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Dating: Help and advice

Sex is not as much fun for me as it is for him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Ok, so here it is I have been in the same relationship with the same guy for over a year now and i get super wet im talkin like really wet drippin wet were if i stand up its drippin down my leg and he thinks its all sexya nd stuff and well it really ...

How do I let him know I don`t want to accept his proposal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriends mates have let on to me that my boyfriend is going to propose to me on valentines day after weeks of planning. but i don't want to make the commitment. Not because i don't love him, but i just dont want to. How can i let him down after ...

How do I tell my boyfriend I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Well me and my bf had been dating for a week and i really love him and i don't know how to tell him right every time i do tell him he looks at me like what a child it hurts i just want to tell him.What do i do and say!!!!...

How do I get this relationship going? We are both shy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Wonder if you can give me some advice. I really like a mate of mine and i think he likes me. So do some of our friends. However he is very very very shy when it comes to this stuff and everyones said i've got to do something because although he ...

Do I have the right to be hung up on being hurt by my girl before we started officially dating??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend met under unusual circumstances which ultimately led to me getting my heartbroken right before we started dating. At the time I met her I was currently dating someone else. I had already been planning on confessing to my ...

Am I being too fussy? People tell me at 27 I am leaving it too late to find someone and settle down

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I had a serious relationship that ended 4 years ago (we were together 4 years). I could have married him had we met when I was a bit older, I wasn't ready to settle down then. He was no doubt my first love but we have remained friends and both are ...

How do you tell if a shy guy is interested?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - How do you tell if a shy guy is interested?! About a week ago a couple of my friends showed me this guy on Facebook, we'll call him Jake, and said that they thought we'd be cute together. Last night, Jake and I ended up at a surprise party f...

If she tests me like this, is it a sign she's not the best match for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Before a relationship starts, sometimes a girl will test me by giving me a negative vibe, like she doesn't like me (even though she does). Is this a sign that she isn't the best match for me? I mean, if she were really into me, why would she risk ...

We were dating, he was a sweetheart, we slept together and he went cold!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I was dating a guy for a little while, things were going great then all of a sudden he went really cold - the day after the first time we slept together. I questioned what was up and he said he didn't feel ready for a relationship...His ex of 9 ...

Why is it that when I start dating one guy, I start to like another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Can someone please explain this to me: When I start dating a guy, it's great...except I start to like another guy. Every single relationship I've been in, it's good for awhile, but then I start to like someone else. What is wrong with me? Why do I ...

He's gone really clingy all of a sudden and I feel hemmed in, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I've been dating someone for about 8 weeks, the first 4 weeks were brilliant, we get on really well, we talk alot, laugh and joke, enjoy alot of the same things...But then he started showing a really needy side, constantly asking me if we were ok, ...

Is he interested? Is he acting aloof? How do I get him to ask me out?

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29 January 2010 (F) - theres this guy that ive been chatting to.. we flirt alot.. and get on really well.. we make each other laugh and we both find each other attractive.. sometimes i tend to fantasise about him alot.. and i really wannaa speak to him on the ph...

She keeps flirting with other guys but says it's harmless, it bothers me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. Recently she has started to flirt a lot with other guys, and I don't know what to do. She said they were just good friends of her, but don't all girls say that? She even went to the movies with ...

He thinks I'm a bad girlfriend because my periods are longer than normal and limit sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Should I dump my idiot of a boyfriend? I'm sorry, but I'm just PISSED OFF with him, I could slap him across the face! See, I'm on my period. For some reason I've been bleeding for two weeks already. It's not a cause of concern, since I switched ...

He treats his friends better than me, but am I being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months, the problem is that he takes care of his friends all the time he buys things for them to eat, if they have a football game he pays for them to play, if they are short on money he helps them out! but when ...

We had a casual fling, he wanted more, I didn't. Now I want more but he has someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I had a casual relationship with someone but he said he wanted a girlfriend which i wasnt ready for i hoped he would wait for me.He then started seeing other women and we argued.We havnt seen each other since, but i cant stop thinking about him,i ...

I haven't been interested in anyone in 6 years, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I haven't liked a guy in the past 6 years. Before I used to like guys all the time. A year wouldn't pass that there wasn't someone I was interested in or had feelings for. For the past 6 years I haven't had feelings for anyone. I don't think ...

Three is NOT company...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - I'm in a horrendous situation and I need help. I'm living in the same apartment as three of my exes, two of which live on the same floor. I'm not on speaking terms with one of them and she's doing everything she can to drive me crazy because I ...

I miss him loads all I want is to be his friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Me and this guy had a casual relationship for about a month,but he asked me 4 a serious r.ship a number of times which i said no. We had a big arguement because there was another woman on the scene and i was jealous he wasnt just seeing me.I sai...

I don't understand my own feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 10 years and me broke up in Dec, I had started feeling feelings for my boss, Ive been waiting for my boyfriend to do something for ever, he's struggled with a drug addiction, and things just never seem to go right when he does try, ...

It bothers me a lot that he finds nude girls on movies attractive..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Im 23 and have two boys 3 and 8 monts. I just got out of a very bad relationship of 3 years. and now im with a new guy. We ave been together for about 5 months. And he's great, i love him so much and i know he loves me to.But theirs a problem, at ...

Unhappy with my life...what direction should I go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I am a 31 year old female. I feel as though my life is slipping away fast!! I feel that I am not at the stage of life I would like to be at. Part of me feels I made some poor choices and I also resent my boyfriend for leading me on.... I love my ...

