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Archived questions from: 9 January, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What happened and why did he bleed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - I'm very worried that i hurt my boyfriend bad. A couple of days ago we had sex, and he started to bleed. I mean, he said it was a little cut though but it was a lot of blood. I really don't know what caused it though. /: He says that it stings at ...

I love my girlfriend and feel like I have a boring personality and she doesn't want to talk to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (M) - Hey. I have this big problem where my girlfriend thinks that i'm completely different from her and is better for us to be apart(which i don't agree at all). She really loves me and I do too and it will devastate her if we were to be apart and she ...

I really love my best guy friend, now he's engaged and I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - I'm afraid of losing my best guy friend. I've loved him forever and been afraid to tell him for fear of losing him, maybe just fear it wont be recepricated. We spend a lot of time together always have, I tell him almost everything, not this. He's ...

How do I get girls to like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (M) - Hellppp ... How do i get girlz to lyk me ... i dont tink im ugly , but girls just dont seem to lyk me ... help ??...

GF cheated on me, should I forgive or let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

9 January 2010 (M) - Been dating a great woman for almost 10 years, and have trusted with 100% for the entire time, but she cheated recently. What do i do? She started to have drunken sex with a friend but stopped within seconds. She is completely devastated that she ...

We have a baby together and he's confessed he lied about his age! How am I supposed to trust him again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - I have been in a relatioship with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. I fell madly in love with him we have a 5 month old baby together now. He recently confessed that he is actually 12 years older than me. (I am 26) When we first met he told me ...

She broke up with her b/f and I've been waiting for this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

9 January 2010 (M) - my friend had just been dumped by her boyfriend, and i have liked her for a long time now, however i want to know how she feels about me before asking her out, and if i do ask her out, how should ido it? i dont want to look a fool and then she ...

He's become unresponsive, should I confront him about his behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5435 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - This guy have been aggresively going after me but i rejected him. But after awhile I started to develop feelings for him. But he wasn't as responsive as before. He doesn't call me as much or asked me to hang out. So, I decided to be bold and tell ...

Where to go to eat on Valentine's Day

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - Could anyone give me any good ideas on where to go out to eat on Valentines Day? I know it's a little early but, I'd rather plan things out than wait til the last minute to come up with something. I've been with my boyfriend since October of 2008 ...

We broke up bust still love each other like crazy! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - I was in a 10 month relationship, a lot of arguing but still a good one in my opinion. He said he wanted to take a break, just a few weeks to see if we still wanted to be together or if we could find someone else we wanted to be with. 2 weeks after ...

How I Can Get Over A Guy VERY SOON?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - The only reason why I have problems getting over guys is because I get used to their company. Its always a gap in between dating. I just stopped dating a guy who actually took me OUT and PAID for our dinner, stuff like that was real polite. Ever...

How do ever find love again after your first love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

9 January 2010 (M) - hey, i was wondering do you ever find love after your first one? i havnt really stopped thinking about her over the last year, and i feel stuck and frustrated because i dont want to go against my feelings for her and meet someone new, but i know i ...

Religion: How would I chose between the man I love and my family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now, i turned 18 a couple of weeks ago, i know i love him and that he is the only person i would ever want to be with, i know im young and do understand that the committment is huge but you cant help how you ...

We said we'd wait a couple of years to have sex but he's talking about having it now after a couple of months.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - when my and my boyfriend hooked up we decided that we were going to date for a couple of years before we thought about doing anything sexual...its been two months and we have done everything but have sex and he said he wants to if i want to but he ...

Is giving her a full kiss on the mouth cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - my partner danced with another girl at a family wedding, whilst i was pregnant and he didnt really acknowlege that i was there as he was so drunk, (he did ask me to attend and everything was ok until he got drunk) then he kissed this girl i dont ...

Handjobs and blowjobs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - Ok, I'm almost 17 and i've never given a handjob or blowjob! Although my boyfriend has now suggested it, we've been going out for months now and I'm happy to do it. But I don't know where to start! I don't know what to do, I'm not thock lol, I just ...

Protection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - Me and my bf are going to have sex for the first time. I'm wondering if being on the pill and useing a condom is pretty safe? Because I'm only 17 I don't want to have to use any other protection but I don't want to get pregnant. But is the pill and ...

