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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What do I say? When he asks me why I like him so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3358 days ago

30 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 26 years old and I have always been a little socially awkward and reserved!i met this guy that I really like and care about a lot but let's just say I am unable to express that to him,he asked me why do I like him so much and I have no answer! I like him because I am so co... (141 words)

Should I even try to make a long distance relationship work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy a couple of years back due to work, but have since moved to another state. I've always liked him, I'm sure he knew after a while, but at the time he was in a relationship. Recently he got in contact with me out of the blue, but since we have been talking daily... (239 words)

She's stopped making eye contact! How do I let her know I really like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

30 September 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello - Please help!! I have a girl in my office who earlier smiles at me while having eye contacts, she even mirrored me, she use to play with hairs while looking at me, she tried to talk to me. But, when i tried to make an eye contact with her, she looks away. Now she even ... (104 words)

Can we make this work? Is it a healthy or a toxic relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - This relationship has me so confused that I can no longer think straight as the reality of what’s going on. I met my boyfriend about 3 years ago on an online dating website. We are both in our mid 20’s. We met each other after a week and he moved in with me after a couple of ... (1376 words)

I'm ten weeks pregnant and now my Bf tells me he ''isn't sure'' about our relationship. How do I respond?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 September 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm about 10 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend has just told me he doesn't know if he loves me or wants to be with me. We have always known that we need to make more effort with each other, however which his lazy attitude he just never has. So I saw problems along with him ... (213 words)

Am I doing the right thing by moving to live with him in his home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I'm 33, boyfriend is 30 and I have been in a long distance relationship for the last 6 months. We spend the weekends together. The travel has become quite difficult and we would like to move the relationship forward and test we work well living together. We ar... (194 words)

He made a racist remark. How should I respond? I think reporting him will make things worse for me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

30 September 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi all, I'm a 16 year old female that has just started college and is having some issues. I am on a male dominated course and I know a boy on their from my old school. We got on really well at school but now we're at college he's trying everything he can to annoy/up... (220 words)

Why do I put up with this? We both like jazz. But why do I stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

30 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, here's my dumb question. I have been with my boyfriend for almost four years. In that time we have had our ups and downs. I have never asked him for sexual fidelity, which means that he is pretty open with me and doesn't feel like he needs to hide things. We ... (417 words)

I'm attracted to another mother at the school. I want to make a move, but how?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently met a mother at my children's school. I am so attracted to her. I first met her when I was just coming in from an errand and I was parking my car and then I saw her stop, waiting on me to park. She was one of the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. She ... (186 words)

I feel like giving up on dating. Is it me? No one seems to want to be in a relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3371 days ago

30 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I had been seeing this guy recently (about 5months) and things were going pretty well then out of the blue he began acting strange and distant. I asked him why and a first he said he was fine and later said that he thought I was going to ask him for a real relationship ... (297 words)

When we travel my wife of 21 years changes and becomes easily offended when on vacations. What's the solution to this problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3360 days ago

30 September 2015 (M)

age - I'm tired of traveling with my wife of 21 years who will ruin a trip by becoming over sensitive and easily offended by any little thing. Otherwise, she is a rough and tumble type that jokes around a lot and a lot of fun to be with. But on vacations, something changes ... (132 words)

My wife will not accept apologies. No matter what. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 September 2015 (M)

age - I have a wife who rarely apologizes. But more strange to me is that she does not accept my genuine apologies. I am some one who does not have a problem with admitting by faults and working to do better. But my wife of 21 years seems to be stuck on not accepting apologies. ... (61 words)

Why did he disappear when I expressed interest in him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was talking to this guy that I met.We haven't spend time in person yet but we coommunicate regulary.He brought up sex the first time we spoke .Last time he wanted to come over at my apartment but I told him that I'm not comfotable inviting him over the first time.I want to ... (202 words)

How much do you have in common with your husband/fiancé/boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

29 September 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - When I started dating my fiancé he told me all about the activities he did with his last girlfriend, such as them jogging together, bicycling and going to a concert. He told me the concert turned into a magical night for the both of them. The jogging and bicycling were h... (440 words)

How do I build myself to become someone likeable yet tough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

29 September 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. Growing up, ive been rejected by many people, my peers, strangers, some teacherz because i was fat and shy. Now im older and some people still make me feel like i did when i was young. They still treat me like i cant think on my own especially my parents. Some say ... (177 words)

This is a second attempt at our relationship and I'd like feedback on my suggested guidelines!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

29 September 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - So my boyfriend is in president of his fraternity and I know how important his frat is to him so I don't want to prevent him from his duties/fun. However, we recently broke up because he did something while drunk at a party that I didn't approve of and now we are working on us ... (278 words)

I am finally getting on with my life after a bad relatsionhip, but have concerns about the change in myself in increased low tolerance levels.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

29 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, this is not a relationship question, but it kind of is as it is to do with freinds and people. Please can you help me get some insight into this. Thank you in advance. I have recently come out of a bad relationship with a guy,( well about five months ago) and star... (807 words)

