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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How to deal with boyfriend's best female friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

14 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - We have been together a bit more than a year. Half a year ago we had hard time in our relationship (broke up for a few weeks). No serious reason: we are two stubborn people. My boyfriend has a female friend (for 3-4 years by now) with who they share eachother's problems... (350 words)

S it normal that he gets bored so fast? I'v reached my limit on the blowjob acting.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

14 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Dearcupid community! :) I've been dating my boyfriend for less than a year. He was the first person I ever gave a blowjob to, so I learned everything from him or the internet and after a few weeks of "practice" I became able to make him cum. I would give him several ... (243 words)

Is he just making jokey conversation or is he expressing interest about wanting to talk about it more with the innuendo and winking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

14 September 2015 (F) - I am in my early 40s and on facebook the other day I messaged an old ex of mine who I am friends with on there. The comment was simply about spiders (as I hate them) and I remembered about staying at his house 20 years ago in his room and told him about a great big one on his ... (197 words)

I consider myself a straight male, but I have this urge to be sexual with a man, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

14 September 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - I consider myself a straight male, had a few girlfriends and only find women attractive and view as partners. But I have this urge to be sexual with a man, to be as I know it as a bottom, there's just something that really excites me, I don't want to be in a relationship with a ... (130 words)

Am I stretching it too much by not taking recommendations?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

14 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello dear cupids, I am 24 yr old girl. I have completed my masters degree in life sciences. But after many trials and interviews I am still unemployed for 2 years. I don't want to take references and recommendations as I believe in my own ability. But I am feeling very ... (82 words)

Was this girl a virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

14 September 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Was this girl a virgin? This may seem like an odd question, but I assure you that the answer is important to me (I won’t get into the reasons why it is important). I have my opinion of the answer, but I’m “just a guy”. I would be very grateful for any thoughts from a ... (521 words)

What are your options in a situation where you do everything you can for your spouse yet it is never enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

14 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - what are your options to a situation where you do everything you can for your spouse yet it is never enough? I have a job outside the home 4 months out of the year and the other 8 months I stay home. Even when I am working I take on the total care of the house (cook, clean, ... (445 words)

He tells me to stop moaning! Help me out, I need advice, everybody tell me what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

14 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Just started dating a guy Ive known 20yrs cos he been asking me out for ever and said I mean whole world to him. Hes a lovely guy and I thought life’s getting better. But now we together, he works away and never texts me, except every 3 days or so. He said he wants to do ... (714 words)

Guy does lots of eye contact, but never start a conversation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

14 September 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, recently I've been thinking about this guy a lot, nonstop. I've liked this guy for years, but finally I decided to try to give him signs that I do like him. So a year ago, after I've worked on my confidence issues and tried to be more open and confident about myself, ... (347 words)

I am absolutely dreading going to the mutual friend's wedding because my ex will be there with the other woman. I feel like the loser and she will be gloating and all over him :(

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

14 September 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupids I was seeing a man for a few months and we were getting on really well and his behaviour towards me showed that he was really interested and keen. He said that I was fun, interesting, and pretty, and we had some wonderful times together. We didn't sleep tog... (424 words)

Should I wait for him to call or should I call him the following evening?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3355 days ago

14 September 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I had met a guy for coffee one afternoon and we seemed to get along well. At the end when we were about to part ways he asked if it was ok if he hugged me. No objection it was brief (afternoon in front a restaurant)and he said I could call him, and vice versa.What would the ... (75 words)

Engaged and then we broke up, engaged again and now he wants to break up...again!! None of it makes any sense

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3355 days ago

14 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I started dating January 2012. It actually went quicker than I'm use to. By July we moved in together. In December 2013 we got engaged for the first time. In August 2014 he broke up with me. For weeks I was a mess. At 6 weeks I accepted everything and w... (416 words)

Should we end the marriage rather than try save it for the sake of our daughter

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

14 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I did it. I have finally confronted my husband to let him know how unhappy I am in our marriage. We argue about silly things. Mainly most recently due to our toddler growing up and how different we deal with her been corrected. For a long time when we have a disagreement or ... (393 words)

Is it too soon to ask him "what are we?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

14 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been seeing this guy for a month and we meet almost every single day,we haven't had sex ,but when he held my hand for the very first time I have never felt sparks like that before and we have kissed but nothing more has happened!all I think is he doesn't beleive ... (93 words)

I'm in love with a difficult housemate and I don't know if I should move out or not.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

14 September 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Around 9 months ago I received a facebook message from someone I've never met before and a friend request :" Hey man, how are you? You were proposed as a friend and I think I remember having you as a tinder match. ;) You seem like a nice person, so I thought I'd add you. Hope ... (354 words)

Does this not seem like a very strange interaction and departure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

14 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My now ex-Gen. Manager left our place of business under suspicious circumstances. The business had been growing. and getting better since he opened it. Great staff and management team. Award wining company. Anyway, since the day he hired me, he has become for a lack of a ... (350 words)

I kissed my crush when drunk and now he says he wants to forget everything that happened

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3355 days ago

14 September 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - heyy So yesterday I and a guyfriend got really drunk at a party, and we ended up making out outside.I have always had this mini crush for him, but he is kindaf obsessed with this other girl who doesn´t like him back. He says he wants to forget everything and go back to just bei... (138 words)

How to get over this crush on my bank teller?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3355 days ago

14 September 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - recently i have my own bank account and i mostly go to the bank to cash in my check on fridays and one of my bank tellers is a beautiful young lady who is kind sweet and gentle to me and helps me despot my money and sometimes she calls me dear and she is the only girl i seem to ... (105 words)