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Archived questions from: 28 September, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

The man that I am dating doesn't know how to tell his lady friend about me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age - Dear aunties and uncles I posted on here in June about a man I have been seeing: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-it-is-worth-me-continuing.html I am 55 and 4 months ago I met a man who is 60. 8 months before we met he had met a lady who he liked and ... (719 words)

Is Using A Dildo If You're A Virgin Safe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm saving it for the right guy. Anyway, I want something "up there" but I'm pretty sure I haven't lost my hymen as I've barely even fingered myself and I feel really tight because I am petite. I can get myself to orgasm without penetration though. I want to buy a small dild... (115 words)

I recently discovered that my husband had secretly taken nude photos of me while we had sex. How would you react

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Would you be a) be flattered and not let it bother you, b) be disgusted c) feel violated d) be angry and could never forgive him e) be confused f) wonder if he secretly takes pictures of other women in public unbeknownst to them g) be on edge if other people stayed at your home ... (367 words)

Should I sacrifice my life and go help my mom? Am I being a bad person because I want to be selfish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3341 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I've asked a question related to this but I want to ask once more just cos I don't know how I feel and am sure you can help. I am 40 year old Asian woman. I live alone as I was in a marriage with an alcoholic spouse for many years and now am planning on getting a divorc... (315 words)

Is this even a long distance relationship? How do I confront him about our complicated situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - BACKGROUND: Ok so there's this guy called E.(2 years older) I met him on a dating app while I'm on an overseas internship. We seem to chat alright online. However when we met, we're both socially awkward and it was hard to get a good conversation down. But we managed t... (570 words)

I wonder if maybe my ex was the one? But I really like this new man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3341 days ago

28 September 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, Me and my boyfriend of two and a half years broke up about 5/6 weeks ago now. WeWeren't making each other happy and the break up was fairly mutual, he had suggest breaking up two weeks previous to this. Before breaking up I met another guy, he made me laugh, he mad... (338 words)

I'm incredibly attracted to him but not ready to have sex after only one month and 4 dates!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a guy for almost a month. We met on a popular dating app and hit it off immediately on our first date. We talked for hours and ended up having to be told to leave the restaurant because they were closing. He took me out for dinner a few days later and again, ... (412 words)

I've fallen in love with him, but I'm afraid I'm reading too much into things! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

28 September 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I met an alcoholic guy back in May when I was in hospital with complications from my Diabetes and he was in for Liver problems. We were there together for about a week and, when we got out, we started hanging out together. Within two weeks this got to the point... (693 words)

I'm concerned that men my online 17 year old FWB meets will use her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

28 September 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - hi so i have met a girl online, she is from another country and we became friends, she suffers from mild depression, but she is very nice and beautiful and i really like her, i wont say i love her because i know its not possible to fall in love online but i really do like her... (385 words)

Am I being unreasonable? How can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I am very stuck. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months and we were very happy and content together. I never thought that I would be thinking of breaking up with him but I really feel stuck. We were making plans for the future such as moving countr... (723 words)

Is my local Starbucks barista flirting with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Is my local Starbucks barista flirting with me? So everything I go to my local Starbucks the same guy is there. When I first encountered him he told me that my nails was pretty. I'm guessing that that is a icebreaker. And another time he told he he was infatuated with my smile... (101 words)

My boyfriend just told me he would not be able to resist really good looking women ....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3314 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 2 years and I were discussing our plans to go travelling overseas, where he told me we would need to stay away from certain countries where there are "extremely good looking women" because he wouldn't be able to control himself. He basically said if he was ... (112 words)

I am falling in love with my housemate.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

28 September 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I've just started uni and I've already got feelings for one of my housemates which is essentially breaking the cardinal rule of freshers. It started when he was being really sweet trying to encourage me to get involved with of the flat (I'm quite shy and although the rest ... (259 words)