I'm not sure whether he knows I fancy him or if he meant it as a joke.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - So my guy friend, who I fancy told me that he knew I liked him. I'm not sure whether he knows I fancy him or if he meant it as a joke. I'm kind of nervous now, I don't want him to know I like him as I'm not sure if he feels the same way. ...

I have just found out that he actually has a girlfriend of three years, who he lives with. I am at rock bottom

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I feel like a right fool. Me and this guy at work have been flirting for about a year and have kissed a numerous occasions, he only shows an interest now and then which never makes me feel good because I know he is just using me for a quick thri...

It's as if she doesn't want to even see me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Basically, my girlfriend keeps having mood swings at me and keeps telling me to **** off.....half the time she says she is joking. I have barely seen her outside of college for over a month and i used to see her often, but she says its because...

After three years I am getting fed up with my boyfriends behaviour

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - iv been with my boyfriend for 3 years in July, but feel like im the only one whoputs any effort into the relationship, i always go to his house, he always expects me to get up realli early and go to his in the morning for sex, he hardly ever comes ...

I'm walking on eggshells ................

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Hi, me and my girlfriend are going through some problems. We've been together for just over 4 months now and in that time we have encountered a few turbulent periods in our relationship. One ongoing problem is sleeping at her flat. I find her bed ...

I have a boyfriend but like another who I texted, but I get no reply

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - okay, i went to a club the other night for my friends birthday. my friend also invited some other friends of his who i didn't know. i started talking to one of them and he was so funny and sweet. he was good looking and had a really nice smile. i ...

I don't feel like having sex with my boyfriend any more

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend had fantasy sex with his friend (girl) he knows. It looks like every time he is imaging to have sex, he will think about this girl. But he told me he will never have sex with this girl in real life. Is he lying to me? He loves me...

I don't know how to tell b/f of previous relationship problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I was in a relationship for 7 years. I was very young when we started dating, I ws 16. He ended up being very mentally abusive. Were no longer together, but due to him my self esteem has taken a huge hit, and I no longer feel pretty, and worth ...

Can a guy change their mind on a girl that quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I really dont understand. Before I went to Thailand I was seeing a guy that I really liked, and he even called me while I was away. I came back and saw him, and now havent heard from him in over a week - he didnt seem the same when he saw ...

How can I not ruin relationships by being too protective?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Hi, I'm an overprotective guy unfortunately this has led to many break ups over the years. What I am wonding is how do I control these feelings so that this relationship don't end up like the rest. Any advice is welcome....

She knows how I feel but keeps talking about sex with other people.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - I have a friend who I have strong feelings for. I told her how I felt and she said she felt the same way but that we both weren't ready. I said I needed some time away from her. A month later she contacted me and started talking about things like ...

What do men do to show commitment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (?) - Hello Men, I am here working through my own challenges with a man. I question his love for me. I want to be informed before I proceed or reject the man I'm with. For those of you whom have fully loved a woman, or do now, please enter your bulle...

How can I ask her out without it seeming like a date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Hey to who ever is reading this, lol, but i was hoping to get some advice on how to ask this girl i've had a crush on for awhile out. We really haven't talked, which makes me think it's a bad idea, but i'm not all into the dating scene LOL. But ...

What do you think, is he serious or is he just playing around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I have a question about my guy friend telling me that he loves me. He told me that he loves me and could sooooo see himself being with me, but he really isn't showing me that he loves me, he's just saying it. I'm wondering is it because he's been ...

We like each other but how can I know he is not only looking for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - i know this guy likes me and i like him too. i know he likes me cause he told me he and hes always staring at me he teases me. but i wanna know how can i kno hes not just looking for sex from me. like what signs are there to tell me hes only after ...

I feel like he'll never be ready to make a serious commitment to me. Please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I recently moved out of my boyfriends house (we lived toget about 5 months) and decided to stay together after a week's break. Before we used to talk about a future together and that doesn't seem to be happening anymore. Since I moved out, it's like ...

Does he still have feelings for me after all of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I've known my x boyfriend since we were in the 1st grade and from church but up until april of last year did i find out that he had feelings for me that he claims he's had since we were younger. I didn't take it into consideration, but he was ...

Is it a bad thing that I want something to go wrong between them

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I like this one guy ... A LOT , he's everything ive ever wanted , ... but hes dating someone else , QUESTION; is it a bad thing that i want something to go wrong between them , and i want them to break up ? ... beacuase i feel like a bad person...

I have problems keeping eye contact, or even talking to her for that matter

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I am 14,female,and bi. Recently a girl who I've had a crush on for several months asked me out. So, we are going out now, but whenever I'm around her or talk to her I blush. It's soo noticable because my face gets very red. I have problems keeping ...

I just have this bad gut feeling that the bar maid is texting my bf.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Saturday night I was out with this guy I have been seeing for about 3 months. We went to one of the Bars he is familiar with to see a band. I knew no one. Every time he spoke to someone (including a few women) he knew he would turn his back to me ...

I still have feelings for a guy from 25 years ago. Are we star crossed lovers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - What is wrong with me. I was crazy about this guy 3 years my senior before I was 15. Several times we tried to get together...and it never happened. He married my best friend and I got married about 1 week apart. 25 years went by. Both of us are ...

Stuck with Stupid!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - (Mod Note - OP's own title) I'm living with this girl. I say girl because she's young. Almost six years younger than me. She's a dunce. A rock. A meatheaded idiot. I've been with her for a couple years, forgiving her idiocy because she was ...

He is much more experienced than I am, and I want to impress him.

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29 January 2010 (F) - I am a virgin, but my boyfriend is not. He is 2 years older than me and has been in multiple sexual relationships. We've been dating for 4 months and have finally decided to have sex on Saturday night. The thing is, he doesn't really get hard tha...