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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello. I had been seeing this guy recently (about 5months) and things were going pretty well then out of the blue he began acting strange and distant. I asked him why and a first he said he was fine and later said that he thought I was going to ask him for a real relationship (which I wasn't anytime soon) and that he didn't view me that was but I was an amazing woman and deserve better. While him giving the whole revamped its not you its me b.s. did upset me and make me sad because I really liked him, what bothers me more is that I keep having this same exact conversation with every man I've ever gone out with. They all say I'm awesome and beautiful person but not one of them wanted a relationship? With is has been the case since I was 16 (I'm now 29) and I am just wondering if there is something I'm missing? Why in 13 years not one man has wanted me to be his girlfriend or wanted a relationship if I'm so wonderful and so awesome a woman? I'm far from the most beautiful woman in the world but I think I'm somewhat attractive, I have a decent job, my own place, no children come from a great family and like to have fun. I don't whine and beg men for anything and I take care of myself. I just don't understand. Is there something really wrong with me?!? I just don't get why no one wants to be in a relationship. I've reached a point where I feel like I don't deserve to be with anyone and have zero faith in love or dating for myself. I'm giving up. Please help Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (30 September 2015):
 Awww, first of, I seriously doubt it's you.
Secondly I'm curious as you where/how you met these guy and thirdly, when you "see" someone (like this last guy) is sex involved from the beginning?
I would think about you having to "change" you, but maybe change up the places you met these guys or the "type" (if you usually go for a certain type)?
And seriously I'd take a break from looking for a partner, go enjoy life. It seems like when you really don't give a fly's fart about meeting a good one, you meet a good one.
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