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Archived questions from: 20 January, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is my first love ultimately "the one?"

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20 January 2010 (F) - Subject: maybe he is "the one." C and I dated for almost 9 years. Met at 18 in college, love at first sight, and broke up officially last May. I called it quits because I wasn't happy. We spent little time together, he was always busy with one ...

Is it because of him or is it because of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for little over a year now, and we both live in different states. He's a really nice guy and he visits regularly, and we always talk on the phone. Recently he just admitted to me that towards the middle of last year, ...

Boyfriend getting divorce and wants to be left alone now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating a man for a few months that I have found myself getting very attached to. He filed for divorce in June of 08', but the divorce has not been settled. We have had a great relationship, but he does get very moody at times and "goes ...

She assures me she's not with me on the rebound... what do you guys think?

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20 January 2010 (M) - Soo... ive been hanging out with this girl for a while now and when we started hanging out she had a boyfriend... there was a lot of tension between me and her in which we really like each other and have for a couple years.. and at the same time she ...

Last night he told me he had no sexual desire and he did not know if he ever would.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I am 70 years old and my boyfriend is 65. We have been dating for 6 years. Sex has been g-r-e-a-t great! We went on a trip in the summer of 2009 and we only had sex twice. Normally, when we go on vacation we have sex every day, or every other ...

Should I take the morning after pill?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I'm wondering if I should take the morning-after pill. My bf and I had sex last night and although the condom didn't break and we didn't notice anything wrong with it, I felt a lot of 'wetness' afterwards. He also said that I was wetter than usual. ...

How can I move on from this horrible experience? It's not fair to the people in my life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - Last summer i went to a party during which i was forced by a boy of the same age to perform oral sex,i'll admit that i was drunk however i did say no and tried to resist. He was quite forceful when i tried to resist, for example he pushed my head ...

Should I go to prom with her and/or ask her out, or just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

20 January 2010 (M) - Hey, i'm 15 years old, i live in the UK and im in high school. There's this girl im crazy about... but its very complicated, i was in a relationship at the time and i started talking to her, as we hadnt talked for ages, we had known each other since ...

How can I curb my flirtation habits?

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20 January 2010 (F) - I posted a comment about a picture a friend from high school had posted on his page. I commented "grrrr that's sexy" and "nice smile, makes you look sexy" about 3 months ago. Today my boyfriend read my comments and now he is pissed. He feels that ...

Does my girlfriend really love me, or is she just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 January 2010 (M) - I'm in high school. In the beginning of the year I really wanted to have a serious relationship with a girl, and I thought I found her, but now I'm not so sure. My girlfriend and I have been going out for about a month and a half now, she's not a ...

How do I break the big heave ho to him... gently?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - Hiya, I really need help! I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, I love him very much, but I don't think I'm in love with him anymore. We met in college, when we were 16/17 and everything was great until about 5 months ago. We have bot...

He's not everything I want in a man... and I'm marrying him in a months time!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - Hi i am a 27 year old female getting married in a months time. i met this guy a year back and liked him, he proposed to me and we dated for 6 months before saying yes to the marriage. But I am very confused whether to get married or not as i ...

My long distance relationship girlfriend doesn't want to share he problems with me.

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20 January 2010 (M) - Hi there, so me and my gf have been in a Long distance relationship for about a month and 18 days now, but recently something really strange happened last week. I called and texed her but she didn't reply or call back (which she usually does). i...

A question for men on attraction...

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20 January 2010 (F) - This is a question for men. Have you ever found yourself attracted to women that you may not have been attracted to when you first met. Or is the determination set from the moment you meet....

I would love to make this relationship work, especially after my last one didn't.

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20 January 2010 (F) - If you got into a relationship about 1 month after your break up with an ex... you've been in a new one for about 3/4 months... and your committed to making it work JUST BECAUSE your old one didn't and you want this new relationship to be perfect. ...

How can I tell her I would love to date her?

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20 January 2010 (M) - So i used to be really good friends with this girl, we were the best of friends, we'd talk on the phone every day for hours, would talk on msn all the time and always text each other. I guess through all that i liked her but she always seemed to ...

He hurt me on purpose... but I still can't get over him. Help!

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20 January 2010 (F) - I used to go out with this guy just over a year ago for 2 weeks, but I broke up with him because there were no feelings from my side. I didn't want to lead him on to like me even more and then get him hurt even more in the future so I left without ...

What should I do about this married man setup I have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - hi everyone! my ugly situation that im facing right now is that im 24 and im dating this married man that is suppossely 34 but, only God knows if he is telling me the truth or not. i have known this man since Sept of 2009 he was a trainer at the gym ...

We have a good connection, so why hasn't he asked me out yet?

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20 January 2010 (F) - I have been chatting to a guy online, text, phone and went out last Sat. We got on really well and he text me afterwards to say he had a great time. He then rang me two nights later and we chatted for about an hour. But he hasn't yet suggested going ...

How can a girl ask a guy out without looking stupid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, I want to know how a girl can ask a boy out without looking stupid? (I'm talking about a shy guy here!)...

Am I being too protective of him?

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20 January 2010 (F) - I need some advice please. My boyfriend is doing some work somewhere away from me, and I can't see him. I would be with him but my school and education get's in the way :\ But I still talk to him on the phone, msn and facebook. But there is this gi...