My husband has started wetting the bed!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

29 September 2015 (?) age 36-40 - My husband is 34 years old, for the past two months he has started bed wetting, he couldn't realize in sleep that his bladder is loosing control, at first i supported him, i told him its OK and all but in 2 months yesterday was the third time in soaked the bed sheets, thank god ... (169 words)

I'm not happy and his dog also causes me problems. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

29 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone Hope someone could give me some good advice me and my boyfriend have been together nearly 4 years we have a 2 year old and a 1 year old and he Has a dog a rottweiler that he had when we met we moved in together. He is at work all day I'm at home with the kids and... (207 words)

Can I save this situation? What can I do if the girl I like is starting to show less interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

29 September 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear all To summarize, a girl i like may be losing interest. what should i do? I met this girl online 15 days ago, she lives about 1 hour away. we did not meet via a dating website, she chose to contact me as she had just moved to the area. We spoke a lot on days ... (499 words)

His ex was a slim red-head. Am I being silly by making the connection between his ex and what he's been preferring to watch via porn?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3371 days ago

29 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Sometimes my boyfriend and I watch porn during sex. My boyfriend doesn't have a particular type... blonde/ chubby / tattooed/whatever - he really has a broad taste but I know he prefers curvier brunette girls. However recently he's been looking at very slim red heads. His e... (89 words)

Is there a possibility for someone like my husband can change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3348 days ago

29 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid. I have been living with my husband for 7 years now. For past 2 yrs things have been a roller coaster. I have left twice just for 5 wks at least to get a break from him and his tantrums. The first time I left I took our two kids with us, he told me to take them ... (956 words)

Should I be this worried about how success may change him and us and our future ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

29 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i have a serious problem, that has been bothering me for a long time now. My fiance and i are super close and always have been since we met. One of the most beautiful things that i have found about us, is the simplicity and groundedness of our relationship. He ... (408 words)

I'm 14 and in UK. He's 17 and in USA. How can I manage the crush I have for him? The first thing he asked is "did I want to see his .

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

29 September 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay so I have been talking to this guy on Snapchat and Instagram he's 17 and lives in America first thing you need to know is he's a boy and I think I've kinda fallen for him. He asked me if I wanted to see his dick and of corse I said no then we agreed that we wouldn't... (200 words)

Help ! Should we get back together? Did he really cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3371 days ago

29 September 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - First off people of the internet, I apologize for the really long post I really just want you all to fully understand the situation (: So.. I recently broke up with my ex boyfriend because my friend told me she saw him grinding with another girl at a party. Looking back at ... (550 words)

Is it too dangerous for me to be delivering pizza?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

29 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship question but I would like the honest opinions if the people here on dearcupid. I am a 20 year old girl and a college student. I have been hired as a part time pizza delivery driver for a local pizza place. At first I was all for it and very ... (247 words)

The man that I am dating doesn't know how to tell his lady friend about me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age - Dear aunties and uncles I posted on here in June about a man I have been seeing: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-it-is-worth-me-continuing.html I am 55 and 4 months ago I met a man who is 60. 8 months before we met he had met a lady who he liked and ... (719 words)

Is Using A Dildo If You're A Virgin Safe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm saving it for the right guy. Anyway, I want something "up there" but I'm pretty sure I haven't lost my hymen as I've barely even fingered myself and I feel really tight because I am petite. I can get myself to orgasm without penetration though. I want to buy a small dild... (115 words)

I recently discovered that my husband had secretly taken nude photos of me while we had sex. How would you react

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Would you be a) be flattered and not let it bother you, b) be disgusted c) feel violated d) be angry and could never forgive him e) be confused f) wonder if he secretly takes pictures of other women in public unbeknownst to them g) be on edge if other people stayed at your home ... (367 words)

Should I sacrifice my life and go help my mom? Am I being a bad person because I want to be selfish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3372 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I've asked a question related to this but I want to ask once more just cos I don't know how I feel and am sure you can help. I am 40 year old Asian woman. I live alone as I was in a marriage with an alcoholic spouse for many years and now am planning on getting a divorc... (315 words)

Is this even a long distance relationship? How do I confront him about our complicated situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - BACKGROUND: Ok so there's this guy called E.(2 years older) I met him on a dating app while I'm on an overseas internship. We seem to chat alright online. However when we met, we're both socially awkward and it was hard to get a good conversation down. But we managed t... (570 words)

I wonder if maybe my ex was the one? But I really like this new man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3372 days ago

28 September 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, Me and my boyfriend of two and a half years broke up about 5/6 weeks ago now. WeWeren't making each other happy and the break up was fairly mutual, he had suggest breaking up two weeks previous to this. Before breaking up I met another guy, he made me laugh, he mad... (338 words)

I'm incredibly attracted to him but not ready to have sex after only one month and 4 dates!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a guy for almost a month. We met on a popular dating app and hit it off immediately on our first date. We talked for hours and ended up having to be told to leave the restaurant because they were closing. He took me out for dinner a few days later and again, ... (412 words)

