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writes:So I was talking to this guy that I met.We haven't spend time in person yet but we coommunicate regulary.He brought up sex the first time we spoke .Last time he wanted to come over at my apartment but I told him that I'm not comfotable inviting him over the first time.I want to meet in public first.He said cool no problem. I wasn't sure were I stand with him so I told him that I'm not up for a random hook up, I'm looking for someone to date.I want to keep our first few interactions out side our homes and go on real dates as we get to know each other. I then asked him if he just wants to hook up or want the same things as me.He didn't respond then I sent another text telling him that I just want to make sure that we're on the same page and want the same things. He then responded and said "it is what I want".I asked him again to confirm if we want the same things since his respond was vague.He stopped responding. He never contacted me.Did I came too strong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys for your responses. I didn't meet him on online. I actually met him at the beach when walking my dog.so I met him real life
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (30 September 2015):
 I don't think you came on too strong, but he REALLY was just looking for a hook up, but knew the moment he told you that... you would run for the hills.
Let this one go. Move on.
You are doing what is right for you, and that is NOT getting into "hooking" up with a guy you don't really know.
Where did you meet him? On Tindr or another app? Because that IS more of a hook up site than a dating site.
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reader, suzzzque269 +, writes (30 September 2015):
 imo all he wanted was sex...nothing more. im sorry but a lot of guys are like that but atleast he had enough decency not to lead you on.
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