Did I make the right choice by cutting my losses and moving on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I am 51 years old and seperated 2 years going through divorce. I became involved with a 49 year old widower. In June of last year. His wife was my friend who died one month earlier. I was extremely reluctant but he pursued me relentlessy with gifts ...

I'm tired of being ignored. Is there anything I can do or say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - Hello, i need some advice. I have been living with my partner for nearly 3 years now. I do love him and he says that he loves me but rarely shows it. There is a 21 year age gap between us though i have never noticed it. My problem is that ...

I think he's getting back at me for dumping him when he went to prison. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I dated a guy for about a year when I was 21. He went to prison, and although I tried to keep the connection going, he was going to be gone for 3-4 years and I knew I couldn't handle it, so I severed ties with him (never told him, just stopped ...

Bleeding while using the bathroom..sore insides! My bf is going a bit rough on me..help!

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20 January 2010 (F) - Okay my fiance and I fool around alot. We do alot of kinky things. We have not had sex yet though. When he is fingering me or something I think he gets to rough maybe. Because now the my insides kinda hurt it only hurts on one side though. I am...

His Father's sudden death is causing too much stress in our relationship! Advice?

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20 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating around 2 and 1/2 years. A few weeks ago his father passed away very suddenly. Not only has this created the normal emotional stress that comes with losing a loved one, it also has brought all sorts of financial ...

He wants his ex gf back but doesn't want to lose me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I've met the guy im with from work, I have liked him for over two months and we have been together for two weeks, I'm normaly a really hard person to get through to as I have low trust in men due to past experiences and I always put up the barrier, ...

Not sure if he penetrated! Am I still a virgin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship with a great guy,love him to bits. The problem is we had sex a while ago for the first time and we both said it was our first time. The thing is I had dated another guy (for like 2 years) before going out with the new guy...

How old do you have to be before age doesn't matter?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

20 January 2010 (M) - How old do you have to be before age doesnt matter? Im 22years old and i really like a girl who is only 17, 5years is a big difference at this age i think, although she doesnt act or look 17, i feel as though we are the same age but i know when we ...

What should I do? Continue pursuing Sofia and see where it goes? Or end it with her and tell my friend he can have her?

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20 January 2010 (M) - Well I am in a wee bit of a predicament. So last Friday I met this cute girl at a party and chatted her up. I think we hit it off pretty well, I knew her friend from class. For these purposes, her name will be Sofia. The following night at an...

How can you tell if a girl really does love you?

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20 January 2010 (M) - how can you tell if a girl really does love you, what are some signs that she may show...

How can I ease my nerves so that I feel more comfortable around guys?

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20 January 2010 (?) - When I first meet a guy, I act normal and am fine. But when I start to notice that he likes me or I begin to like him, I turn into this nervous spaz. I feel like some lovesick teenager, even though I am in my 20's. I become this tongue-t...

Am I just his rebound relationship?

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20 January 2010 (F) - Hey so I just have a question. I have been seeing this really sweet guy for about 3 weeks now and I'm just wondering if it could be a rebound realtionship. He just broke off a 4 year relationship(engaged for a year) back in August and he is super ...

I'm obsessed with another guy who wants nothing to do with me, how can I forget about him and focus on my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I can't stop thinking about this guy but I have a boyfriend. My boyfriend knows but still is with me. I want to forget about him because he wants nothing to do with me. If I were to pick between him and my bf I would pick to be with him. So if I ...

Does he like me or just too scared to say anything?

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20 January 2010 (F) - So there's this guy n we are really good friends. Everyone at school thinks he likes me because he flirts wit me all the time. And when its just me and him he will kiss me and stuff. But when people at school or even me ask him if he likes me, he ...

Is he too scared to admit he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - does he like me, and just to scared to admit it? There's this guy who I go to school wit n we are really good friends.when I first started goin to that school he would helop me out n stuff.well now that we no eachother n stuff, when we r at school h...

Where do you go to meet nice guys?

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20 January 2010 (F) - I've been single for a while now and so I'm curious about where you would go to meet nice guys? I'm not interested in anyone I work with and I've been going to a few language and dance night classes lately but I haven't met anyone I click with. I've ...

She textes me and reaches out to me and don't know what to do

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20 January 2010 (M) - hi, my girlfriend and i broke up about 3 months ago. she said she loved me but not inlove with me. it seems like all of a sudden over the last month we have been talking or texting . she seem to reach out to me with a text or something. see we ...

Is it normal to fantasise about 15-17 year old males?? 13-17 year old only please

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20 January 2010 (F) - so i am a 13 year old girl but i only fantasise about 15-17 year olds is that a problem or not i really need to know bc i dont like people younger than me or around my age they aren't very mature ive never dated some one younger or around my age ...

Is he... or isn't he an arsehole like my friends say?

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20 January 2010 (F) - I'm with this guy and he's got a reputation of being a player, he cheated on his current ex who is my homegirl but he says he changed the game for me, some people are starting to see the change and others still thank of him as a straight up asshole ...

My boyfriend's dad calls to much, how to control my irritated anger towards my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - Is he in the relationship with me or his dad dating us too? what can I do to stop me from getting so angry when his dad calls? ;I feel his dad calls to much and I know they have a close relationship and recently his dad found out he has cancer b...

Don't fall for me because I don't want you to get hurt... wtf???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - the guy i been with for the last four months comes to my house ever weekend and sleeps over he gets along with my family really good and enjoys being here, he makes me smile and treats me good but one day we were talking about our feelings he said ...