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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I ask him to choose or ask him how he feels about his lady friend now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3366 days ago

2 September 2015 (F)

age - I met a man through friends about 4 months ago and we started seeing each other as just friends. Our friendship seems to be growing into something more which is lovely, as we get on really well and it's obvious that he likes me very much. Each time I see him he seems to be mo... (490 words)

I don't want to be bitchy over this. Any advice on how to handle this please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3365 days ago

2 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I messed up things with my boyfriend and did something wrong for which he dumped me. I am really sorry about it but he will not stop getting angry with me and texting me horrible things. We had a week long argument which resulted in him saying something really awful t... (326 words)

How can I break this cycle? How do I make my boyfriend less possessive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3366 days ago

2 September 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend of almost 2 years is exceptionally caring, generous and always complimenting me. However he is also an incredibly jealous person, and gets angry at the slightest things, for example me liking photos that have boys in them on social media. He says I'm allowed ... (135 words)

What can I do? Getting feelings for an online crush

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3367 days ago

2 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy online a couple weeks ago. We started texting and I'm starting to like him. Every day I find myself looking forward for his texts everyday because he always makes me laugh and is fun tot all to. I have no idea what he looks like since we didn't meet thru dating w... (183 words)

I have a poor relationship with her. How do I deal with the fact that my mother is the 'other woman'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3365 days ago

2 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I would start by saying I cannot bring myself to forgive the woman I have called mother for years. I often asked her why she was never married to the abusive man I called father for years, she always tossed my questions to the side. With further questioning like a detective, ... (217 words)

Why did he encourage me to move all this way and bring all my things with me, but now he wants me to leave? What can I do? I feel stuck and penniless.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3366 days ago

2 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - am so confused, I need some good opinions. So, I have been with my now xboyfriend for over two years. I am from SC and him PA. We have moved back and forth together for awhile but it never works out from bad luck and the fact that we break up all the time. Well about 5 weeks ... (197 words)

I'm having trouble knowing what to do. Relationship issues.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3366 days ago

2 September 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm having trouble knowing what to do. I have been in a relationship with a girl for about 11 years. We have had a very up and down relationship. Our love for each other was the strongest and the compatibility even stronger, in the beginning. We stumbled through years 3-... (980 words)

I am still hurt by feelings of betrayal, humiliation and embarassment and need help on how to deal with this, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

2 September 2015 (F) age 26-29 - I made out with a guy 5 months ago at a great party at university. I stay outside school so it was late and i had nowhere to go but to stay at the party until sunrise or at least when its safe to go to my room. I went there with some two girls so we all had to wait until ... (469 words)

Why did he lie about my singing? Should I raise this with him, or drop it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

2 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering if I should be upset or just let it go. My husband and I were at a birthday party dinner for one of his friends that I have only met once so I knew no one at this party. I fell easily into conversation with a women at the dinner party and she was telling my h... (210 words)

Four years of dating, so why is my Gf continuing to refuse penetrative sex, with so many "no" excuses?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3366 days ago

2 September 2015 (M)

age - My girlfriend won't have penetrative sex with me, although we enjoy other forms of intimacy. She gives excuses like soreness, or thrush, but even on the few occasions I have started full sex she doesn't allow me complete entrance. I'm a 67 years old normally proportioned man... (132 words)

He rejected me years ago. Should I ask him to be friends again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

2 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in love with this guy friend for three years now. He knows about my feelings because I confessed a few months before our college graduation. Unfortunately, he doesn't love me back and only loves me as a friend. We didn't talk for a year after college. I remov... (367 words)

If your partner cheated, would you want to know?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3360 days ago

2 September 2015 (F) age 41-50 - I've been on this site for a while and I'm horrified at the number if times cheaters have been told to keep quiet about the affair or the kiss 'to spare the partner's feelings'. If my partner cheated on me I would want to know. If he cheated and then lied about it / kept ... (293 words)

Do you think he really cares for me & is just wanting me for himself - or are these the signs of an abusive relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

2 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend makes me feel special and is very protective over me. However, sometimes when I challenge him over his past he gets very bad tempered and verbally abusive to me and won't speak. We made up after the last time as it was just a misunderstanding over an ex who w... (146 words)

Have I done the wrong thing by being direct with my partner regarding his personal hygiene? Should I have never said anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

2 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently approached my partner about sometimes his personal hygiene being not as good as it should be, I had tried to encourage him through being tactful, playful etc for quite some time, and it hit a final straw recently, as it has effected our sex life and I have some large ... (315 words)

Is she flirting, or just being friendly? Shall I ask her if she'd like to walk in the park?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

2 September 2015 (M)

age - Hello, like to ask advice. I do deliveries to businesses, when I do one, there is a woman, I like to ask , out, maybe a walk in a park, or coffee. the last time, she opened the door for me, she has no way of seeing me coming,then she walk with me to where I put the boxes of... (149 words)

Men, what would you like your girlfriend to text you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

2 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Guy I'm dating likes to text me hello, asks about my day or what I'm up to or follow up questions and to make plans for when we see each other next. However, it is usually always him who initiates the texting. He has questioned why I never text him. He got really upset ab... (138 words)