I've fallen in love with him, but I'm afraid I'm reading too much into things! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

28 September 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I met an alcoholic guy back in May when I was in hospital with complications from my Diabetes and he was in for Liver problems. We were there together for about a week and, when we got out, we started hanging out together. Within two weeks this got to the point... (693 words)

I'm concerned that men my online 17 year old FWB meets will use her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

28 September 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - hi so i have met a girl online, she is from another country and we became friends, she suffers from mild depression, but she is very nice and beautiful and i really like her, i wont say i love her because i know its not possible to fall in love online but i really do like her... (385 words)

Am I being unreasonable? How can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I am very stuck. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months and we were very happy and content together. I never thought that I would be thinking of breaking up with him but I really feel stuck. We were making plans for the future such as moving countr... (723 words)

Is my local Starbucks barista flirting with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Is my local Starbucks barista flirting with me? So everything I go to my local Starbucks the same guy is there. When I first encountered him he told me that my nails was pretty. I'm guessing that that is a icebreaker. And another time he told he he was infatuated with my smile... (101 words)

My boyfriend just told me he would not be able to resist really good looking women ....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 2 years and I were discussing our plans to go travelling overseas, where he told me we would need to stay away from certain countries where there are "extremely good looking women" because he wouldn't be able to control himself. He basically said if he was ... (112 words)

I am falling in love with my housemate.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I've just started uni and I've already got feelings for one of my housemates which is essentially breaking the cardinal rule of freshers. It started when he was being really sweet trying to encourage me to get involved with of the flat (I'm quite shy and although the rest ... (259 words)

He felt me pulling away so he lied to me about where he was!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

27 September 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I'm newly divorced and have been dating a man for 9'months. He has been separated from his wife for 6 years, filed for divorce 4 years ago and the lawyers still have not reached an agreement. I was initially worried dating him since his divorce was not complete... (542 words)

Is it possible for someone to sleep 12 hours a day for weeks at a time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

27 September 2015 (F) age 36-40 - Is it possible for someone to sleep 12 hours a day consistently for weeks??? He sleeps at 3am every night and doesn't wake up until 3pm or later in the afternoon! Then he takes his time to get up, shower, and go get food to eat. Then he rests a bit and goes to the gym around ... (210 words)

Is it weird that I'm not interested in dating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

27 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I guess I don't quite know how to put this in the form of a question. Basically I'm just curious if it's really so bad to not have an interest in dating? I have told myself that I'm most likely asexual although I'm attracted to men, just no desire to pursue anything wit... (292 words)

My childhood friend is passively mean to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

27 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, So I have this friend I grew up with. He is a little eccentric in his behavior but we had a fun childhood together. He was my best friend for a very long time. As we grew, I guess he started liking me and still does I guess. I love him as a friend and mean no disr... (290 words)

This other guy is much nicer than my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

27 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year now and I must say we do have our ups and downs. He has a bit of a temper and a bit touchy and get angry a lot. There's also this guy that is totally opposite to my bf. He's sweet, kind, smart and ambitious and ... (326 words)

Am I being controlling to my boyfriend? How do we work this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

27 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I started dating a guy from work and as we were getting to know each other I learnt that he takes cocaine on the occasional night out and smokes a lot of weed. He is also a regular smoker, but I knew this all along. In the early stages I made it perfectly clear that I did... (437 words)

I'm still dealing with the emotional trauma from a past rape but my boyfriend hasn't been understanding. Should I leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

27 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - 2 years ago I was raped and recently I received a lot of compensation for what happened to me. I left my job I was in after I was raped as I worked in a Pawnbrokers and I had a lot of regular customers who were men, lots of them would try flirting with me and I just couldn't ... (636 words)

I feel like he just charmed me to get me to the bed and now that it's over, he's withdrawing himself. I feel disrespected, humiliated, hurt and betrayed.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

27 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for the past three weeks. He seemed to be a nice, caring and romantic person who made me feel special and showered me with attention. Now, we've entered a relationship since the last 15 days (the guy himself brought this up), however asked me to keep ... (267 words)

Dating, for me, is so difficult emotionally, but I so badly want a relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

27 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a pretty quite person, so when someone makes an effort to get to know me, I become flattered that they would even bother. When a guy approaches me, talks to me, texts me, flirts, I go head over heels. I feel special, I want to make him feel special, I want him to know... (271 words)

Our daughter is stealing from us how do we stop it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

27 September 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married with one child who is 16. Like most teenagers my daughter has gone through rebellious stages but I feel as if it is going too far. My daughter for the past 4-5 months has been stealing money from us. After about 50 dollars being gone I asked her if she wa... (233 words)

If I don't hear from her, do you think it's ok to message her again tomorrow?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

26 September 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I met a girl on a language exchange site, usually it's for meeting people in other countries but a girl who had moved to study near to me from another country, saw my profile and sent me a message. She asked for my number and we've been chatting a lot, every day since ... (413 words)