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Archived questions from: 22 January, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Help needed choosing camera for my gf please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - Hi all, I am stuck between buying my gf a fujilm finepix J28 and a Fujifilm finepix J37. The J28 (10 mega pixels) has loads of reviews saying how great it is but I cannot find any for the J37 (12 mega pixels). However I can get them both for th...

Stuck in a sex rut...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - I need to learn how to make sex more interesting for both me and my boyfriend. We still have a good sex life etc etc. but I want to learn how to surprise him. Well, not LEARN to be specific, but be given ideas. Im not failing epicially, I'd just ...

My boyfriend told me 2 days ago that he needs space, what does this mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend told me 2 days ago that he needs space, what does this mean? We have been seeing each other for 5 months, when i first met him i can remember being SO happy because i had finally found a nice guy. He promised me he would treat me r...

She still won't talk to me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - Well its been 4 to 5 months now since me and my ex broke up.. i let her go but it was hard.. the thing is.. we havent talked in about 5 weeks... and she still doesnt want to talk to me.. am i missing something? our break up wasnt that bad.. but it ...

The end of a fine romance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - The end of a fine romance?? I've been in this relationship for 3 years of which he last two years its been a long distance haul of 520 miles round trip (due to family commmitments), I try and visit every 3 weeks. Last summer for fun, I google...

How often and when should I kiss her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - Ok i'm 14 and male and my gf just kissed the first time today, now were going onto the weekend so I can sorta think on this and maybe listen to y'all! when do I kiss her in the day or when in school do I kiss her?...

Don't know how to deal with inexperienced boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - Hi, i am 19 and have just entered into a relationship with a guy who is also 19. I'm used to older guys but thought it would be nice to be with someone my own age... but it turns out he's really inexperienced. I am myself a virgin, but have ...

Help! Did I make the right decision...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - Today i broke up with my long boyfriend called Sean who lives in ireland and who is the same age as me and i got asked out by a boy that goes to my school and he is called Fraser. Fraser was one of my ex boyfriends in the past and broke my heart a ...

I just want to experience being in a relationship and being loved...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - Hey i need some advice Every time someone fancies me i go off of them and also when i go out with someone it is the same. i just cant seem to become attracted to a person. ARGH someone please help i have been single for ages and i seem to be happi...

Should I try to fix this... and if so how?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - I'm not sure how to go about fixing things in my relationsip or if to fix them at all. A small back story, we met a year ago and have been in a commited relationship since. In August he moved in with me and my children, everything was fine until h...

Does she want a relationship or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - about two months ago, i went out with this girl for few weeks (btw we're both 19) and it seemed to be going well until she told me she 'wasn't ready for a relationship'. so we broke up and sort of drifted apart and stopped speaking. then suddenly, i ...

Should I continue to see my friend's ex because I feel happy and good with him, or should I ignore the feelings of my heart and end this before I ruin a friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - So there is this guy who is really cool and awesome to me. He has me get over this one guy who has been stringing me along for months. He's sweet to me and cares about me and I forgot what that feels like. We can chill and talk and laugh ...

He's my best friend, but I don't feel any love for him anymore. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm with my fiance for the last 3 yrs and everything was going okay...but never great. We never argue, we like the same things and i know he loves me very much. But i dont know if i love him as much as he does. I love him, but I'm not IN love ...

I really want the old her back so damn bad...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - Me and my girl have been together for a year now, and back when we were on our third month, i kinda kissed her best friend for a sec. when she found out, she was of course devastated and hurt, and didnt wanna talk to neither one us at the time. then ...

How do I choose between two men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - I feel like my whole life depends on the decision I need to make and yet I'm completely unable to actually make it..... I'm 23 yrs old. I have a 2 yr old daughter. My boyfriend and I have been together since we were 16 except for about 8 months a...

She said she wants to take things slow, then she invites me on holiday with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - Hello All, I recently started dating a girl, we have grown close but she said she wants to be just friends then move on when shes fully over a previous relationship. Fair enough, I'm not eager for a relationship and thats cool. Anyway today ...

What is a guy's fantasy about losing his V-card?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - Ok for you guys out there...I am dating a guy who is a 27 year old virgin. I am 24 and im not a vigin. I know that he has been waiting for this to share with someone special and wants it to be special. he says that hes ready but im scared to ...

