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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm having trouble dealing with being an idiot after something horrific happened to me. How can I get through this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

17 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having a bit of a problem with confidence at the moment and I don't know how to stop feeling so bad about myself. About two years ago I was raped and I started drinking quite a lot after it, even took drugs which I'm really ashamed of. Before it happened my life was quit... (389 words)

Men: Do you consider it cheating when you go to a Buck's Night out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

17 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So my question is mainly for men. I was just wondering why when men go to a bucks night they enjoy the shows that include sex toys and watch a woman use them? What is the fulfilment of this? Do they fantasize about it? what is arousing by that when you have a partner willing to ... (87 words)

Guys, would you rather date Girl A or Girl B?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

17 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Girl A: -quite "generic" -long hair, decent sized boobs but slim, wears dresses and hardly ever trousers and a lot of heels -doesn't wear makeup -bit of a goody two shoes, always annoyingly nice to everyone, comes off as fake, ridiculously big on morals and rumoured ... (239 words)

How do I get enough guts to talk to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

17 September 2015 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi guys iam 15 year old guy I like a girl which is very-very Beautiful I just want to talk to her but can't get enough guts she even noticed that sometimes I look at her with lustrous eyes but she ignore it Plz suggest me some ways that how I propose her Note ?? I Know her but ... (65 words)

How do I sort things out with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

17 September 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm off to university for my 2nd year tomorrow and I am living in student accomodation again. I met this girl on facebook as she messaged me cause we were living in the same accomodation and originally going to be neighbours before I got moved flat. we get on really well a... (287 words)

Should his past divorce dictate our never marrying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

17 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - It's a thought, but I just don't know what to believe. My daughters father was previously married. In fact, in a very romantic show of it he proposed to her and even got their engagement on the cover of a popular newspaper. Well, we have been together two years now. And he ... (237 words)

How can I create a family feeling environment with friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

17 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Due to divorce and a very dysfunctional and toxic family of my own I find myself quite isolated. I am currently having counselling and have decided to go very low contact with my parents and no contact with my sister who have continually bullied me and held me back - well into ... (260 words)

I'm wondering if it would be best to end things with my boyfriend because of his ex and child and all the drama?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

17 September 2015 (F) age 36-40 - I don't know how to deal with my boyfriend's child drama. My boyfriend and I are the same age, and we have a great relationship. We love each other a lot, we've been together for almost two years and never had a big issue. Currently we're living together (we moved out of tow... (980 words)

How can I explain to my guy in a good way what I want sexually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

17 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunties and uncles, I know this is silly but I need to figure out a way to explain to my new partner how unsatisfactory sex with him is. everything is in shambles, we being dating for 3 months and have only had sexual intercourse 2 times so far and it wasn’t good, first ti... (388 words)

How to make an anonymous compliment without being creepy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

17 September 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - Is there a way for a man to pay an anonymous compliment to a woman without it freaking her out or making him seem creepy? (Like for instance by e-mail?) Thanks! (BTW I don't mean something lame like 'oh my gawd u r so hot!!' LOL) ... (54 words)

My girlfriend doesn't see herself coming out for at least 3 or 4 years, and things are really complicated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

17 September 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi agony aunts, I've been with my girlfriend for almost 6 months which I know isn't a long time, but she's been my best friend for 4 years. We decided to start dating because, we've always sort of been in love with each other. But, she's in the closet and I'm not. At school, ... (278 words)

No contact with each other can't take about sex only one position for sex I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3349 days ago

17 September 2015 (M)

age - I'm married for 37 yrs.wonderful wife but things aren't perfect.she's just gone through menopause.we both have physical problems but here's the question? She seems she doesn't care about sex no more.I've tried to be a good husband I've worked hard and she has to.she doesn't ... (108 words)

Is there is a point of no return with regards to personal failures and disappointing lifestyles?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

17 September 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I am ill disciplined and have no ambition. I am the source and creator of all my current misery. However, I would like to change myself. I have been able to work myself into a "better" version of myself but my problem now is that I am afraid that it is too late. I'm 24 ye... (164 words)

