ok well I liked this one girl since spring and we always had this line we said to each other because in track we were both good at stuff and we'd watch each other and say one up. Well when i was going to finally ask her out she walked up and told me ...

I love my boyfriend but I DON'T love his habits...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I've been with my current boyfriend for over a year now. Previously, I dated someone for four years, who would technically be the perfect catch. My ex-boyfriend was motivated, had at least two jobs while attending a huge medical university, and has ...

His parents have banned him from going out/seeing me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend's parents have banned him from seeing me, taken his phone off him, and his laptop, which he paid for, and refuse to let him leave the house unless one of the them is with him! He'19!! They hate me and blame me for everything that he ...

Fishy situation... should I trust my long distance boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - ok so im seeing this guy and its long distance..hes coming back to see me soon.. he lives in ireland .. on his facebook the other day it said he was in a relationship i was so mad i didnt speak to him for days and it ruined my new years.. he wasnt ...

I see my boyfriend more as a friend than a boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a guy for 2 and a half years now and I'm not sure what to do. Our relationship to an outsider would be considered good, we don't argue a lot and we treat other each other well. We've had our issues in the past like ...

My girlfriend had a baby and I didn't know, now I'm not allowed to see my son! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - 9 months ago I was dating a girl Jessica, who I really liked, I go to college out of state and I'm not home alot. One weekend while I was home we were at a party and we got into a huge fight. A don't remember much about it but I know I said some ...

I need to know where I stand, please help.

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4 January 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, here's my problem. I really like this guy and have done for almost a year now. We've been out a few times and he knows I like him but I'm not sure that he knows how much. Also I'm not sure he likes me the same way. He's told me he likes ...