Am I being unfair for wanting my boyfriend to value me as much as he does his mother and sisters?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - Hello, I am having some real problems and I came here to get some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months-we were good together for the better part of the time together.He's 39,lives with his parents (Grrrrrrr),and doesn't ...

I'm in the friendzone...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (M) - I find myself in the friendzone with a chick that i've fallen 4.i've known her 4 eight years and have told her that i would want 2 be more then just a friend 2 her.but my advances have been met with confrontation and tears.according 2 her she is ...

I'm in a muddle with boys! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - I guess i should start from the beginning, i like this boy, but he knows i used to like his rother, maybe this is why he can't be serious when i have asked him out before. but i just can't stop thinking about him, maybe he thinks i'm going to use h...

How to win back someone who still has feelings for you but doesn't want to pursue it....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - Hi, after 6 months of no contact, my ex-bf and I are spending time together again. Just as friends. It's obvious he has feelings for me. I'm still very much in love with him. He still remains set that we shouldn't be together all though it's as ...

Bf and I are fighting constantly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - Me and my bf always fight that's all we do, we fight a lot about us bcuz he supposidly doesn't know how he treats me and how he hurts my feelings and it just seems like he doesn't care about me anymore but I do care. I need help I'm so confused with ...

Does this relationship have a future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, i have been with my boyfriend for nearly eight months now and he is such a sweet guy and easy enough to get along with but lately i have been feeling wierd about the relationship. We only usually get to see each other twice a week ...

Is the weather to blame for my low sex drive, or the fact I never get a night to myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

9 January 2010 (M) - The weather has certainly gotten a lot colder in recent weeks. As a student, I try and save money by leaving the heating off in my house. My girlfriend is the same. The past couple of times we've had sex I have not had an orgasm, which is pretty ...

I don't want to be a slut but like our dirty conversations... Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - Im in a bit of a sticky situation here and I need as much help as I can. There is this boy.. and he joined my school about 1-2 months ago... me and my friend became really close to him as he made us laugh so much. We found out he smoked weed and...

He says he wants to be with me in 6 months... does this mean he wants to be with me long term?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - Im 41 and my boyfriend is 39...we have been seeing each other for nearly 6 months now and we have fallen in love. My boyfriend is really good to me and very caring and i would hate it if we ever split up. The other night he was planning on what we ...

I want to make her my family, how do I gain her trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (M) - Hey how are you doing.. Ok I have this question... how do I get this female that I've been talking to actually give me a shot.. I mean she's been hurt in the past and she always tells me that she just needs time to find herself... but then sometimes ...

I had an affair 6 months ago but the feelings are still there!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

9 January 2010 (M) - I met a girl back in h.s and she turned me down, ran into her a year ago and she turned out to be married. The connection i felt with her was intense. We ended up talking on the phone, which tured into a affair. She has 2 kids and is very unhappy ...

Would he 'really' throw me out the window or was he joking?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - Hello all and Happy new year! Here's my question. What does it mean when you ask a man that you are involved with what he wants to do/be with you and he answers, "If I told you I would scare you" and smiles...nicely. We were cuddled up on the couch ...

I want to stay friends with him..but why is he acting like such a jerk?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up the last week of school before winter break. We have been dating for almost 5 1/2 months and before break me and him were still good friends. After break we came back to school and he is a jerk now. I asked him why he ...

How do I deal with my bf's interest in other girls...without having a major meltdown?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - Hi Im going through a bad patch with my boyfriend of 4 years for a few specific reasons, firstly he moved in with 2 girls and his friend, he never discussed this with me and it really bothers me as I feel so jealous. The other thing is that he met ...

He claims to not love me...so why all this attention all of a sudden?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - Hi I am having a relationship with a man and it has been long term about 10yrs. He does not love me as he has told me so but we have a great time together and our sex life is great.I do have strong feelings for him. But lately he has been acting ...

Is she interested in me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

9 January 2010 (M) - Foremost, I am a male and obviously can't ask friends for relationship advice if it doesn't apply to me "getting laid". A girl recently got in touch with me out of the blue and I was wondering if she may be interested in me. Ok, here's the sich. I ...