Did I just lose my virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

17 September 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, I'm 18 yrs old and I fingered myself then it just started bleeding Does it mean that I have lost my virginity?? Will it bleed when i have actual sex?... (33 words)

Was he just frustrated sexually and I was just there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

17 September 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello, I really need some help. I'm 16 and I recently made a terrible mistake. I needed help with a college project so asked a guy I knew (my dads friends son) to help as he had already done a similar thing. He's 18 and has a girlfriend of 14 months. We ended up sleeping ... (107 words)

I don't like myself naked and seem to have issues with sex. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

17 September 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi all I am a 16 yo female. I'm looking for some help. Recently all my friends have been losing their virginity and I'm jealous, not because they are having sex, but because they are confident enough to allow another person to see them naked. I really dislike the way I look and ... (253 words)

Why am I waking up in the middle of the night unhappy that I'm in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

17 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - For a few nights in a row, I've woken up in the middle of the night with a feeling of utter sadness about being in this relationship with my boyfriend. We have our disagreements and do have arguements but they don't last longer than a few hours. So why is it that I've been ... (201 words)

How do I regain her trust from a distance when she already previously had abandonment issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3346 days ago

17 September 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm the type of man who is fortunate enough to have rarely had to chase women in the past few years. College has been good to me. So this is a weird predicament for me: I am head over heels for this girl right now. We dated for about 2 months over the summer, and she was head... (984 words)

My boyfriend doesn't think I try hard enough. I'm afraid he'll leave me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

17 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I get in arguments that I don't try hard enough in life. I'm 24, I go to school, take 18 credits, have a part time job and in my free time do things like homework, draw and watch TV. Sometimes, I get lazy. I have clinical depression and my moods ... (239 words)

Boyfriend being manipulated by two girls who have already manipulated my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3346 days ago

17 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is being manipulated by two girls at work. One of them told me he never mentions me, thats she didnt know he had a girlfriend and hes always flirting with her- i know he talks anout me other people tell me he does all the time. He went out with them the other ... (157 words)

Seeking tips on how to talk to woman through a dating site please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3350 days ago

17 September 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Friends! Thanks in advance for taking time and giving me your suggestions/advice. I am 31, Indian, 5'6" and recently divorced. I come from a rather conservative background. Didn't really date much outside my culture. I had a very bad relationship with my spouse and ... (258 words)

My ex has confused me. Why would he block me? Was he mad that I defriended him on FB?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

17 September 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I would really appreciate it if I could get an outside perspective of this situation I'm going through. I'm really upset and don't understand what's wrong with this guy. I recently turned 20 and my ex is 21. I met him during the end of January (from a dating site) and we met... (642 words)

I'm wondering why it is so hard for me to enjoy an orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

17 September 2015 (?) age 36-40 - I apologize if this is TMI. I have been dating a wonderful man for several months now. I lost my virginity to him (and I was fairly old to be losing my virginity). I grew up with a significant amount of sexual shame and guilt. I masturbated maybe once or twice a month si... (203 words)

How can I hang in this relationship any longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

17 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont know where to begin but i am in a relationship that has to end. It's horrible. I have never been so unhappy and so alone. I often find myself wondering about my exboyfriend. Ive been in this current relationship for 5 uears now. The more i do for this man the more he ... (257 words)

Am I having a mental block that I am unable to climax with a guy? Even though I enjoy giving pleasure to a guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3352 days ago

17 September 2015 (M)

age - Bi sexual I have been straight and married for some 40 years now, but since now ex-wife said NO MORE SEX, I have since have had oral sex with a few men which I have really enjoyed both receiving and giving... My partners say I'm very good, and have got them all off in my mouth.... (119 words)

Any ideas on how to liven up the sex life with my older boyfriend? He says he is far too old for sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

17 September 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 45 and my boyfriend is 57 and been with him 4 months and everything at first was fine until he kept on saying that he is too old for this too old for that and sex is soo boring that I am not surprised that I have not fallen asleep during it any ideas what to do to liven it ... (138 words)