Should I just be her friend for now? I don't want to get stuck in "friends zone" though.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - i went on a first date with this girl, and we had a great time, she admitted it was a great time. She lives a little far away so we cant see each other a whole lot but we txt each other everyday and i make her laugh alot. but she told me after our ...

Is more than friends possible with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - So to cut a long story short one of my closest friends and I just got through this huge fight. We settled our differences but things are still weird for me. I've always had feelings for her and I made the mistake of letting her know a few times. It ...

How often do teenage couples spend time together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - How often do teenage couples spend time together? With work and school, how much in enough? I currently am interested in someone, but I don't want to commit because I may not be around all the time and it seems unfair making him wait around. I also ...

Building a new social life is going to take such a long time, while my sexual frustration is increasing! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - I'm a 26 year old male with very little experience in sexual and romantic matters. I became really fed up with this situation and i´ve decided to change it by making an effort to act in a more open a confident way and "put myself out there", leaving ...

I am in a LDR and pregnant and jealous of my b/f's female friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm 37 years old, I've been married once before for almost 10 years but am now divorced. In June of last year, I met someone on-line who lives in the States (I live in Canada) and we've been dating ever since. In July, I got preg...

She wont do what I want sexually, should I break up with her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - Hello, I'd appreciate if it were girls who answered my question, it's not that guys don't have good advice to offer me but it's just that I'd prefer a girl's advice on this one. (Although if you're a guy and really think your piece of advice would ...

We had a group sex thing and now my g/f isnt talking to me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - my gf and I are both 22, we decided together we wanted to try a group swinging thing with an older couple. we met a cool older couple on line (54 female and 58 male) and met last night. During the thing my gf seemed to really enjoy herself, but once ...

I am hoping my boyfriend is jealous and will not break up with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - Hello all, My bf is almost on the verge of breaking up with. He has told me he loves me but is not in love with me. Yes I have peppered him with texts and all but when he said 'you are not giving me space to think' I left him alone. In the ...

When my girlfriend is at work she doesn't call me as much, should I be worried

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have recently become engaged. Everything has been great. But one thing bothers me. She is an in home care giver to a handicapped man and sometimes when she goes to work for him for a few days she often goes long periods of time ...

My boyfriend's best friend is a girl

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has a bestfriend and she's a girl.. I knew about her before me and him became afficial.. the talk every now and then.. and once before my boyfriend gave her my number and she called me saying "you don't ever have to worry about me and ...

He never followed up on our date plans the first time. Is he reliable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - I met this guy and we clicked instantly and have TONS of chemistry we chatted for a while and i gave him my number and were suppose to hangout. We talked over the course of about almost a week for hours @ a time . We set up a plan to have our date ...

My stupidity is driving her away! What should I do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - Hi, I am deeply, madly in love with this women, I've been with her for one year and four months. I lied to her about myself, so that I can have some type of chance with her, and I lied about my past (which I don't care). Everything started great ...

He's unemployed, no career goals...what should I do here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - I've been with a guy for four years. Before I met him I was completely obsessed with the thought of him. I finally actually got with him, and things started out good. We are exactly alike, and spend all our time together. We both really love each ...

Is this girl worth all this hassle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - I've got a slight problem here, and I dont know how to address it. I like this girl, who happens to be related to an old friend who is dating a girl who hates my guts, and he follows her word on everything, and has more then on one occaision tr...

She lied to me about seeing her ex bf! what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - I just want your opinion. i've been with her 3 months at first she said she had 3 sexual partners before me. one month she went to a party with her ex bf, i was fine with this. Then she wanted to go out in his car after the party i said no ob...

He is hedging about dating me, but 'likes me'..is he stringing me along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - Hey , i think that "guys" would help me in this case. im talking to a guy that uses the statement " i like u" frequently , and that he's afraid of committment. so im getting attached to him because we talk on daily basis. although i know that i s...

Haven't seen him in 2 years...should I get in touch?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - I,m a seventeen year old girl (eighteen in a few weeks) and I've developed feelings for a guy i havent seen in two years. You see lately I,ve been having dreams about this guy and I havent seen him in two years. I,ve lost contact with him and the ...